How Do I Prepare For Mediation?

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Mediation draws people from all walks of life. Some couples agree to try mediation first before filing for divorce. Others may have been compelled to participate by a judge. No matter what, we can’t say enough about how important it is to be ready.

Our attorneys at Goldman and Associates Law Firm believe that settling family law disputes in a non-confrontational way is beneficial for all parties. The mediation procedure isn’t for everyone, but it helps if the parties concerned are open to negotiating. To help you win at mediation, our lawyer will help you gather the evidence you need to support your side.

Defining Mediation in Michigan

Mediation is a way of reaching an agreement. It can help you find solutions to problems in your situation. Mediation is a means of resolving a dispute without a judge.

During mediation, both parties discuss the situation with an unbiased mediator. Each of you will get an opportunity to tell the mediator everything you want to transpire in this case. The mediator is not a judge, so he or she won’t say who is right or wrong or make judgments for you. The mediator will help you work out your legal problems and, if it’s possible, try to reach a settlement.

The purpose of mediation is to obtain a fair agreement that is acceptable to all parties. It can be voluntary or ordered by a judge and is most effective when it is voluntary and both parties believe it will aid in the resolution of the issue. However, when the judge requires it, mediation can still be effective.

Preparing for Mediation in Michigan

Mediation is a collaborative effort. The mediator will assist you and the other party in reaching mutual agreements. Here are a few tips for effectively preparing for mediation sessions:

1. First, you need to get together all of the important paperwork, such as court records from previous cases, prenuptial agreements, and data about your assets and liabilities. To get the most out of your mediation sessions, you’ll want the assistance of one of our attorneys.
2. If you have children, don’t forget to include a copy of your family’s calendar, which should include all of their regularly planned activities and routines. Arrangements for custody and visitation may depend on where your child needs to live or how busy you or your spouse are at certain times.
3. Think about what you want to happen and talk to your lawyer about it before the mediation sessions begin. Think about how much you’re prepared to compromise to achieve your goals. Mediation can change, but it always gives people a safe place to think of new ways to solve problems.

Hire a Skilled Michigan Family Law Attorney

Whether you hire us as a mediator or an attorney, we will work hard as your mediator or attorney to negotiate agreements that satisfy your family’s needs. Our experienced attorneys at Goldman and Associates can help you prepare for mediation. Schedule a consultation today.