What to Do if You Suspect Sexual Abuse of a Child – Michigan Law

What to do if you suspect sexual abuse of a child? You are separated. You are the parents of a child. You overhear a child allegedly suffered abuse under your supervision. Exercise extreme caution. You are observing or learning about a potential crime. You should call the cops. Perhaps Child Protective Services rather than the police. Both have an impact on what will follow.

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Your attorney must advise you. Recognize what you’re about to do. It’s possible that you share a residence with the partner you’re blaming. If the child has been abused, you can be asked to leave. Your child might be removed. You’re unprepared for that. There will be a CPS case for your child. If this is taking place, you must immediately contact your attorney.

 

Sexual abuse is always with someone you know. What do you mean by sexual abuse of a child?

The people who abuse children appear and behave like everyone else. Sexual abuse is most often by someone the child knows. Sexual contact with a child is child sexual abuse or molestation.

They can be in churches, schools, and youth sports groups. Abusers can be close friends, relatives, or neighbors. Abuse can happen in families, schools, churches, recreation centers, youth, and sports organizations. It can happen in any setting where children congregate. It can all harbor perpetrators of child sexual abuse.

The fact that abusers can be and frequently are other children is significant.

90% of kids who experience sexual assault know the perpetrator. 10% of children sexually molested are victimized by a stranger. 30% of children who experience sexual abuse are victimized by family members.

The victim’s age affects how probable a family member the abuser is to be. 50% of those who abused a child under six were related to the victim. 23% of those who abused children between the ages of 12 and 17 were also family members. Around 60% of sexual abusers who are adults target children. They are persons the family knows and trusts. Instances of sexual abuse against children include:

[ a ] Stroking or fondling of a child’s private parts for sexual purposes.

[ b ] Putting items or body parts inside a child’s mouth, anus, or vagina for unnecessary reasons or sexual gratification.

[ c ] Exposing or showing oneself inappropriately to a child.

[ d ] Having sex with a child. Masturbating or coercing a child into masturbating.

[ e ] Taking a sexual photo of a child.

[ f ] Exposing a child to porn.

[ g ] Observing a child change into new clothes or use the restroom without the child’s consent.

[ h ] Using a computer, a phone, or other social media to approach a minor for sexual purposes.

The term sexual abuse of a child may not apply to all instances of sexual exploitation or molestation of children. Maryland has a more detailed definition of sexual abuse of a minor. Sexual abuse of a minor in sexual molestation or exploitation instances denotes that the perpetrator had a special relationship with the victim.

 

What signs to watch out for sexual abuse?

Child sexual abuse gives out warning indicators. Indicators of sexual abuse can vary greatly from child to child. They could appear right away or much later in the child’s life. These symptoms might be classified as emotional, behavioral, or physical symptoms. The warning indications for each of these groups are listed below.

 

Physical indicators:

[ a ] Bloody diapers and underwear

[ b ] Torn undergarments

[ c ] Genital bruising, edema, or irritability

[ d ] Urinary infections or yeast infections

[ e ] Difficulty urinating or bowel movement

[ f ] Having trouble sitting or standing

[ g ] Genital ache, itchiness, or burning

[ h ] HIV/AIDS, a sexually transmitted disease (STI)

[ i ] Pregnancy

 

Emotional indicators:

[ a ] Shame\Guilt

[ b ] Distrustful

[ c ] Powerlessness

[ d ] Hopelessness

[ e ] Feeling unworthy

[ f ] Anger

[ g ] Both anxiety and depression

[ h ] Low self-esteem

[ i ] A sense of not being good enough

 

Behavioral indicators:

[ a ] Acting suddenly younger than their years (e.g. bed wetting, thumb sucking, etc.)

[ b ] Nightmares or night terrors

[ c ] Expressing or acting in a sexual manner that seems out of age

[ d ] Sensitivity to touch

[ e ] Becoming a parent figure or being watchful of young children

[ f ] Changes in hygiene (teeth cleaning, bathing, etc.). Changes in fashion choices (e.g. not wanting to take a bath or desire to wear very loose clothing.)

[ g ] Easily frightens

[ h ] Intense fears

[ i ] PTSD symptoms (anxiety, impatience, inability to concentrate)

[ j ] School changes (aggressive or timid behavior, skipping school, frequently feeling too sick to go to school or grades begin to drop)

[ k ] Fleeing from home

[ l ] Self-harm (cutting, burning) (cutting, burning)

[ m ] Shame surrounding periods or puberty

[ n ] Avoiding specific individuals or locations

[ o ] Predilection to suicide particularly among teenagers

[ p ] Excessive effort/accomplishment (e.g. fixation with performance in class, in athletics, or both.)

These “signs” may not necessarily say that a child has experienced sexual abuse. It’s crucial to check for any patterns that can point to a child being sexually abused.

Children give hints of abuse. They share clues you need to pick up. Children share details to gauge your response. It could be as basic as “This individual is nasty” or “I don’t like going to this person’s house.” Pay attention to remarks like this and enquire further from the child. Children will occasionally inform us that something is wrong with their actions. Knowing the warning signs and how to keep the child safe is important. If a child confides in you that they have been abused, get professional assistance. Learn how to react in a way that is therapeutic and beneficial to the child.

 

You suspect sexual abuse. What can you do?

Talk to your spouse before reporting anything. It can be a misunderstanding. It could be a heightened level of vigilance. Reporting child sexual abuse will trigger a series of police and legal action. This is similar to reporting domestic violence.

Calling 911 can be prudent if imminent danger is present after the discovery of sexual abuse. You know the alleged perpetrator. You alone can gauge the level of risk your spouse poses to you and your child. Talking to your spouse can be a better alternative if you don’t see your spouse as a dangerous person.

Talking to your attorney is also a logical option to weigh the implication of reporting. Reporting sexual abuse takes the whole matter off your hands. It will be in the hands of authorities like the police or Child Protective Services (CPS). You have no control over what will unfold.

The majority of CPS’s demands cannot be forced upon you because it lacks the authority to do so. Your case has not officially started yet. Working with CPS is often good for you. This includes responding to inquiries and offering evidence to support claims. CPS can investigate your household. They can also plan suggested services for you to take part in them.

CPS can tell you to keep your children away from the person who is allegedly abusing them. CPS cannot evict the suspected abusive parent if the parent is already in your home. You run the danger of being seen as uncooperative if you ignore CPS’s requests.

Any parenting time order remains in force until a new one is entered. This will remain so regardless of what CPS requests you do. You can request a new parenting time schedule from the court. It can be granted according to CPS recommendation.

 

You report sexual abuse of a child. What happens then?

Anyone can submit a report to CPS or the police. Even a child who has a good reason to believe a child is being mistreated or neglected. An impartial individual can have the same experience. Anyone hearing the same information can have the same legitimate suspicions.

Certain people are required to report any plausible allegation of child abuse. This is mandatory for them due to the nature of their professions. Teachers, social workers, and physicians are among the “mandatory reporters” in this category. The identity of the person reporting will often remain private.

CPS has 24 hours to investigate or reject the complaint if it believes it is unjustified. CPS can notify the police of very serious incidents. These are instances involving sexual abuse or a child’s death.

CPS investigation determines whether your child has ever experienced abuse. A CPS investigator will get in touch with the subject of the report. CPS informs them of the complaint. The CPS investigator may speak with your child. They will talk to you, the other parent, and other members of your child’s household. Any other person CPS believes may have relevant information may also be contacted. Your house may be visited during a CPS investigation. Records like police, medical, or school reports may be examined. The investigation must be finished by CPS in 30 days.

Children can be taken from their homes during an investigation. Children can only be taken from their homes by CPS with a judge’s approval. CPS can take children away. It places them in foster care or temporarily with the other parent. A relative could provide foster care.

The police can take a child from their home without a warrant. A doctor can keep the child. The hospital has the right to refuse to let them go with their parents. This is in a situation where they feel the child is still in danger. The hospital has the authority to confine the child without a court order. It is only temporary and limited in scope.

The police and CPS can conduct separate investigations. CPS can move for termination of parental rights and removal of the child. Police can proceed to prosecution.

You sexually abused a child. A child under 13. This is a first-degree criminal sexual act or first-degree child abuse. This is a felony with a life sentence. Sexual interaction with a child under the age of 13 is punishable by up to 15 years in prison. This also includes lifetime electronic monitoring. Sexual penetration of a child between the ages of 13 and 15 can be subject to hefty fines and a lengthy prison term. These are 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th degree felonies. These sex crimes carry the possibility of registration as a sex offender. The felon’s record will be entered in the Michigan Sex Offender Registry.

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What Happens if a Domestic Violence Recants Their Statement – Michigan Law

Domestic violence happened. Victims accused someone they know of physically assaulting them. The accuser later recants and tells a different story to the police or prosecutor. What happens if a domestic violence victim recants their statement?

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Perhaps the victim didn’t retract. They failed to appear. The victim isn’t taking part in judicial activities. They simply turned docile. This can work in the offender’s favor. Most of the time, the court will grant the offender’s motion to have the case dismissed.

From the viewpoint of a witness who is making accusations, it will be different. You allegedly admit to making a fake report or lying while under oath. For filing a fraudulent police report, you will face legal action. You’ll face legal action for lying. Your actions could put you in legal trouble. You fail to appear. The outcome will be the same whether you take part or not. The case will be thrown out. Or, the prosecution will move forward regardless.

Domestic violence occurs between people who know each other. They are members of the same household. They are dating partners or other close relationships. This is the main distinction between domestic violence and other types of assault. domestic violence survivors dislike seeing someone so close to them punished. Prosecuting these crimes may be a very difficult task. Survivors might stop helping the police and prosecutors. They change their stories about the attacks.

 

What does recanting your statement mean? Why would victims recant their statements?

Domestic abuse survivors’ reports to the police will be used as evidence in the prosecution. It is the basis for criminal charges against the attacker. Recanting occurs when the survivor alters their account or retracts their entire claim. This can happen before, during, or after the trial. Recanting usually happens sooner to get the charges against the abuser dropped.

The majority of domestic abuse allegations in Michigan start with a call for help. The following occurs leading to criminal charges:

[ 1 ] The accused victim reports possible domestic violence. The report can also come from nearby witnesses, a bystander, or another party. The report describes some form of domestic abuse.

[ 2 ] When the police arrive, they will interview the claimed victim. The victim can be someone’s spouse, girlfriend, boyfriend, brother, parent, or another individual.

[ 3 ] The alleged offender will be taken into custody. This happens if there is good evidence to believe domestic violence has occurred,

[ 4 ] Police take pictures of the wounds and gather more proof.

[ 5 ] The prosecution will use the written statements from the victims to support its case.

There isn’t one common factor that causes survivors to retract their claims. The survivor’s relationship with the abuser frequently plays a significant role. It’s the anxiety of further violence if the attacker is exonerated. Or, when the accusations are withdrawn. This fear can be brought on by concern over how the assailant might resurface after serving time in jail. Local law enforcement may lack the resources. Logistical resources to ensure survivors are protected against perpetrators after they are released. This fear can be particularly severe.

Survivors often retract their statements out of guilt. The victimization of their attacker by the criminal justice system triggers this guilt. Researchers observed patterns in the interactions between abusers and victims of domestic violence. The assailants minimize the issue. They make an appeal for sympathy. Finally, they demand the victim recant.

Survivors can succumb to external pressure to recant. Their attacker plays a big role in their lives or in the life of someone close to them. A violent spouse is providing financial support for that person’s children. The victim doesn’t want to take the chance of making their violent spouse go to jail. The breadwinner abuser can no longer support the family while in prison. These recanting survivors may view enduring the abuse as less detrimental. Better than the alternative of being homeless or otherwise abandoned.

 

What is the impact of recanting on the domestic violence case?

A case is not withdrawn just because a victim no longer takes part in the case. It’s not like a civil case between two parties. A prosecutor’s or district attorney’s office handles criminal issues like domestic abuse. The victim can retract their testimonies. The prosecution can still pursue the case.

Many prosecutors are aware the victim would eventually change their story. The reliability of the trial will depend on the strength of the other available evidence. Recanting victims are very typical occurrences in domestic violence cases.

The prosecution can prove their case against the defendant with enough supporting evidence. Evidence or indicators of the crime include:

[ a ] Police reports

[ b ] Photos of injuries or property damage

[ c ] Recordings of any kind, including 911 calls

[ d ] Threats or statements published on social media

[ e ] Medical or health records

[ f ] Eyewitness testimony

The prosecution can move on even without the cooperation of the recanting survivor. There will be enough independent evidence. Authorities expect victims of domestic violence will retract their allegations. Prosecutors may even use tactics more common in homicide trials. They proceed to believe there won’t be a survivor to testify.

In many situations of domestic violence, the victim’s testimony is key. The victim’s statements link everything together. When the police arrive, the victim can choose to make their statement there. They can proceed to the police station. Defendants and victims can reconcile after an incident. It’s possible that there was a miscommunication. It caused the altercation, and things got out of hand.

Domestic violence survivors can always alter their accounts. Prosecutors cannot always move forward with the case. Often the perpetrator is never brought to justice. This leaves the victim vulnerable to more domestic abuse.

The victims recanting can work in favor of the abuser or defendant if the evidence is not convincing and overwhelming. Keep in mind a few important facts if you’re the defendant in one of these situations.

[ a ] The charge won’t be dismissed if the victim retracts their testimony. Not even if the victim declines to appear in court. The prosecution can have a harder time establishing its case. The prosecution can still do so without the victim. Once a case is filed, it can only be dropped by the prosecutor or the court.

[ b ] The terms of an order of protection are enforced even if the victim retracts their statement. Until the court lifts the order, you shouldn’t communicate with the victim.

It’s critical to comprehend the details of your case. You’ve been accused of domestic abuse. Develop a defense plan that addresses the pertinent issues. Talk to your attorney about the details of this defense.

 

What is the impact of recanting on the victim?

The victim and defendant in a domestic quarrel can reconcile in some cases. The victim may call the police or the prosecutor’s office after the reported incident. The victim will try to retract their complaint or have the charges dropped. The majority of prosecutors will nonetheless continue with the case.

Victims can testify in court to alter their accounts. The prosecution can refute the victim’s testimony. Argue that she is distorting the truth to “rescue” the offender from conviction. The victim’s initial statement can be sustained as true by judges and juries. It was made in a frenzied state. The victim’s statement is trustworthy. There was no time for fabrication.

Victims can be charged with perjury. They can be held accountable for making a false police complaint. They can be charged with interfering with the legal process. They can be cited with contempt of court or other penalties if they ignore a subpoena. Talk to your attorney first before considering recanting your statement if youre the victim. Your life and safety are at stake in this case.

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Does My Ex Need Permission to Post My Child Online – Michigan Law

A child is shared by two adults. The child has shared legal custody with both parents. Without the permission of the parent, the co-parent posts pictures or videos of the child on social media. Does my ex need permission to post my child online?

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The state of Michigan does not have any regulations about this. There is no law requiring the approval of both parents before a child’s photo can be displayed online. We actually encounter it frequently. On Facebook, we can see parents. The mom has a Facebook page. The father either has a Facebook account or doesn’t have one. Without a court order, both parents are permitted to share their child’s photo on social media. Submit a motion to the court. Provide a strong justification for not wanting your child’s photo posted on social media. Your child’s image won’t be used or posted again without a court order.

 

Is there a reason to be concerned about posting videos of children online?

Children and young people now have access to information, culture, communication, and entertainment. These are access to levels that were unthinkable just 20 years ago. These realities are enabled by the Internet, mobile devices, and other electronic media. Many of these amazing advantages also carry risks. The Internet has made it simpler to produce and disseminate material.

The Internet and related technologies are tools even for criminals. They made the circulation of violent images of children possible. The technology offered major new opportunities for abusers. Opportunities to access and interact with children and teenagers online. Crimes involving child sexual abuse and exploitation are pervasive. These technologies did not invent them. The technology increased the scope and potential of several well-known and established ones.

Children are online more than ever. It is revealed in statistics from NetSmartz. NetSmartz is a website run by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Kids between the ages of 12 and 17 are online in 93% of cases, and 75% of them have smartphones. Half of the children have profiles on sites like Facebook and Twitter. They have uploaded images of themselves, making up 73% of the total.

Children cannot provide their full consent. They cannot comprehend the implications of having their photographs shared online. You think you are sharing something privately. Individuals can capture and store the postings you make. A small audience on Instagram Stories or Snapchat makes your information publicly available. Data breaches can broadcast your personal data across the Internet. This can be available on the Dark Web.

Revealing intimate details and frailties betrays a lack of respect. It can undermine a child’s confidence in you. It compromises their sense of security. These can result in mental health problems later in life.

Sharing your information or posting a picture of your child may not seem detrimental. It’s vital to keep in mind that once information is posted online, it can be accessible to anybody. Even if you have stringent privacy settings, your posts can be shared with people. People you are not related to by “close friends.” An open account divulges your child’s personal data to strangers. Private accounts are vulnerable to hacking and unauthorized access.

Geotagging your house, your child’s school or any location children visit is not good. It may leave a digital trail of your child’s movements. You’re telling predators your child’s name and their favorite locations. They might appear wherever you go. Pretend to know you. It could result in kidnappings or attacks. Pay attention to the background of images as well. There are potential risks if a child predator can determine where your child lives. They can guess by looking at items like street signs or local businesses.

There is little chance of child abduction from shared photographs. It is still something to think about before sharing. Digital kidnapping is more frequent. Photos of children shared online are frequently appropriated. It can be exploited in marketing and transformed into false profiles. It can even be shown on dark web pedophile websites or social networks. An image published online is not considered to be in the public domain. The internet will have 5 billion users by May 2022. It can be challenging to trace and control where a picture ends up.

These online risks will continue. It will continue even when children are adults and mature enough to care for themselves. This is still a new occurrence. Over-sharing parents disclose private details of their children. Their complete names, birthdates, and places along with images. They make it easier for scammers to take the identities of their children. One piece of research cited by The New Yorker indicates this scam will become a trend. Identity fraud cases involving today’s juniors will rise. It will account for nearly two-thirds of all instances by 2030.

 

Why are images or videos of children openly published online?

Almost anyone may now post their own media content on the Internet. This is due to the widespread and pervasive use of smartphones. Privacy activists are concerned about this development, especially with regard to children. Is it possible for someone to post photos of your child on a blog or social media platform?

It is lawful for strangers to take pictures or videos of your child. They are free to broadcast or publish the images as well, with a few limitations. Contrary to popular belief, parents do not need to provide their permission or sign a release. To counteract this permissiveness, some states have established more stringent legislation. And school districts do take precautions to safeguard their students.

It seems dubious at best that a stranger could take a picture of your child. Do it without your permission and post it. The First Amendment is a legal principle permitting such materials as an expression. The publication and distribution of images and videos of children are legal. Apparently so under The First Amendment. The First Amendment forbids the federal government from enacting broad rules limiting freedom. The freedom of expression protects our personal freedom of expression and the freedom of the press protects institutions.

Even if you do not provide your approval, the photographs are usually legal. They are as long as they are used for editorial purposes and if they were taken while your child was in a public place. A journalist might publish a picture of your child playing in a public park in their newspaper. They can do it without your permission. The picture is in a newspaper piece about how well playgrounds are protected in city parks.

 

Can my ex-spouse publish videos of our children without my consent?

Unless a judge orders otherwise, a parent is often free to exercise their parental rights. They share information about their family with others. This includes sharing images of their children on social media. The social media account may be open to the public. It can allow anybody in the world to access postings and photos. It can be private, allowing only a select few family members and friends to view the images.

It can be challenging to persuade a judge to prohibit a parent from publishing family images online. Especially in the absence of substantial harm to the children from such postings.

The photos can show the kids riding their new pony or on dad’s new speedboat. The other parent can only be posting photos of the children having a good time in their presence to annoy you. These postings are done out of spite or with the intent to irritate you. It really isn’t enough to get a judge to order that the photos not be posted.

 

What can a worried parent do to restrict the circulation of childrens images?

Schools may have policies on privacy and security for children. You can exploit these policies. Ask for your school’s specific policies on child protection. Check if it includes the publishing of childrens images on social media. Your school policy can be silent on this part because it can also interfere with public relations initiatives.

Certain things may be forbidden around children like smoking or drinking. Check your parenting time order. Any pictures posted depicting these forbidden behaviors with the children can be helpful. You can ask for a modification of the custody and visitation orders. You can then ask the other parent to stop posting on social media as part of the modification.

The best course of action is to ask your attorney to file a motion to modify the parenting time order to include restrictions on the use of childrens images. Your attorney can give you the best legal basis and framework for this motion. You must have a very compelling reason to file this motion.

You can file a motion to ask your ex-spouse to stop sharing films or pictures of your kids. The Judge will determine whether you have enough justification to do so. Many kids have their own YouTube shows nowadays. Both the substance of the videos and the age of the children play a role in the judge’s decision.

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Other Parent’s Schedule Interferes With Your Parenting Time – Michigan Law

Divorces do happen. Wife has custody. There is parenting time for both parents. This parent can have it this week, with the other parent getting it the next week. The co-parent may occasionally consent to a swap because the other parent has plans. Some parents purposefully plan activities that interfere with the other parent’s parenting time. What to do when the other parent schedules things on your parenting time?

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When the child should be with the other parent, one parent will plan a trip to Disneyland. Sometimes the parent may explain to the child that it is the other parent’s time and the child is not allowed to go. This is bad faith on the part of the parent. It is evil. It is dreadful. Both the child and the other parent will feel disrespected by it. The child feels terrible, and the parenting schedule is ruined. Contact your attorney and submit a motion. You can hold the other parent in contempt for acting in such a despicable manner.

 

Why do parents and children need parenting time?

According to Michigan’s laws, children ought to have good relationships with both parents. The court takes the child’s best interests into account when granting custody. The state established “best interests” as a collection of criteria by statute. Each parent must have the willingness to help an enduring parent-child relationship. This strong tie between the child and the parent is one of the deciding considerations. Interfering with parenting time is in direct conflict with the child’s best interests.

Ties between parents and children are disproportionately protected by Michigan courts. The court will frequently order that the children spend more time with one parent than the other. The court uses the terms “shared physical custody” or “primary physical custody.” One parent has more parenting time. The term is used in the court order to describe this arrangement.

Divorce is difficult not just for the spouses involved. It can have a very negative impact on the children too. Children are a big cause for contention during the divorce process. This is besides property division. Feelings can run high during the divorce and custody battle. The parents involved should keep the children’s best interests in mind. The development of children depends on parental time. Children get the chance to interact with both parents and develop bonds with them. Both parents are able to see their children. Parents learn about their children’s actions, abilities, and shortcomings. They are present in their lives. This enables the parents to mentor them based on their individual needs.

You can be making hotcakes or engaging in in-depth discussions about views and values. It is crucial for parents to spend quality time with their children. These interactions keep a positive relationship. Spending time with children makes them feel appreciated. It encourages them to be more outgoing and communicative.

Parental interactions educate children. They teach them what is “normal” behavior as they grow into adults. Whether a parent is there in their lives or not, it educates them about the importance of parenting. In some situations, the absence thereof. Being consistent when it comes to spending time with your kids is so essential. The children can come to believe they are unimportant and unloved if you fail to be consistent.

 

How can parents ruin a parent-child relationship?

Having a child with an ex-spouse can be extremely challenging. Ex-spouses can harbor unresolved resentments toward one another. Some parents are able to set these emotions aside. Some for the benefit of their co-parenting arrangement and some cannot.

Parental alienation happens. It can be if one parent purposefully hurts their child’s bond with the other parent. For both the parent and the child, it can be quite detrimental. Decisions on child custody may also be affected by parental alienation.

Taking care of their children should be the parents’ top responsibility. Some parents choose vengeance against the other parent over what’s best for the child. Parental alienation takes many forms depending on the situation. It entails psychological manipulation intended to sever the parent-child bond. A parent could make an effort to persuade their child that the other parent is bad or doesn’t care about them. A child brings up something favorable about the other parent. The parent will immediately brush it off. They discipline the child for feeling that way.

Parental alienation can be difficult to identify, but some potential symptoms include:

[ a ] A parent who was very beloved by the children is suddenly deeply despised by them.

[ b ] The young child describes the estranged parent in an adult manner.

[ c ] The child declines to see the estranged parent but is unable to explain why.

Great harm comes to children when one parent tries to sabotage the relationship with the other parent. Children should enjoy positive interactions with both parents. A parent shouldn’t be attempting to persuade a child not to see or speak with the other parent.

 

What are the consequences of ruining parenting time?

Ruining parenting time can alienate the other parent. One parent’s behavior harms the child’s relationship with the other parent. This is parental alienation. Keeping a child away from a custodial parent can be seen as custodial interference. Custodial interference is a crime. It can be committed by a parent who refuses to give the other parent access to the child. The parent intends to keep the child permanently away from the custodial parent.

A court can use remedies it deems to be fair to parents violating a court-ordered parenting time. Typical remedies include:

[ a ] Requesting “make-up” parental time

[ b ] Having a third party oversee the problematic parent’s visitations

[ c ] Levying fines, court costs, and legal costs against the offending parent

[ d ] Modifying the parental time schedule either temporarily or permanently

[ e ] A court may also order the arrest and incarceration of the interfering parent. This is for more severe interference.

[ f ] A parent could be placed in contempt of court if they disobey custody or visitation orders.

The court should only be approached as a last resort to have its order enforced. A court will likely be indulgent if your ex has only been tardy once or twice. Before you petition the court to enforce its decision, you should have a record of parenting plan infractions that is well-documented.

 

What can you do when one parent schedules things on your parenting time?

A child suffers great harm when one parent tries to sabotage their relationship with the other parent. Children should enjoy positive interactions with both parents. A parent shouldn’t be attempting to persuade a child not to see or speak with the other parent unless there is a genuine safety concern.

A parent works with a co-parent to enforce parenting time. A former spouse or a parent who has separated. A parent having difficulty following the parenting time arrangement. Upholding the rules of the parenting schedule can make a parent feel they are being punished. Fighting with an ex-spouse to see your children is one of the most annoying things you can go through.

The parenting schedule is being disrupted by your co-parent. Perhaps it’s time to gather your forces.

Assume your co-parent is deliberately picking a fight.

The parent that is bothering you might be doing more than just trying to get under your skin. The co-parent may intend to switch from passive-aggressive behavior to blatant aggression.

The offending parent may be developing a pattern of behavior. Your co-parent is habitually breaking the agreement. Be prepared to battle. This is frequently a sign that the offending parent is putting up a case. The goal is to modify the custody arrangement. Keep an eye on the issue for 60 to 90 days, at least. It can start with letters of noncompliance. It can eventually lead to court proceedings.

Start documenting interaction and communication with the other parent. Be calm. Be rational and positive.

Send your ex-spouse an email to explain the situation whenever possible. You have concrete evidence later should you end up in court. Another option is to get counseling. Before requesting judicial intervention, attempt to resolve the issue.

Keep a journal and capture every detail to prove even the smallest infractions. Your records can show a pattern of misconduct that forces the court to change the order. Try to address the situation by expressing your worries. Even if you are offended and irritated, you should conduct yourself professionally. The court is attempting to decide which parent is the more responsible and mature. You want your communications brought to the court’s attention. Prove you are a mature and responsible parent. In the event that you are unable to resolve the issue turn to legal action.

Talk to your attorney. Take legal action.

The other parent of your child is attempting to alienate you. Courts in Michigan take into account many variables deciding on child custody cases. One of these factors is a parent’s capacity to foster a good parent-child relationship with the other parent. As a result, alienating behavior may have an impact on the court’s determinations of parental roles and parenting time.

Be proactively protective of your parenting time.

It’s can be too late if you wait till anything goes wrong. The best course of action is to have a strategy in place. Safeguard your parenting time in case the other parent starts interfering with it. No matter how trivial you need to address interference with parenting time. You need to resolve it before it becomes the new normal. There are strategies for resolving this. You need to do this before this potential issue becomes a chronic one.

Shield your parenting plan against sabotage.

Maintaining some stability in your child’s life requires a parenting plan. Don’t allow for any room for ambiguity in its meaning. Discuss the appropriate language and structure for the agreement with your attorney. Knowing everything that is in the parenting plan will reduce unforeseen circumstances. You can work with a lawyer to create a parenting plan that satisfies your requirements. You can ask your attorney to insert clauses prohibiting disparagement. You can avoid going back to court if a conflict arises. Many parents are now implementing dispute-resolution mechanisms.

Success depends on having flexible parenting time schedules. Children can experience less loneliness. Ensure the non-custodial parent is in regular phone or video chat with them. Give your children’s needs a top priority. It’s a good idea to watch how they react to absences and then adjust the schedule as necessary. Make sure you keep an eye on your children during visitations. Determine whether the parenting time schedule is actually helpful to them.

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Can a Teenager Refuse to See the Other Parent Even if They Have Joint Custody – Michigan Law

Can a teenager choose not to see a parent even if they have joint custody? The matter of custody and parenting time has been decided by the court already. You have complete control over how parenting time is allocated to young children. Teenagers might favor hanging out with their friends.

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The parent with whom parenting time is scheduled must receive the adolescent. The parent or the adolescent is not given the choice. You can be imaginative and invite your adolescent child’s friends over so you can all hang out. Your co-parent can choose not to support your teen’s involvement in parenting time. Make a phone call to your attorney. A motion must be submitted. The motion will either alter parenting time or require your co-parent to press your adolescent child’s compliance.

 

Why is my teenage child choosing not to see my ex-spouse?

Your teenage child’s obstinacy in refusing to go with the other parent could have a good cause. The most likely reasons why your child is having trouble interacting with your ex-spouse are as follows:

[ a ] Only one parent will let the child attend an event, despite the child’s desire to do so.

[ b ] The other parent and your child have never truly gotten along.

[ c ] The child is not friendly with the other child from a previous relationship. This may also be the case with the new partner of the other parent.

[ d ] The child’s school, classmates, and extracurricular activities are far. It is too far from where the other parent resides.

[ e ] The child doesn’t want to abide by the strict house rules set by the other parent.

[ f ] The child carries ill will toward the other parent and holds them accountable for the divorce. You are disparaging your ex-spouse. This can be the reason why your child feels upset. Parental alienation is disparaging your ex in front of your children. Parental alienation can be used as evidence against you in court.

You can support your child’s decision not to go with the other parents. The following are legally sound reasons for doing so:

[ a ] The other parent is behind bars or in prison.

[ b ] The parent has a substance use disorder (SUD) or abuses drugs.

[ c ] The child is a victim of either verbal or physical abuse from the other parent.

[ d ] Sexual impropriety like exposing a child to highly provocative sexual behavior.

[ e ] The possibility of parental kidnapping or a history of it.

Parents can worry about their child’s behavior. Expect parents to err on the side of caution when the risk of abuse is apparent. No one can suggest that you return your child to the custody of the other parent. Especially if they admit to having been physically abused. Or worse, sexually assaulted, or subjected to other forms of abuse. You should ask the court for supervised parenting time or denial of visitation.

 

Can my teenage child choose not to see my ex-spouse even with joint custody?

Our children can grow up really quickly. Divorce and child custody disputes won’t deter them. Parenting time and visitation are governed by court orders. These must be understood by children as well because they are necessary obligations. The bond between parents and children promotes a child’s social development. It supports their intellectual, and physical development. Every parent and child should cherish and cultivate this special relationship.

Children under the age of 18 cannot make a unilateral decision about whose parent they will live with. A child cannot decline visitation that is mandated under a custody arrangement. Parents and children must adhere to the rules. It is the primary physical custodial parent’s job to convince a defiant teenager.

The judge can take into account a factor when deciding on child custody or parenting time. The judge can consider the child’s preference. Your child, particularly a teen, wants to spend more time with the other parent. Talking to a child custody attorney may be beneficial. It can help you work with your teenager.

The judge will interview the teenager. Listen to the reasons for favoring one parent over the other or for refusing to visit one parent. The parent the teenager refuses to see has a lifestyle that is inappropriate for the child. This could be a case of persistent criminal behavior in that parent’s house. It could be illicit drugs or physical violence. The refusal will probably be justifiable in the judge’s eyes.

The judge cannot be sympathetic to a teenager who refuses to visit a parent’s home. Especially if it is because the parent insists the teen do his homework. Allowing mature feedback from your teen serves the aim of giving the child a voice. It is not for pitting the parents against one another.

The matter should return to court if a teen refuses to follow a custody order that is already in place. The custodial parent should stick to the schedule. Maintain the parenting time until the court rules on the motion to modify the custody and parenting time schedule. Unless the child is at risk.

 

What do I do to make my teenage child choose to go to my ex-spouse?

Persuade your child to go with the other parent to follow the court’s order. Put in place strategies proven successful with other parents. Parents like you who have to cope with a resistant teenager.

Call your co-parent and have a conversation.

When your child declines, call the other parent and try to get the child to give the other parent an explanation. The child can probably cooperate more readily with the other parent. You won’t be accused of disregarding court orders. Word of mouth, as opposed to phone records and text messages, is easier to refute in court.

Remember that you are an adult and a parent in this situation.

Never forget that you are the parent. Here, you make the decisions, not your child. A soft, compassionate approach could not work in this situation. You are the most qualified person to assess your child’s underlying needs. You can feel guilty about making your child do something they don’t want to. Especially in the wake of the stress of a custody battle and/or divorce.

Learn more about the cause of the attitude.

Determine what is driving the refusal to visit the other parent. Your child probably doesn’t understand the consequences of disobeying a court order. Ask them why they aren’t going instead of just telling them to go. You’ll learn more about how to handle the refusal. Show compassion and sympathy for your teenager’s situation. Your child can agree to the visitation time.

Ensure that every pick-up and drop-off is stress-free.

Make picking up and dropping off as straightforward as you can. Arguments with your ex-spouse transitions can have an impact. It can trigger your child’s reluctance to go for visitation. Your ex-spouse can try to provoke you during custody changes. Do your best to keep your lips shut and carry yourself like the bigger person. Make sure your child’s suitcase is packed. Ensure all other arrangements have been done well in advance. Anxiety may be brought on by actions that can be prevented. Actions like hurrying around the house and ignoring your child’s sentimental items.

Continue to encourage your teenager.

Promote trips continuously. Never give up after one denial. The parenting schedule should be discussed with your child. Do it at intervals other than right before pick-ups and drop-offs. Choose more relaxed moments to talk about parenting time.

Start making notes about all this defiant attitude.

Record each occasion when your teenager declines a visit. To keep a list, ask your teenager the same question each time. You must have evidence to support your claims and those of your child. The other parent has the right to accuse you of breaking the court order. The other parent might attempt to show that you haven’t complied. It can be detrimental to your custody case.

The judge must decide whether the child has communicated a choice that is reasonable. The judge needs to confirm if the child is capable of making a reasonable decision. on decisions about custody and visitation. This doesn’t mean the child needs to give a detailed explanation for the decision. It only means it isn’t driven by irrational or insignificant reasons.

Children do not have the ability to decline visitation. Visitation is mandated by a custody order until they turn 18. Until they are declared to be emancipated. Parents and children must adhere to the rules. It is the primary physical custodial parent’s duty. The custodial parent must convince a rebellious child to take part in visitation.

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I Think My Ex Is Hiding Cash to Avoid Paying Child Support, What Can I Do? – Michigan Law

My ex-spouse is hiding cash to avoid paying child support, what can I do? Courts have limitations. People conceal their income. Your ex-spouse included. The court is aware that many understate income to avoid paying child support. The court is aware that this happens frequently.

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Inform the court of your expense balances. Balance the existing child support you are receiving with the expenses you already have. Provide the judge with your ex-spouse’s current spending habits. Your ex-spouse’s ability to pay for them gives you an idea of how much money your ex-spouse makes. The income of your ex-spouse will be obvious to the court as being much higher. The court will then be able to adjust child support as necessary.

 

Does your ex-spouse truly understand what child support really means?

A court order specifies child support. The cost of children’s necessary daily expenses must be covered by child support. The children’s upbringing was supported by both parents prior to the divorce. After a divorce, our assumptions change. Both parents are living separate lives. The expenses could fluctuate depending on who wins custody of the children. The cost can be noticeably higher. Spending patterns will change after a divorce. At least for the non-custodial spouse, there are now concerns about two households.

A non-custodial parent pays for child support. The Michigan Child Support Formula, or MCSF, establishes the amount of child support. The number of children, the parents’ incomes, and the child custody arrangement all factor into how much child support is paid.

Net income is used to determine how much money a parent should have available for support. Child support digs into all essential parts of a parent’s financial condition. Anything is up for discussion. The court determines any potential revenue assessment. Income is made up of both present and projected earnings from a parent. The actual capacity of the parent is what matters. It includes enquiring if they are purposely unemployed or underemployed. If you have the capability but haven’t used it, they’ll find out. It’s crucial to understand the difference between being imprisoned and deciding not to work.

The MCSF is used to calculate the required minimum amount of child support. The algorithm produces a value that indicates how much child support needs to be paid. The court has the option to alter the formula.

The MCSF should only be used as a basic guideline. The Court may deviate from it if it determines that doing so would be in the best interests of the kid. The State of Michigan provides public aid to the payee or the child. Child support payments may be made to the state instead of the recipient.

The Income Shares Model serves as the foundation for the Michigan child support system. First, the total is expressed as a percentage of the joint salary of the parents. Currently, the court uses the software to calculate the amount of child support. They are presently using the Michigan State Disbursement Unit’s Children’s Economic Tool (CET). The bulk of states uses software to calculate child support, including Michigan. This data will be used by the CET to calculate the amount of child support that each parent will be required to pay.

The “payer” is the parent who is responsible for providing child support. The “payee” is the recipient. The state might get the child support payments in place of the payee. This happens when either the payee or the child receives public assistance.

 

What are the telltale signs of unreported income?

Your spouse can hide earnings throughout the divorce. These earnings can come from professional or personal sources. Your spouse gives an impression of having fewer assets. There is lesser asset comes time for the court to divide those assets if they conceal this income.

For instance, the majority of income can from cash tips. Your spouse might only receive a modest paycheck. It gives the court the impression that there is less money than actually earned. Your spouse underreports these tips. Your spouse has a business that accepts cash payments. Your spouse can transfer income to himself directly without disclosing it. This gives the impression that he makes less money than he actually does.

A spouse may try to conceal their income in a number of ways, including:

Self-employment.

An ex-spouse who is self-employed may deduct personal expenses to show a lower income.

Collecting income in cash.

Receiving cash for compensation is one of the most used strategies. To avoid a paper trail, an employee may ask for a cash payment from their employer.

Defer promotions and incentives.

Spouses can defer promotions or incentives at work while going through a divorce. They can defer incentives while making changes to child support obligations.

Remaining unemployed.

An ex-spouse may decide not to look for work to avoid having to pay child support.

Your attorney and the attorney for your spouse traded financial documents. This all went over the course of several months through your divorce. You did this during the discovery phase of a contested divorce. They gave the judge this documentation when your case went to trial. Your lawyer can issue a subpoena to your spouse’s employer. The subpoena gives you access to pay stubs if your spouse refuses to provide them.

 

What can you do to get the evidence you need to prove the hidden income of your ex-spouse?

The parties can subpoena payroll records directly from an employer. You can do this when the case is in court because they have the authority to do so. But, if one of the parties runs their own firm, situations get a lot more complicated.

Financial affidavits detail your income and assets. They are submitted by both you and your spouse to the court. Although lying on these affidavits is serious, it could be challenging to establish. A forensic accountant could be able to assist you in proving your suspicion. Forensic accountants can review your spouse’s company and personal records. They can compare deposits between accounts or look at changes in brokerage accounts.

Hidden revenue is frequently uncovered by forensic accounting. Prove your ex-spouse’s expenses outweigh the income claimed. Your attorney can request a subpoena for your ex-spouse’s financial records. Documents like tax returns, credit card statements, and bank statements. This forces your ex-spouse to admit their income was underreported. Your ex-spouse can explain to the court where the additional money is coming from.

You can also ask for and look through business documents. Your ex-spouse applied for a business loan to grow the company. Purchase equipment, or make other improvements. It might be worthwhile to check the income the applicant stated. The child support standards in Michigan directly address some of the concerns of business owners. It includes counting depreciation deductions as income to the business owner. Depreciation is a tax benefit but not an actual expense.

Ex-spouses spending money they don’t have can be caught by a private detective in the act. Photos of a brand-new vehicle, expensive dining experiences, and vacations. It could be new jewelry and other items. They can be very persuasive to a judge that there is hidden income somewhere.

A parent’s claimed income may be reexamined by the court. It can be determined that the parent is in fact concealing a sizeable sum of money. The court can consider proof that a parent has undisclosed income. This helps to increase child support obligations even without showing specific monetary amounts.

Child support requirements are made to be as equitable to both parents as possible. The court determines this while still taking care of the child’s needs.

Some parents dislike making payments. These parents who had lots of money before the divorce will suddenly claim near poverty. Many of the parents who engage in this behavior are self-employed. They run their own business. They frequently conceal income derived from it in some way.

Proving your husband has more money than he is declaring can be expensive. It can be if you pay specialists like forensic accountants or company appraisers. If you are successful, the cost and hassle can be worthwhile. You might get far bigger alimony or child support payments. The Federal Revenue Service (IRS) may audit your spouse’s returns if there is underreported income. It can result in higher taxes and penalties. You and your ex-spouse filed joint tax returns while you were married. This could also mean you can also be responsible for taxes and penalties.

Talk to your attorney about exploiting different approaches to discovering hidden income. Find these income sources to back up your petition for modifying child support.

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Will Catching My Ex in the Act of Cheating Help My Claim for Alimony – Michigan Law

The alimony calculation will consider some variables. You’ll be judged on how long you’ve been married. The disparity in household income between spouses will be investigated. Are there enough liquid assets to cover alimony payments? Will catching my ex in the act of cheating help my claim for alimony?

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The cheating won’t impact your petition for divorce. The cheating can impact alimony and property division later. Get a little bit more later. Cheating can be helpful during discussions for alimony and property distribution. You have the opportunity to get something but not necessarily too much. Some judges have a tendency to award you a little bit more based on the proportions. When deciding on alimony, the majority of them have a bias toward being equal and fair.

 

Will cheating or infidelity matter in divorce?

Infidelity or adultery is a crime. It is in Michigan. The law is seldom enforced and changing it seems like too delicate of a political issue. As a result, the crime of adultery for a cheating spouse is likely to be just a text in the law books. It can be a fault penalty against the guilty spouse. A fine is levied on the guilty party for adultery against a spouse. A cheating spouse may be awarded less of the marital estate.

Infidelity is a problem causing a relationship to fall apart. There are other factors influencing married couples to decide to get divorced. An affair is a factor in the divorce process. It can be the primary factor in why the marriage ended. This isn’t always the case in a Michigan divorce. Be aware of how infidelity might be handled in your case if it is the cause of your divorce.

When dividing property, Michigan law normally follows the equitable distribution. The court will award property based on what is just given the couple’s circumstances. This does not imply that the distribution will always be equal. The court may decide to give the victimized spouse greater property. One spouse was obviously at fault for the divorce. Courts punish the unfaithful partner. The guilty pay for the extramarital affair out of the marital estate.

 

Will my spouses cheating help my claim for alimony?

The state outlines a list of factors judges take into account in determining alimony. The length of the marriage, the age and health of the spouses, and a few others. These indicators are comparable across states. Elements differ from state to state. When it comes to the subject of adultery, this is especially true. Many states no longer let judges consider a spouse’s bad behavior. Yet some still do, and one of them is Michigan.

Courts take into account the faithfulness of both parties when calculating alimony. The amount of support you receive may change if you can show that your spouse strayed. Showing their fault does not ensure that you will get more money. It does not mean your spouse would get more or less assistance.

You decide things throughout your divorce. It may or may not take infidelity into account. This topic is brought up if it has had a major influence on your income or your capacity to care for your children. Judgments on how to divide your marital assets will be determined by what is fair and equitable. You cannot refuse an equitable share of the marital estate as retribution for having an affair. One spouse spent money on presents for a lover. It could be other forms of asset loss throughout the marriage. This issue can be resolved by giving the aggrieved spouse a larger part of the marital property.

The past interactions and behavior of spouses are considered in the award for alimony. It can be either was at fault for the divorce. Adultery is not the main consideration in determining whether or not spousal support is granted. It is taken into account along with other pertinent ones.

State legislatures are aware that fault-based divorces are typically contentious. The accused spouse is more likely to fight the charge of wrongdoing. All members of the family are affected. This includes the children who experience emotional strain as a result. There is less of a chance of such outcomes if a fault is allowed for the more restricted purpose of awarding alimony.

The court including fault in the alimony calculation has a practical benefit. It is so in cases where infidelity is involved. Let’s imagine one partner has ended the marriage by having an extramarital affair. That’s already a terrible situation. Now, what if that partner made matters worse by using marital funds to pay for the affair? Examples include extravagant gifts, vacations, or even giving a lover some money. The innocent spouse has now suffered financial loss as a result of the adultery. The judge can rule alimony payments to that spouse to make up for the loss.

 

How do you move forward after the cheating?

It is far more challenging to reach a settlement when a divorce is triggered by infidelity. An aggrieved spouse feels differently. It feels fair when one spouse has suffered some sort of physical or emotional damage. Adultery in divorce brings up unresolved emotional issues. It is in contrast to situations when a marriage slowly dissolves.

These issues must be addressed before the case can be settled. The aggrieved spouse could feel compelled to get back at the adulterous partner. Punish them by removing their children. The aggrieved spouse can remove assets they believe are significant to the adulterer. The priorities of a party may not be totally rational in these situations. They might drag out the divorce settlement. This can go on until they feel that the crime of the affair is sufficiently punished by a nasty divorce.

Your husband had an extramarital affair, you are distraught. Don’t use the divorce process to punish your spouse. Seek the fastest way to conclude the divorce process and move on.

Angry couples use their resentment to battle over matters like child custody, alimony, or property division. The battle increases stress levels for everyone involved. It affects your spouse, you, and your children. And it will surely raise the price of divorce, especially your legal bills.

Deal with practical and legal aspects of your divorce. Keep it apart from the emotional concerns brought on by your sense of betrayal. Do what you can to make sure that the divorce will go as smoothly. Do this while rebuilding your life after divorce.

An uncontested divorce in Michigan is always shorter, simpler, and less expensive. Cheaper than a conventional contentious divorce. You and your spouse can be cooperative enough to reach a settlement agreement. You can choose divorce mediation if you need help in addressing your differences. Explore collaborative divorce.

Collaborative divorce enables the parties to collaborate with other experts. Couples can work with a divorce coach or therapist. They are qualified to assist the parties in addressing underlying, emotional concerns. These enable the attorneys to focus only on pertinent legal matters. The collaborative approach is non-adversarial. An unfaithful partner need not worry about the other bringing up prior transgressions. The other party doesn’t have to justify why infidelity drove them away from the marriage.

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Can My Ex Take My Kids Out of the Country Without Consent Once I File for Divorce – Michigan Law

Can my husband take the kids out of the country without permission? Can he take them once I file for divorce without my consent? Your husband can. You’re explaining to the court why you don’t want the children to see their father.

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The parent has concrete intentions to bring the children back. The court cannot restrict travel but the parent cannot bring them to a nation where there isn’t a treaty. The treaty is between the United States and that nation regarding parental kidnapping. The court does let children go but it will make sure they have a return ticket. The parent chooses a country where the U.S. State Department has a presence.

 

Can my husband take my children to travel out of state?

Regardless of your child’s legal residence’s proximity to the state line or your child’s custody arrangement, you must obtain court approval before leaving Michigan. If you have exclusive legal custody, the court is likely to agree if you move for a cause that is advantageous to you and your childsuch as a better employment opportunity or a desire to be nearer to family. Yet, the court’s assessment of the aforementioned considerations will determine whether or not you are permitted to leave the state when you have joint custody.

A parent with sole or joint custody of a child after a divorce is not permitted to make the decision to take the child out of the state. Not on their own, according to the Michigan Child Custody Act. The parent having a child custody arrangement in place cannot move the child’s current place of residence. The parent cannot go more than 100 miles away from where the child is legally residing.

The law likewise holds true for interstate migrations. Ohio may be less than 100 miles from your current legal residence with the child. Approach the court for permission to move there if you are offered a job in a nearby state. Be aware that Michigan law is still in effect even if the other parent agrees to the relocation. You cannot relocate out of state without getting the court’s approval. This is so even if the other parent agrees or consents to the move.

 

Can my husband take my children out of the country?

U.S. citizens travel a lot alone or with family. It is a concern for divorced parents having child custody issues. Parents worry about children traveling. You are married to a foreign citizen. You have children. You are going through or considering going through with a divorce. The child can be tough to return to the United States. Can you stop this from happening?

Add travel limitations to your custody order or temporary orders. You can do this if you and the other parent are divorced or going through a divorce. Your child has a passport. The court might not be able to stop them from traveling abroad with a parent. Many parents have been successful in getting the court to accept their child’s passport. A parent taking the child on a trip outside of the country would have to ask the court for the passport’s return. This request would call for a hearing.

Neither parent can consent to give up the children’s passports. The one who wants to do so must be able to provide strong proof that the other parent plans to take the child with them. It is insufficient to establish this based only on a former spouse is a citizen of a different nation.

Provide copies of any court orders to local law enforcement and alert them. Include custody, protection, and restraining orders. Call a countrys foreign embassy or consulate if your child is or can be a dual national of that country. Your child can have claims to a foreign nationality. Your child can get a passport from that country.

The United States does not have exit controls. A minor may cross international borders without the approval of both parents. Without a legitimate court order, the police might not be able to stop a parental kidnapping. The order clearly prohibits the childs travel outside of the United States. The most critical safeguard might be a clear court order. Court orders may contain restriction clauses. It must have specific instructions about custody, travel limitations, or passports, for instance.

 

Can my husband relocate with my children?

If you relocate your child, the parenting time schedule imposed by the court will be disrupted. You need to take the impact of the child’s new domicile into account. It’s not just filling out documents that you need to know about relocation and change of domicile. Relocation and changing of the home have a substantial impact on the child’s established routine, including parenting time.

The important reason for the relocation must be disclosed to the court. Moving needs to be justified, which will take a lot of work. Your attorney needs information about your new domicile. It takes weeks for your attorney to get information. The court will arrange hearings. You have to submit motions. You must complete your court paperwork. Gather them months in advance for your desired residency change.

Moving and changing your domicile is less of a divorce concern. It is a concern for child custody and parenting time. Moving or changing residences are disruptive decision. They affect both parents and children’s routines. They disrupt stability in children. A change of domicile and sudden relocation is the opposite of stability.

Michigan custody laws forbid changing a child’s residence under certain circumstances. Moving a home more than 100 miles from the child’s current residence requires the other parent’s consent. A court must approve the move if one parent wishes to take the child to a house in another state. Even if the houses are only a short distance away. The parent takes part in court procedures to make the move possible.

If the other parent objects and judicial consent is required, the parent who wishes to move the kid must file a motion with the Michigan state courts. The motion shall be so moved and justified. Moving is commonly done for familial ties, educational opportunities, or work-related reasons. One parent may legitimately object to the relocation and ask for a court hearing.

The court looks at the relocation’s potential to improve the child’s quality of life. It weighs whether relocation harms the bond between both parents. The court looks at each parent’s adherence to the current custody arrangement. It determines if the relocated parent can follow a modified visitation schedule.

The court may let you go after weighing all the options. These options include demonstrating cooperation between parents in raising the child. There is fairness in child support. There’s also a reasonable opportunity for the other parent to keep parenting time. The move enables a better quality of life. This often refers to better pay, schools, or family contact.

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What to Do if Charged With Assault With a Deadly Weapon – Michigan Law

Assault happens in a variety of forms in different circumstances. What to do if charged with assault with a deadly weapon? Simple assault is a relatively minor offense. There is a fatal kind of assault. Assault with a deadly weapon. Your freedom will be in jeopardy if you are accused of this kind of assault.

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A deadly weapon assault may result in years behind bars. You’re going to prison. The accused will be arraigned. The charges are going to be read. A meeting with the prosecutor is scheduled. You need a strong defense. You must collect proof. In a criminal case, liberty is at risk. Contact a lawyer.

 

What is assault with a deadly weapon?

What is “felonious assault” in Michigan? It is a crime that refers to a violent attack or threat of an attack on another person. An attack intended to cause that person great injury but ends just short of death. It is a felony assault charge. It arises when a victim was subjected to both an attack and a battery. It is committed with intent to conduct another felony such as robbery. It is committed using a potentially lethal weapon.

In Michigan, assault is defined as an effort to physically harm another person. You do it by making an unsuccessful hand or object strike. Assault is any purposeful act or threat of action. The assailant demonstrates the ability to carry out the threat. It reasonably leads a person to believe that he is about to be struck or hurt. Assault can refer to either an assault or an assault and battery. The crime of battery involves an actual physical attack rather than just a threat or attempt.

Assault can be performed with the intent to kill and seriously injure. It can be done while committing another offense like kidnapping or robbery. It is considered a felony assault. Felony assault is punished with up to life in prison. Especially when committed with a deadly weapon. It is so if carried out with a gun. And, done with the intent to rob or steal from another person,

What constitutes assault with a deadly weapon? Felonious assault or assault with a dangerous weapon is an assault perpetrated with:

[ 1 ] a weapon capable of causing severe harm; and

[ 2 ] the desire to harm the victim or make them fear an impending attack or harm.

Using an object as a weapon and in a way that can seriously injure someone qualifies as a deadly weapon. It can be a gun, knife, or brass knuckles. It is a weapon due to its inherent risk. These objects can be used in ways that are meant to inflict severe harm. Objects like broomsticks, aerosol spray cans, and dogs can all be lethal weapons.

 

What are the penalties for felonious assault?

You assaulted someone with a deadly weapon. The punishment is four years in prison maximum. Penalized with a fine of $2,000 maximum, or both.

You attack someone on school property. Or, in school vehicles used to transport children. The incarceration is up to four years. Pay a fine of up to $6,000. Serve 150 hours of community service or any combination of these three penalties.

You commit a crime using a firearm. It’s a felonious assault. Get two years maximum sentence in prison for the first conviction. Take a maximum of five years for the second conviction, and for the third, a maximum of ten years. The sentence comes after any other prison time for the underlying crime. The sentence for assault with a deadly weapon is followed by the sentence for the felony. The defendant is not qualified for probation or parole. This sentence cannot be suspended either.

You commit the offense of assault with the intent to rob or steal from the victim like a mugging. The attacker wielded a dangerous weapon. The attacker used an instrument created or used to look like a dangerous weapon, such as a toy gun. This is a felonious assault punishable by any prison term up to a life sentence.

Michigan courts can permit a criminal to serve all or a part of a prison term on probation. A person on probation must attend regular meetings with a probation officer. Adhere to any requirements specified by the court. These requirements include refraining from other arrests or convictions. Going to counseling, or doing community service. You violate a probationary requirement, you get arrested, and re-sentenced. You can be ordered to serve the full amount of your original sentence in prison. Serve your sentence with no credit for any time spent on probation.

You are guilty of assault or battery. You can be compelled to pay restitution. It entails compensating the victim for any costs associated with your criminal act. It can be the cost of counseling or medical care.

 

What do you do if charged with felonious assault?

Call an attorney. An attorney can look into your situation. Assess whether you were falsely accused. Whether there are other grounds for dismissing the case before trial.

There are several things to consider in your defense against a felonious assault charge.

There was no assault.

A dispute occurs and someone happens to be in possession of a gun or similar “weapon.” It does not necessarily follow that a felony attack has taken place. Consider a situation where two hunters are fighting while brandishing weapons. Neither of them uses their weapons to convince the other that he would soon be attacked with the rifles. There is no felony assault.

There was no intent.

The defendant did not intend to attack. A jury can only assess someone’s intent based on circumstantial evidence. The defendant must have intended to harm the complainant. The defendant caused him to reasonably fear an immediate attack.

Self-defense.

A person can use reasonable force in self-defense. It is a person’s right. Especially against a perceived, immediate threat. Using a weapon to defend yourself may be acceptable. You were attacked. You thought you were being attacked. The defendant’s claim of self-defense must be supported. The defendant has an honest and reasonable belief that using the firearm was needed to stop the alleged threat. Even if the defendant turned out to be mistaken. It doesn’t matter as long as their opinion was sincere and reasonable.

No weapon was present.

It’s possible that the putative victim is fabricating the existence of a weapon. The prosecution is making a false allegation about a dangerous weapon. Weapons in and of themselves include things like guns and brass knuckles. Certain items are made with the intention of being used peacefully. They become lethal weapons only when they are used in the wrong way. A car used in road rage for example. A kitchen knife is used in a way resulting in serious physical harm or death.

The accusations are not dropped. A lawyer can work out a deal with the prosecution on your behalf. The objective is to reduce the charges. You can be falsely charged or there are no acceptable plea deals.

Your attorney can put together a case for you and represent you in court. The defendant will frequently be allowed to enter a plea deal to a lesser-involved felony. This can happen once the prosecution negotiates with your attorney. The prosecution can consent to a lesser punishment. The prosecution can go for probation, in exchange for a guilty plea to the charge.

A felony conviction can significantly impact your life. A person convicted of a crime is no longer eligible to vote. You can’t hold public office or take part on a jury. You can’t carry or own guns. A criminal conviction can also result in the loss of a professional license. A felon may receive a heavier sentence in the new case. Especially if found guilty of a different crime due to prior convictions. A felony record can impair your chances of looking for work or even renting a house or apartment.

Find a good attorney on your side. Get good representation as soon as possible if you think the charges will be criminal in nature or a felony.

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How to Seek Enforcement of PPO – Michigan Law

How to seek enforcement of PPO or personal protection order. How is a personal protection order actually implemented? a threat or physical risk exists. You must immediately alert law enforcement. Talk to your lawyer if you get a strange feeling that someone is following you around. Talk to your lawyer if someone is hovering in your personal space.

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Let the court know how you are feeling through your lawyer. File the appropriate motion for PPO. Unless a legitimate motion is filed, the court won’t be aware of these offenses. The offending party may receive a penalty from the court. They risk being punished or held in contempt.

 

What are personal protection orders?

Personal protection order or PPO. It is a court order prohibiting threats, violence, or harassment directed at you. A PPO protects you against someone threatening, harming, stalking, or harassing you. It is a protection against someone at least 10 years old or older. Neither parents nor children under the age of 18 are eligible for a PPO that would protect them from the other.

There are three different forms of PPOs:

[ 1 ] Domestic Relationship PPOs,

[ 2 ] Non-Domestic Stalking PPOs, and

[ 3 ] Non-Domestic Sexual Assault PPOs.

Domestic Relationship PPOs

A domestic relationship PPO might be the best option for you if you are in a relationship with someone. It can be used against someone who has sexually attacked you or threatened to do so. Convince the judge that the abuser will likely assault, threaten, bug, or stalk you. Prove that you and the abuser are related on a domestic level.

A PPO for domestic relationships can shield you from:

[ a ] Your spouse or ex-spouse.

[ b ] The other parent of your child

[ c ] Someone you currently live with or previously lived with.

[ d ] Someone you currently date or previously dated.

A PPO for a domestic partnership may forbid the abuser from:

[ a ] Entering your home or another location.

[ b ] Beating, abusing, assaulting, or injuring you or another person.

[ c ] Threatening to harm or kill you or another person physically.

[ d ] Removing your children if you have legal custody of them.

[ e ] Getting a gun or owning one.

[ f ] Preventing you from removing your children or personal belongings from a location the abuser owns or rents.

[ g ] Interfering with you at work or school. Or acting in a way that damages your relationships with coworkers or your environment.

[ h ] Having access to your home/work address or phone number available in records. Especially records pertaining to you or a child of yours.

[ i ] Stalking you.

[ j ] Injuring or threatening to damage an animal you own. Taking the animal from you, or keeping it from you with the intent to cause you mental pain or control

[ k ] Anything else in particular that restricts your personal freedom. Anything that causes you to be reasonably fearful of violence.

Non-Domestic Stalking PPOs

A non-domestic stalking PPO shields you from stalking or other forms of harassment. This is for cases where you and the abuser are not in a domestic relationship. A minimum of two instances of harassment must have occurred to qualify for a stalking PPO. Any form of unwanted contact is harassment. It hurts your feelings or makes you afraid and serves no useful purpose. A reasonable person would also experience dread or emotional harm as a result of it. Stalking or harassment comes in many forms. You can be followed. Receive obnoxious calls or texts. Someone can visit your house or place of employment.

Any form of electronic stalking is cyberstalking. It implies the abuser communicated with you over the internet. It means using a computer, or another technological device without your permission.

A non-domestic PPO may forbid the abuser from:

[ a ] Following you or entering your field of vision.

[ b ] Getting close to or confronting you.

[ c ] Visiting you at work or home.

[ d ] Entering or remaining on property that you own, rent, or are occupying.

[ e ] Calling you.

[ f ] Stalking you online.

[ f ] Mailing or sending you other messages.

[ g ] Threatening to harm or kill you.

[ h ] Getting a gun or owning one.

[ i ] Putting something on or getting something delivered to a property you own, rent, or use.

[ f ] Any particular stalking behavior you want the judge to forbid.

Non-Domestic Sexual Assault PPOs

Non-domestic sexual assault PPO. This PPO shields against individuals found guilty in a court of sexually abusing you. It does so even if that person is not found guilty of the crime of threatening or committing sexual assault on you. A domestic relationship PPO might be the best option for you if you are in a relationship with someone. Especially one who has sexually attacked you or threatened to do so.

You can request a Sexual Assault PPO. You can petition one from a Michigan Circuit Court. The court order can prohibit the person subject to the PPO from doing the following:

[ a ] Get in touch with you or contact you in any way.

[ b ] Approach you or follow you.

[ c ] Enter the location where you reside.

[ d ] Threaten to murder you, harm you or another person physically or sexually.

[ e ] Acquire or own a firearm.

[ f ] Interfere with you at the place where you work or where you go to school.

[ g ] Call, email, or message you through social media.

[ h ] Do anything that restricts your own freedom or instills a reasonable fear of harm in you.

Remember that a PPO is a piece of paper you must carry in your person. It cannot physically protect you. It is not protection from an actual assault by a determined person bent on hurting you. Protect yourself by being prepared.

Carry a copy of your PPO and Proof of Service on your person always. Keep extra copies in another secure location. Get more copies of the order from the court clerk. Print more copies to distribute to your children’s schools or daycare facilities. Give a copy to your employer, and other people who need notice of it.

You can get hurt when you leave or attempt to leave an abusive relationship. Risk increases when you seek legal help. Your chances of being hurt by the abuser increase. Prepare in advance for your protection. Include the following in your safety and exit plan:

[ a ] What to do if you feel threatened and whom to contact.

[ b ] Important contacts or phone numbers.

[ c ] Escape strategy.

[ d ] Lists of essential items you should bring with you when you escape the abuser.

Ask help if you need to. Call the following organizations for help:

[ a ] The Michigan Coalition to Stop Domestic and Sexual Violence.

[ b ] The National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Call the local domestic violence organization in your state. They can provide you with help in considering your safety alternatives. These organizations can assist you in coming up with a safety plan.

 

How do you get a personal protection order?

You must submit a petition to the court to request a PPO. The judge utilizes the petition to receive relevant information. The information helps them decide whether to grant your requested order. Explain what the abuser has done to you and how it has affected you as best you can. Try to recall the dates or seasons when the incidents occurred. Police reports and other documentation are not required to get a PPO. If you do have them, you should include them with your petition. They could aid the judge in comprehending your situation.

You are afraid. You fear you can’t get a PPO immediately. You are afraid the abuser will harm you even more. Request an ex parte order. An ex parte order is an urgent court order. You won’t need to wait for a hearing if you receive an ex parte order. The abuser won’t be aware that you’re requesting a PPO with an ex parte order until your abuser receives it.

The court will schedule a hearing. The hearing determines whether to grant you a PPO if you do not ask for an ex parte order in your petition. Or, if you ask for a hearing within 21 days after the judge rejects your petition for an ex parte order, one will be held. You must deliver the abuser a copy of the petition and a notice of hearing in either of these scenarios. The abuser will be given the chance to show up at the hearing and comment on the details in your petition. In this case, the abuser will be aware of your request for a PPO before an order has been issued to protect you.

You and the abuser get an opportunity to speak during the court proceeding. You can exchange questions. You can present the judge with more evidence and call witnesses.

You might want to think about hiring a lawyer to defend you at the hearing if the court schedules one. It is difficult to represent oneself at a hearing. You must adhere to the same standards that attorneys must, such as the Michigan Rules of Evidence.

 

What happens after the judge signs the personal protection order?

As soon as a judge signs your PPO, it becomes binding throughout Michigan. Even though the abuser hasn’t yet received the PPO, this is still in effect. Any law enforcement in the United States can enforce your order once it has been served.

You should immediately dial 911. Call your local authorities if the abuser violates your PPO. Show the police your PPO and a copy of the Proof of Service when they come (if you have one). The police can search for the Proof of Service. It should be available in the Law Enforcement Information Network or LEIN. The police should serve the abuser with the PPO if you haven’t already.

The police should either:

[ 1 ] Give your abuser a copy of your PPO.

[ 2 ] Tell the abuser about the PPO.

The police serve the PPO by doing any of the above actions.

The cops may make an arrest right away if:

[ 1 ] They confirmed that you hold a PPO;

[ 2 ] They attest that the offender was served with the PPO, and

[ 3 ] They have good reason to think the abuser violated the PPO.t

The cops can make the arrest without a warrant based on the PPO. PPOs can come from another state. In Michigan, the police can make a warrantless arrest based on a PPO. It can do it with a person for violating a different states protection order. Police officers rely on a copy of the other states order in making the arrest. The order is valid and still in effect to be enforceable in the state. It must contain all the following:

[ 1 ] The parties names.

[ 2 ] An issuance date that is before the date of the violation.

[ 3 ] Terms and conditions against the person violating the order.

[ 4 ] The name of the court of jurisdiction or issuing court.

[ 5 ] A judge’s signature.

It is important to get the PPO served on or given to the responder. It is simpler for the police to make an arrest in the event of a violation. The local law enforcement in another state is not obligated to enforce your Michigan PPO until it has been served.

You cannot personally serve the respondent with the PPO. There are, other ways to serve PPO paperwork. Someone else who is at least 18 years old can serve the papers. This could be a friend, a member of the family, or anybody else. The PPO’s serving party can not be a party to the PPO case or be called a witness in it. Use certified or registered mail. Do it with delivery restricted to the respondent with the return receipt requested. Send them to the abuser or recipient.

 

How do you seek enforcement of personal protection orders?

You can be tempted to consent to the abuser’s actions that violate your PPO. Now that you have the order, perhaps you feel secure. The abuser makes a vow that things will change. The abuser requests to gather up the children from your home, but your PPO forbids the abuser from doing so. You shouldn’t consent to actions that go against your PPO. The abuser can be jailed for violating your PPO even if you have consented to the abuser’s actions.

PPO enforcement procedures are handled differently for adults and minors. A PPO infraction is to be reported to 911 even if the abuser is younger than 18. The police can arrest the abuser right away by the authorities if the PPO is served. The police take the abuser to court. The proceedings and sanctions will be distinct from those applied to adults.

Reconsidering the enforcement of your PPO? Return to court and submit a petition to modify or change the PPO. Do it if you want to make changes to the PPO before it expires. You can contact the police and report the violation if the abuser violates your PPO.

You can get help and information about enforcing your order. Get information about assistance from local domestic violence agencies in your state. You can also submit a motion requesting the abuser be punished for violating your PPO. Discuss any PPO violations with your lawyer to file this motion.

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