Ways to Save Money on Your Divorce in Michigan

Regardless of the outcome, divorce is expensive. There are alternatives to reduce the cost of your divorce. It is the reason why individuals search for less expensive options when hiring an attorney. Although a less expensive choice might not result in the divorce you want, this does not stop people from looking for someone to take their case for less money. Communication is a legal expert’s specialty. Giving legal advice is communication.

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The majority of your interactions with your attorney will be communication. You should use communication wisely if you want to cut costs on your divorce. You are not supposed to waste your attorney’s time on pointless conversations or chats. Call or talk to your attorney only if it has anything to do with your divorce case. You must ask yourself, are you willing to pay for the communication you’ll have with your attorney? Your bills will be lower the less you talk or discuss matters not pertinent to your divorce case.

 

How Should I Look at the Cost of Divorce?

The cost must be seen as relative. There’s no such thing as an absolutely cheap price and an absolutely high price to pay in a divorce. However you look at it, divorce will eventually boil down to avoiding the current pain and agony or choosing a better or less painful future. There are no absolutes as to what outcomes divorce can promise. It’s just a perspective, your perspective of the outcomes you want. It is also an opportunity to have better options. What you are eventually striving and paying for is an opportunity to start fresh.

Let’s say you got your divorce all for free but the judgment of divorce or the divorce agreement did not deliver the alimony you wanted, it did not provide for sufficient child support, and property division did not leave you much. Or, it can turn out worse for you. You got divorced alright. Now you’re facing child abuse charges. You are about to lose parental rights and probably face a prison sentence. What exactly did you save in the process?

Even the concept of saving money is relative. How exactly are you going to measure your savings against the outcome you want? Do you have a magic formula for translating your desired outcomes into dollars? How are you going to calculate the prospect of your quality of life after divorce? How are you going to translate peace of mind into dollars? How are you going to calculate the security and safety of your children? How much is your emotional and mental well-being worth? What portion of the future are you saving for?

Before even talking about savings, you must actually know how much is it going to cost you to get a divorce in Michigan.

 

What Is Driving the Cost of Divorce?

The cost of divorce is usually driven by three factors: the category of divorce, the existence of children, and the divorce process itself.

 

Category of Divorce

You don’t have to establish grounds for divorce in Michigan because it is a no-fault divorce state. But that does not imply that every divorce goes smoothly. In any divorce, key decisions about child custody, child support, property division, and alimony must be made by both you and your ex. Depending on how well you can negotiate these agreements, you will either have to proceed with a contested divorce or an uncontested divorce.

Contested Divorce

In a contentious divorce, the parties argue over the divorce’s terms. Couples may disagree over how to divide their assets or if one spouse needs to receive spousal support. Parental agreements on child support, visiting rights, and custody are occasionally in dispute.

A contested divorce may take months or years to resolve. Both sides cooperate while organizing the discovery process and the trial. If the parties are unable to come to an agreement through settlement negotiations or mediation, the court schedules a trial. At the trial, each side presents evidence and witnesses to support its position. The judge then makes a determination based on the arguments made in court and the applicable family court rules.

Uncontested Divorce

If both parties to the divorce agree to every aspect of it, it is deemed uncontested in Michigan. Their dispute does not involve any issues pertaining to property, children, or spousal support. If the parties cannot agree on any divorce-related terms, the divorce process becomes contentious. An uncontested divorce saves the couple time and money.

In an uncontested divorce, one spouse serves the other spouse with the divorce petition before submitting it to the court. The spouse who gets the divorce papers has the opportunity to respond, stating that they concur with all of the conditions stated therein and jointly requesting the court to grant the divorce in line with those conditions.

 

Divorce With or Without Minor Children

It will be specified as a DM-designated divorce or a DO-designated divorce when your divorce papers are actually filed.

DM stands for Designated Divorce, Minor Children.

All applications for divorce, separate maintenance, or annulment involving minor children. Additionally used in cases involving intrastate custody, maintenance, divorce, custody, and post-judgment transfers when there are young children.

DO is Divorce, No Children. 

Any and all requests for divorce, separate maintenance, or annulment in the absence of minor children When there are no young children involved, it is also used for intrastate transfers of post-judgment divorce complaints.

We need to make this point here because getting a contested divorce implies that you will have to deal with a lot more issues, such as property distribution and alimony. Talking about custody and parenting time during a divorce involving minor children will constitute a new category of cases separate from divorce.

In addition to court filing expenses, mediation fees, petition fees, process server fees, and the more motions and petitions filed, each case comprises a unique combination of attorney fees and per-hour serving costs.

Not only are there lots of types for each filing, but there are also numerous procedures to file, sign, stamp, and send these forms and papers. The other party normally receives copies of these documents, which results in further copy costs. As soon as your attorney’s billing arrives in the mail, you will receive a summary of these filings.

 

The Divorce Process in Michigan

It’s important to consider whether you should or shouldn’t file for divorce before beginning the divorce procedure. In order to file for divorce in Michigan, you must have lived in the county where the case is filed for at least 10 days and in Michigan for at least 180 days. A waiting period is also required before a divorce can be declared final. Couples without children must wait a minimum of 60 days, while those with children must hold off for 180 days.

After deciding to get a divorce, you may now begin the process.

The Filing of the Divorce Complaint

The first stage of a divorce is the filing of a complaint, which is an official legal document. The divorce complaint is submitted to the Circuit Court’s Family Division in the county where the parties reside, and a family court judge is chosen at random to preside over it. The one who files is known as the “Plaintiff,” and the other spouse is referred to as the “Defendant.”

The names “Plaintiff” and “Defendant” are unimportant. It’s neither good nor bad; these are merely the designations that the court gives to the parties who file and receive complaints. It denotes neither a benefit nor a drawback in the filing process.

From the date the complaint and summons are filed and served on the defendant, the defendant has 21 days (or 28 days if served by mail or outside of the state) to file an answer, either admitting or denying each allegation in the complaint.

The Defendant’s Filing of the Answers to the Divorce Complaint

In his or her response to the allegations in the complaint, the defendant states whether or not each claim is accurate. The replies are usually when any contentious topics start to come to light. The party who replies to the complaint will frequently also launch a counter-suit for divorce.

The case now becomes contested after this response is submitted to the court.

The Defendant’s Failure to Answer the Divorce Complaint

The defendant’s failure to provide an answer may result in the entry of a default judgment. The matter then progresses to an uncontested divorce. However, a defendant who has defaulted may decide to employ counsel and seek the court to overturn the default before the case is concluded.

Divorces, whether uncontested or contested, must first go through a final court hearing to determine whether the claims made in the complaint are accurate. Frequently, the plaintiff is the one who appears at the final court hearing. The defendant is not required to appear at this final hearing.

The Case in Discovery

As soon as the case begins, the lawyers decide which points are likely to be in dispute and obtain the necessary data through investigation and discovery. Depositions, which entail questioning a witness under oath, third-party subpoenas, interrogatories, which entail asking a party questions that they must answer under oath, requests for the other party to produce documents, and requests to admit, which ask the other party to concur that certain facts are true, are some of the different types of discovery.

Although it can be used for other purposes as well, discovery is frequently employed to gather information on assets and debts. One of these added objectives is information gathering in the event that one party is supposedly to blame for the divorce. Alcoholism, drug abuse, adultery, gambling, and desertion are just a few examples of wrongdoing. Discovery can be used to show this problem.

When necessary, lawyers routinely confer with and retain professionals like accountants, psychiatrists, and appraisers. Many of these experts are expensive. This may significantly increase your legal costs.

The Negotiations

After discovery is finished, the attorneys will discuss the client’s goals and begin settlement negotiations. Written settlement proposals are frequently sent back and forth between attorneys. The attorneys may also arrange a meeting of the parties and the attorneys to discuss as many topics as they can. This procedure, often known as an informal settlement meeting, is not handled by the court. If a settlement is reached, the parties may agree to its terms in writing and sign it.

Meeting the Friend of the Court

The parties may be required to attend an Early Intervention Conference with a Friend of the Court Referee when there are minor children involved in the divorce. This is followed by a course designed to help parents minimize the effects of divorce on their children. There can be a need for a particular curriculum depending on the county where the divorce is being heard.

The Waiting Period

If neither you nor your partner shares custody of any children, there is a 60-day waiting period before your divorce can be legally finalized. The waiting period begins the moment you apply for divorce, even if you and your husband were already living apart at the time. Your divorce can take far longer than 60 days if you and your spouse are unable to reach a consensus on every issue.

The parties may freely agree to proceed with mediation even before the case is filed or at any time during the waiting period. The court would typically order mediation in every instance unless there has been a history of domestic violence. In the event that the parties are unable to come to an agreement, the court will appoint a mediator.

Court Appearances

If the parties are unable to agree on a settlement, the court will set a trial date. Cases involving divorce are generally comparable to other trials. The parties and their counsel must attend to present testimony and evidence in support of each side’s contention. It can take a few hours or even days, depending on the situation. Following the trial, the Family Court Judge will provide an Opinion on the disputed issues, sometimes verbally from the bench and other times in writing. 

The Judge will then give one of the attorneys the task of drafting a divorce decree that contains all the conditions and provisions mentioned in the Judge’s Opinion.

Naturally, the Judge will not sign this ruling until all parties and their attorneys have seen it and concurred that it accurately expresses the judge’s opinion. When the Family Court Judge signs the divorce judgment, the divorce is said to be final. The problem with a trial is that the judge and the court may not be available.

Often, a trial will be scheduled with several other cases and kept on hold. The case may have been open for a year or more prior to the trial. The judge might have other cases or crises that were on his or her docket longer, so when the trial is held, it might take a while.

Keep in mind that as the trial goes on, the hourly cost of the attorneys’ fees will increase. This will make it challenging for your lawyer to determine how much it will cost to represent you. They are unable to predict the trial’s duration for a variety of reasons. One of these considerations is the judge’s time.

Final Divorce Judgment

The Judgment of Divorce is a formal court document stating your marriage has ended and outlines the terms of your divorce. The Judgment of Divorce is the official divorce decree that is legally binding. It renders judgments on a wide range of issues, including child support, property partition, support for the spouse, and custody and parenting time. The parties will have a chance to read the judgment, go over it with their attorney, and sign it before the court enters it. If there are any, there are separate orders for payments of spousal support and child support.

 

How Much Does Divorce Really Cost in Dollars?

Given that there are costs associated with the legal process, you must consider them in light of your desired result. Whether something is pricey or inexpensive actually depends on the result you’re going for. You should talk with your attorney about this outcome at the outset of the engagement. It is a decision that you should have thought about and made even before your initial consultation with your lawyer.

 

Hourly Service Fees and Retainers

The retainer and the hourly rate will likely be quoted if you have already inquired about legal fees.

Your retainer price could be as low as $275 or as high as $375 depending on the experience, knowledge, and reputation of the family law practice. These hourly rates may significantly increase as you move closer to heavily populated urban areas and commercial hubs. If you consider the entire US, the range will be broader, starting at a low of $200 and rising to a high of more than $400 per hour.

The cost of a retainer might run from $2,000 to $6,000. In the grand scheme of things, the range is less than $5000 to $7000. This could differ from state to state and from city to city.

In Michigan, lawyers frequently demand payment in the form of hourly rates, retainers, or contingency fees. The majority of lawyers bill by the hour because it safeguards them in the event that your matters take longer than expected to be resolved. Divorce attorneys typically charge between $100 and $500 per hour. 

Attorneys frequently demand a retainer, also known as an upfront fee. The retainer, which can be as little as $1,000 or as much as $10,000, is an advance payment for their hourly charges. The attorney will deduct money from that account each time they work on your case. Divorce attorneys may sometimes charge a fixed fee; this is common in uncontested divorces.

If your attorney wishes to charge a flat fee, make sure to ask what is included in that price upfront to avoid any unpleasant surprises later on in the case. Moreover, your attorney may bill you for additional services not previously discussed as part of the first fee. There may be fees for things like phone calls and travel time.

Costs can be influenced by many factors, as we have already explained. There are different fees associated with each stage of the divorce process and with issues like child custody and parenting time.

 

Court-Mandated Filing Fees

Updates to trial court fee schedules, which are published by the Department of Treasury in accordance with MCL 21.41 et seq., are now the responsibility of the State Court Administrative Office. MCL 141.421 et seq.

Other fee schedules published by the Department of Treasury cover topics including mileage charges for process serving, updates to accounting practices, and child care fund collection fees, among other things.

The cost of filing a lawsuit, as of the time this article was written, might be between $85 and $150. Fees include those for custody and parenting, support, friends of the court, arbitration, mediation, contempt for non-compliance with parenting time rules, punishments, etc.

According to the circuit court fee schedule, ancillary guardianship and conservatorship filing fees are $150, as well as other civil filing fees for cases filed in the family division. It is free to file a petition for a subpoena to testify outside of the state.

Those who cannot afford attorneys have the option of contacting the Friend of the Court for free services, however, they are often only available in child custody disputes.

 

Client-driven Costs

Clients may take actions that aren’t genuinely motivated by justice or the interests of everyone. It is mostly motivated by pride, rage, and jealousy, which feeds hostility among ex-spouses. This is what we refer to as “acrimonious battles.” At times the children’s representation was so inadequate the court had to hire another person, an expert, to represent the child. The parents will be responsible for paying the expert’s fees.

The valuation of assets in the property division is a factor in some costs. In these circumstances, costs might rise quickly and significantly.

 

What Do I Need to Do to Save Money on My Divorce?

It is never simple to get divorced. It’s particularly challenging to think about how much it costs to file for divorce in Michigan. Time, judicial procedures and internal law firm procedures are all constant considerations. Even your own client dynamics haven’t been considered yet. A minimal expense that includes retainers and appearance fees is what you can realistically expect.

At best is to manage what you can control in the divorce process so you can manage the costs as the case progresses. Here’s what you can control and what you can do for yourself:

 

Avoid confusing your divorce attorney with your therapist.

Divorces are very emotional events. Talking to your divorce lawyer can be quite reassuring because they are, or at the very least should be, solidly in your corner. If your attorney has handled multiple cases, they will be familiar with your side of the story, and it will be satisfying to speak with someone who recognizes the legitimacy of your viewpoint. You can develop a practice of phoning or emailing your divorce attorney frequently because it makes you feel better to do so, often each day. Occasionally multiple times per day.

You should avoid falling into this trap unless you have plenty of cash. Keep in mind that there is a time limit each time you contact your attorney. Consider it to be an extremely costly taxi ride. The moment you enter the taxi, the meter begins to run. The same logic holds true with family law attorneys. The meter starts to run as soon as you get on the phone with your attorney, and you start to be charged.

Keep in mind that the only service attorneys offer for sale are their time and advice. Divorce attorneys in Michigan earn a living in this manner. Just like doctors, accountants, architects, and engineers, attorneys make money by selling their time and advice.

This does not imply that you should never speak with your lawyer. On the contrary, if you require legal counsel on your case, you should speak with your divorce attorney. However, establish a list of the questions or concerns you want to share before you pick up the phone and give your list significant thought. Keep the dialogue brief and focus on these issues; don’t waste time complaining about how terrible the situation is.

 

Be aware of the written attorney fee agreement.

Nearly all seasoned and successful family law attorneys bill by the hour and want an upfront retainer or deposit at the start of each divorce case. In Michigan, divorce lawyers frequently charge modest retainer fees.

Until the deposited retainer is used up, fees and costs will be deducted from it; after that time, the client is typically responsible for any additional fees or costs incurred. The first retainer deposit is frequently replaced as it is being used up by leading divorce attorneys.

In the belief that they will save money, clients occasionally search for a family lawyer who will take their case for a flat fee. The issue with this structure is that the lawyer has no motivation to go above and beyond the minimum requirements. They both might be correct—the client frequently feels like his case is being overlooked, while the lawyer frequently thinks the client is trying to monopolize his time on purpose.

It is crucial that you have a formal fee agreement that clearly spells out the terms of the service before hiring a lawyer, whether on an hourly or flat fee basis. This covers things like the refund policy for any retainers, how frequently you’ll get statements, the lawyer’s hourly charges, etc. You should be aware of the minimal fees for correspondence via email, mail, and phone. Requesting a copy of this fee agreement is advisable. Make sure you do understand the terms and conditions of the fee agreement.

 

Don’t view your divorce as an opportunity to exact revenge on your spouse.

Judges have a very low tolerance for people who use the family courts to attempt and exact retribution on their partner. Clients are informed of this by competent attorneys with lots of expertise. In most divorce cases, the judge’s final ruling does not include a significant consideration of the issue of fault.

Judges disapprove of those who drag their spouse into court unnecessarily, try to punish the other spouse, or act with vengeance. Even though our courts are overworked and unable to deal with the emotional aspects of divorce, they are aware that going through a divorce may be a devastating event for the psyche.

Our courts are increasingly splitting up the assets and obligations from dissolutions of marriages in the same manner as they would with a dissolution of a corporation. 

If you want a therapist to help you get through this extremely tough emotional moment in your life, good lawyers can aid you in finding one. It is not appropriate to seek therapy in a judge’s chambers or an attorney’s office. You’re wasting your time and money by trying to interest courts and attorneys in the emotional aspects of divorce.

 

Speak the truth clearly and plainly.

The likelihood is that your attorney won’t be able to execute their job effectively if you don’t tell them the complete truth. Late in the divorce process or by accident, lawyers dislike learning new information. Both your time and their time would be foolishly wasted in that.

Every divorce attorney wants to be aware of both the positive and negative aspects of their client. All the details, expenses, assets, and other information pertaining to your case should be disclosed. Clients who are not completely honest with a family law attorney may incur excessive legal costs.

 

Do not waste dollars in order to save nickels.

This is crucial information. When it comes to choosing an attorney, people are frequently quite thrifty and believe they will save a lot of money by selecting a lawyer with a low flat rate or by selecting a less qualified but less expensive option. This is a tremendous error. In general, you get what you pay for. Cheap attorneys know their worth. Top-tier, seasoned attorneys recognize their worth as well. You would do well to recognize the importance of your own attorney by the conclusion of a divorce dispute.

The quickest possible resolution should be your aim. However, don’t go too quickly. Consult with your attorney about the timing. You will require an accomplished attorney who genuinely shares your goals and aspirations in order to accomplish this. The attorney will then use their knowledge and abilities to assist you in achieving that goal. But pay attention to the word “reasonable settlement”—not just any settlement, not just a quick resolution.

It is crucial that your attorney has the knowledge and conviction necessary to successfully present your case in court if the opposing party cannot be persuaded to resolve the dispute on reasonable terms.

When an attorney or law firm gives you an hourly quote, they are not discussing the whole cost. The attorney is only providing you with the hourly rate that will be used when they devote the necessary time to your case. Your attorney doesn’t truly know how much will be reflected in your billings because they aren’t sure how many hours they will need to put in until they begin working on the divorce case’s legal requirements.

So the best course of action is to speak with an attorney and have a vision of what you want to happen. After discussing your specific plan, bring up the subject of fees.

To get more information about legal fees and the cost of family law cases, you can read our article on, “What You Can Expect In Legal Fees & Cost For Your Family Law Case In Michigan?” where we pointed out important costs you should look out for in a divorce case.

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Does Michigan Have a Residency Requirement for Divorce?

Does Michigan have a residency requirement for divorce? There is a residency requirement in Michigan. You must have lived in the county where you are filing for divorce for at least 10 days before filing, according to state rules. The general requirement is that you must have lived in Michigan for at least six months before filing for divorce.

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If you are filing from another state, there may be extenuating circumstances, such as a risk of domestic violence or abuse, but the Michigan judge is likely to uphold the general rule.

You must be a resident of the state in almost all cases before you can apply for divorce there. While the minimum amount of time necessary varies by state, most states require at least six months. You must provide evidence that you have lived in that state for the required period of time when you submit your divorce papers.

All other lingering matters, such as child custody, child support, and any modifications to these arrangements, are under the authority of whichever court administers the initial divorce settlement.

 

What Does Residency Mean?

The term “residency requirements” refers to how long you must live in a state before you can petition for divorce there. Having a residency in a state simply implies that you have been present in the state for a predetermined amount of time in the context of divorce. 

Your divorce action may be refused or dismissed if you are unable to claim and demonstrate that you (or your spouse) meet the residence requirement.

Before the court will accept your divorce case, some states just need you to meet residency requirements; however, other states also ask you to provide proof of your domicile inside the state. Domicile is a more difficult criterion to achieve since you must persuade the court that you intend to remain after the divorce.

Courts commonly define “domicile” as the place you perceive to be your permanent home and where you intend to return whenever you are away, such as when on vacation or a long business trip.

You may own more than one property or residence, but you may only have one domicile.

Courts frequently take into account things like where the person’s family members reside, where they vote, where they work, where their automobile is registered, and so forth.

The courts may have the power to grant the divorce but not to rule on remaining matters like property distribution and child custody if one spouse files for divorce in the state in which they reside but the other spouse has no presence there.

 

Why Are Courts Requiring Residency in Divorce Cases?

These residency requirements were put in place to stop “forum shopping,” which is when spouses file for divorce in another state to take advantage of more favorable divorce rules. The purpose of requiring a longer residency is to deter people who are just searching for a better divorce outcome.

Frustrated spouses in the past believed that relocating to a different state with more favorable divorce laws would provide them a competitive advantage in their divorce proceedings. Some parties looked for states where the courts were more likely to give custody to the father or places where the filing spouse would be forced to receive a more advantageous property settlement.

Family courts no longer permit “forum shopping” of this nature. Nearly all states’ divorce laws today provide that before the court will hear a divorce case, the parties must adhere to strict residency and domicile requirements.

In order to handle any issue, a court must have jurisdiction—or legal authority—over it, according to the law. Because of this, litigating parties must adhere to residency requirements before a court can render any important, case-related decisions.

If a court accepts a case without possessing the necessary jurisdiction, the judge will not be able to hear the case or render a divorce ruling. Even after the divorce has been granted finality by the court, the opposing party may ask for the case to be dismissed or appeal the judgment.

 

What Are the Divorce Residency Requirements in the State of Michigan?

In terms of who is qualified to apply for divorce, Michigan has its own laws. Every state defends its territory and ensures that the proper laws are enforced in appropriate cases. Make sure you satisfy the residence criteria for Michigan in order to avoid having your divorce case rejected. Believing they must file for divorce in the state where they were married is the most common error people make. Clearly, this is untrue. In the United States, the filing spouse’s county of residence is where the majority of divorce cases are filed.

In the state of Michigan, there are particular residency criteria that must be met by anyone seeking to dissolve their marriage. You must adhere to various state-specific requirements before submitting a divorce petition to the Michigan courts. The prerequisites for Michigan residency are as follows:

[ 1 ]  Before the court in this state would grant a divorce judgment, the complainant or defendant in a divorce case must have lived in this state for 180 days prior to filing the complaint, as well as for 10 days in the county where the complaint is filed.

[ 2 ]  Typically, the spouse seeking a divorce does it in their home county.

If you do not satisfy at least one of the aforementioned Michigan residence criteria, you have the following options:

[ a ]  Demonstrate Michigan residency for the aforementioned period of time. It is not necessary for you to wait before beginning the process of getting your documents.

[ b ]  Allow your partner to file the paperwork if they satisfy the residency requirements.

If you or your spouse are eligible in another state, choose that one. Always consider the alternative for the state where you got married because every state is unique.

If the divorce from your former spouse is still pending, you should consult a lawyer. Before beginning a new divorce case, all prior divorce cases must be dismissed.

If your spouse has never lived in Michigan, the judge’s decisions can be more limited. More specifically, even if the residence requirements are met, a Michigan court might not have the authority to decide on matters like child custody, child support, and parenting time.

A signed and dated lease or rental agreement, tax returns or property tax papers if you own your home yourself, employment records or a letter from your employer, or voter registration evidence would all be required if the court asked you to show proof of your residency. 

Military personnel stationed in Michigan must either designate Michigan their home of record after 180 days, which equates to 6 months and 10 days, or they must live there continuously.

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Reasons to Deny Overnight Visitation in Michigan

Reasons to deny overnight visitation. There is only one justification for refusing overnight visitation in the absence of an emergency. You can only refuse the other parent’s visitation or parenting time with a valid court order.

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Even if you harbor some feelings or doubts about your spouse, a Michigan judge won’t find them to be important enough to overturn your parenting time request. The court will find some other means for the other parent to have that portion of parenting time, notwithstanding the very good reason you have for not allowing visitation.

 

Why Are Courts Biased for More Parenting Time?

The parent-child relationship and the home environment, which includes all primary caregivers, are the cornerstones of children’s well-being and healthy development, according to decades of research. Children begin learning as soon as they are born, and they depend on their parents and other primary caregivers to keep them safe and take care of them.

The impact of parents may never be more apparent than during a child’s formative years when the brain is quickly developing and virtually all experiences are formed and influenced by parents and the home environment. Parents set the course for their children’s health and welfare throughout childhood and beyond by encouraging the growth and development of their knowledge and abilities.

Parents are also influenced by their parenting experience. For instance, parenting can enhance and focus parents’ lives, cause tension or tranquility, and elicit a variety of emotions, such as satisfaction, grief, joy, and rage.

Today’s parenting of young children occurs in the midst of important continuous breakthroughs. The corpus of research on young children is expanding quickly, financing for family-focused services and initiatives is increasing, the demographics of the US population are changing, and family structures are diversifying. Technology and improved access to parenting knowledge are both contributing to the ongoing transformation of parenting. 

More than the knowledge from all this research, the court has a narrow set of statutes to base their determinations and decisions.

In Michigan, parents who are considering denying the other parent parenting time must be aware of the statute. Parenting time is taken seriously by Michigan’s legal system, which prevents parents from denying other parent access to their children without a good cause.

A parenting time schedule is used to determine how much time the non-custodial parents spend with their minor children. The parenting time schedule, which is a court order, is enforced in Michigan by the Circuit Courts.

According to Michigan Compiled Laws (MCL) 722.27a, parenting time is specified in a court order based on the Child Custody Act of 1970 (Act 91 of 1970).

The Michigan Supreme Court enforces this Act through the family court in each Michigan County. Michigan’s family court is the Circuit Court.

Each County has a Friend of the Court, or FOC, to assist the Family Court. The FOC will typically investigate custody and visitation disputes and provide guidance. Decisions regarding child support, parenting time, and custody are routinely recommended by the FOC.

Without a court order, you cannot contest parenting time in Michigan. You run the danger of being found in contempt of court if you deny the other parent visitation time. You must always have a strong reason before withholding parenting time in Michigan.

 

What Valid Reasons Should I Have to Deny Overnight Visitation?

There is some level of animosity between the spouses in the majority of divorce cases. The continued bond that the parents are needed to have may occasionally be affected by this. Arrangements for visits may give rise to disputes. Accusations may be made when the custodial parent reschedules, cancels, or ignores a visitation as required by the agreement. One party might think the other is unreasonable or unwilling to make accommodations to ensure the children see both parents.

Nevertheless, a visitation schedule can be disrupted by a variety of factors, including work schedules, travel plans, and more. A non-custodial parent who believes they are being unfairly denied contact with their children may need to hire an attorney to fight for their rights. Amidst these realities of parenthood, there are really very few reasons you can deny visitation except through a court order.

Visitation schedules are supposed to be part of agreements in the divorce process. 

During the divorce process, parents may reach different types of agreements, but any parenting time or visitation plan must be approved by the court. Typically, whatever agreement the parents come to will be accepted by the court. 

However, if there is a compelling basis for the court to be concerned about one of the parents, it will reject the parenting schedule the parents have agreed to if one parent possesses any of the following:

[ a ]  a criminal history

[ b ]  having previously misused alcohol or narcotics,

[ c ]  domestic or sexual abuse in the past, or

[ d ]  other issues the court will consider to be dangerous for the children.

The court, however, has taken the “default” position that allowing the children access to both parents is in their best interests. It won’t veer off this path unless there’s a compelling reason.

The main factor guiding these agreements is the stability issue. The court understands it is in the children’s best interests for them to have a regular schedule even though they should have access to both parents.

There are other compelling reasons for not denying parenting time and we supported it with insights from research in our article, “How Can I Deny Parenting Time In Michigan?” where we mentioned the impact of strong parent engagement with their children.

 

What Happens If I Deny Overnight Visitation?

In Michigan, you cannot oppose parenting time without a court order. If you refuse to allow the other parent to visit, you run the possibility of being placed in contempt of court. In Michigan, you must always have a strong reason before withholding parenting time.

Here are the potential consequences when denying parenting time or visitation:

[ a ]  Contempt of Court

First, the offending parent can be found in contempt of court. Accordingly, the parent who refuses can be subject to a fine or perhaps jail time. Furthermore, any time lost to the reluctant parent may need to be made up.

[ b ]  Loss of Child Custody

The parent who was refused custody may actually suffer the second repercussion. This is because the court can infer from a parent’s denial that they are unable to put the interests of the child first.

[ c ]  Payment of Attorney Fees

Court costs and legal expenditures could be charged to the account of the parent who is refusing custody. This can contribute to your growing legal expenses in the course of your divorce case.

Custody and parenting time are governed by the Michigan Child Custody Act. The rights and obligations of parents with regard to their children are outlined in the Act. To provide the parties and the children with some structure, a parenting time plan is frequently made.

The family court in each Michigan County carries out the Michigan Supreme Court’s enforcement of this Act. Circuit Court is Michigan’s family court.

In each County, a friend of the court is also available to assist the Family Court. The Friend of the Court routinely investigates custody and parenting time concerns and makes recommendations to the court afterward. Frequently, the FOC makes recommendations about custody, parenting time, and child support.

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Does Guardianship Terminate When the Child Turns 18 in Michigan?

When one individual is appointed as a guardian due to a compelling circumstance or condition, this is a concept of guardianship. Does guardianship terminate when the child turns 18?   Grandparents may be granted guardianship by a parent, for instance, in circumstances when the parent travels frequently. If a parent is unable to be there physically to care for the child, a grandmother may act as guardian.

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Typically, guardianship ends when a child turns 18 years old. In certain situations, such as when a child has a handicap, a substance use disease, or is unable of caring for himself, the guardianship may continue to remain in place after the age of 18.

 

What is Guardianship?

A guardian is a person chosen to represent another person in court (called the ward). Guardianship is the judicial process. When a court grants a guardian authority, it also denies the person those same rights. A guardianship can only be ended once it has been established by a judicial order.

Guardianship should only be used in extreme cases because it denies someone the right to support and accommodations. Removing someone’s rights increases their vulnerability, not decreases it. Therefore, it’s crucial to consider other options.

Legal guardianship of children, or the custody of a child by someone who is not their parent, is permitted in the state of Michigan. In the case the ward’s parents are unable to care for them, the guardian is in charge of meeting their ward’s immediate and long-term requirements, including shelter, education, food, and clothes. Various factors, such as incarceration or abandonment, may cause this.

The court will appoint guardians. A petition, a will, or any written instrument that has been signed by the parent and at least two additional witnesses can be used to nominate potential guardians. In specific situations, a person can also apply for complete guardianship of a minor.

A guardian must apply to the probate court for custody of a minor; the court will decide whether to award it or not depending on what it considers to be in the child’s best interests. Full and limited guardianships are both subject to termination by the court at the request of the child’s parents or the child himself in Michigan.

 

What Are the Types of Guardianship for Minors?

When parents are unable to care for their children because of illness, incarceration, or other reasons, Michigan law allows for legal guardianship. It grants a person legal rights for the care of their child and enables them to designate family members or other interested parties as the caretakers for their children. 

There are a lot of types of guardianship, but guardianship for minors has three types:

 

[ a ]  Full Guardianship

Anyone concerned for a minor’s welfare or a minor who is 14 years old or older may file a petition in the county where the minor resides or is present to request the appointment of a guardian on their behalf. The probate court may appoint a guardian for an unmarried minor if any of the following circumstances exist:

[ i ]  A prior court order, a divorce or a decision of separate maintenance, a death, a finding of mental incompetency by a judge, a disappearance, or confinement in a detention facility will all result in the termination or suspension of both parents or the surviving parent’s parental rights.

[ ii ]  When the petition is filed, the minor is not living with his or her parents and the parent or parents have allowed the minor to live with someone else without giving that person legal custody or responsibility for the minor’s care and maintenance.

[ iii ]  The person who the petition asks to be appointed guardian is related to the minor within the fifth degree by marriage, blood, or adoption. The biological parents of the minor have never been married to each other. The minor’s parent who has custody of the minor dies or goes missing. No court order has granted legal possession to the other parent.

The family independence agency, a court employee, or another agent may be instructed by the court to look into the proposed guardianship and submit a written report of their findings. Additionally, the court may require appropriate support payments from the minor ward’s parents at any time, as well as reasonable parenting time and contact between the minor ward and his or her parents, all for the benefit of the minor.

Following a hearing, the court must appoint the person if it determines such a person is qualified, the appointment will benefit the minor’s welfare, the venue is appropriate, the necessary notices have been made, and the legal conditions for full guardianship have been met. If not, the court may dismiss the case or find a different solution that will be in the minor’s best interests.

 

[ b ]  Limited Guardianship

In the county where the minor lives or is present at the time of filing, an interested party may submit a limited guardianship petition. If all of the following conditions are satisfied, the probate court may, upon the petition of the minor’s parent or parents, appoint a limited guardian for the unmarried minor:

[ i ]  The appointment of a limited guardian is approved by the parents who have custody of the minor or, if there is only one parent who has custody of the minor, by that parent alone.

[ ii ]  The parent or parents willingly agree to have their parental rights suspended.

[ iii ] The following parties agree on a restricted guardianship placement plan, which the court approves:

  • [ + ] The minor’s parents, or the only parent if there is only one parent with custody, are those who have legal custody of the child.
  • [ + ] The person or people who will be chosen by the court to serve as the minor’s limited guardian.

To be placed in a limited guardianship and to take part in a limited guardianship placement plan, a child must have the parent’s permission. This placement plan shall set forth the grounds for requesting a limited guardianship, the period of the limited guardianship, the terms for parenting time and child support, and any additional terms that the parties agree the parents shall abide by. A parent whose consent was obtained for the placement plan may have their parental rights terminated by the probate court if they substantially violate the plan without justification.

Following a hearing, the court must appoint the person if it determines that person is qualified, the appointment will benefit the minor’s welfare, the venue is appropriate, the necessary notices have been made, and the legal requirements for a limited guardianship have been met. If not, the court may dismiss the case or find a different solution that will be in the minor’s best interests.

 

[ c ] Temporary Guardianship

The probate court may appoint a temporary guardian with the status of an ordinary guardian of a minor once a petition for full guardianship or limited guardianship of a minor is filed, but the temporary guardian’s authority may not exceed six months.

The courts may appoint a temporary guardian for a period of six months in situations where a minor’s safety is in danger and need immediate protection. Unless otherwise limited by the court, the temporary guardian has all the rights and obligations of a full guardian during this time.

When decisions about a child’s health or welfare must be made right away, or when the child needs to be placed, it may be essential to appoint a temporary guardian while waiting for the results of a complete hearing on a guardianship petition. To appoint a temporary guardian, the court must hold a hearing and hear testimony.

 

Why Would You Need Guardianship?

There may be circumstances where a guardianship application for a minor should be made before the probate court. The parents may have abandoned their child with a friend or family member without any intention of coming back or with no legal right to make choices regarding the child’s welfare, such as through a power of attorney. The child may also be at risk from the parents’ damaging, negligent, or immoral behavior. Until the birth parents can take over again, someone can apply to be appointed as the child’s legal guardian for the child’s safety.

A guardianship is by definition a temporary arrangement because it does not nullify a child’s parental rights under the law. While suspending the birth parents’ authority, it does give the prospective guardian several rights and obligations surrounding the upkeep and care of the child.

 

What Is the Guardian Authorized to Do?

The guardian of a minor has the same rights and obligations as a parent who is not deprived of custody of the parent’s minor and unemancipated child, with the exception that the guardian is not required by law to support the ward with their own money and is not responsible to third parties for the actions of the ward because of their parental relationship. A guardian is vested with the following authority and obligations:

[ a ]  A ward’s personal belongings must be handled with reasonable care by the guardian, and if necessary, a protective process must be started to safeguard the ward’s other property.

[ b ]  The guardian may receive funds made available for the ward’s maintenance to the ward’s parent, guardian, or custodian pursuant to the conditions of a private contract, devise, trust, conservatorship, or custodianship, or under the rules of a statutory benefit or insurance system. Unless a conservator is appointed for the ward’s estate, in which case the excess shall be given over to the conservator at least annually, the guardian shall take reasonable care to save any excess for the ward’s future needs. The guardian is not permitted to utilize that money or property as payment for their services unless specifically authorized by a court order or as determined by a conservator who has been legally appointed but is not the guardian. A guardian has the right to bring legal action to compel someone to carry out their obligation to care for their ward or to make a financial contribution to their welfare.

[ c ]  The guardian must support the ward’s educational, social, and other activities and must approve any professional medical or other care, treatment, or guidance. Unless it would have been against the law for a parent to have consented, a guardian is not accountable due to this permission for harm to the ward caused by the negligence or actions of third parties.

[ d ]  The guardian may approve the marriage of a minor ward.

[ e ]  A guardian may, under certain circumstances, approve the marriage, adoption, or release of a minor ward for adoption (unless this is a limited guardianship)

[ f ]  As requested by the court on the petition of a person concerned for the welfare of the juvenile or when required by court regulation, a guardian is required to report the condition of the ward and of the ward’s estate that is under their ownership or control. The report must include information about the ward’s status, any medical or mental health treatment or care the ward received, and any justifications, if any, for keeping the guardianship in place.

[ g ]  The guardian is required to notify the court of the ward’s new address within 14 days of a change in the ward’s domicile.

 

Does Guardianship Terminate When the Child Turns 18 Years of Age?

In the eyes of the law, a person is considered to be a competent adult and free to make any decisions, good or bad, once they turn 18. They can continue to exercise this privilege until they die or a judge rules that they are no longer competent.

Until they are fired or pass away, the guardian has legal control over the child. Likewise, the guardianship is revoked in the event that the minor child dies, weds, is adopted, or reaches the age of majority.

The Age of Majority Act established the age of 18 as the threshold for becoming an adult for the majority of purposes. 

Nevertheless, other ages may be significant depending on the legal difficulties at hand. For instance, a person in Michigan is legally deemed an adult for criminal law reasons when they become 17 years old. Therefore, rather than being tried in family court, a 17-year-old who is suspected of a crime will be tried as an adult in either district or circuit court. The legal drinking age is 21 in Michigan, too, according to the state constitution. In addition, you are an adult by law if you have been emancipated.

A child between the ages of 16 and 18 can become legally independent from their parents or other legal guardians through the process of emancipation.

Even if your child has a disability, you are no longer his or her legal guardian beyond the age of 18. All individuals who are 18 years of age or older are assumed competent under the law, which means they are able to make decisions regarding their health, finances, and other significant areas of their lives. 

Competency in the context of health care implies the capacity to give “informed consent” for medical treatment or the capacity to comprehend all the advantages and disadvantages of that treatment.

To answer the question, does guardianship terminate when the child turns 18? 

In Michigan, the answer is yes.

If you believe your adult child is unable to give informed consent, you might want to think about applying for guardianship so you can help and protect him or her when receiving medical treatment.

In case you want to read about a related article on guardianship, we posted one article, “How To Transfer Guardianship of a Minor Between States” which discusses the nuances of moving your ward across state lines for special care or change of domicile.

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How Do You Split Holidays When Co-parenting in Michigan?

How do you split holidays when co-parenting?  How do you actually do it in Michigan? How do you handle Christmas, New Year’s, and Christmas Eve? The vast majority of circuit courts have a model or policy for the parenting time schedule. Parents are free to use and abide by it. The choice is all up to the parents. Your family’s dynamics will really determine this.

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Christmas holidays are prioritized by the majority of households. It might be best to switch up the holidays. similar to alternating between odd and even years for Christmas gatherings. If the children are still young enough, this is excellent. In the teen years, one parent may not be able to celebrate Christmas and may be forced to make do with having the children on New Year’s Eve.

Due to shared custody, having to miss holidays with your child can be a difficult reality to accept. However, by properly preparing a parenting plan, you can still be present for the major holidays.

 

What Does the Law Say About Holidays and Parenting Time?

In Michigan, a child has the right to parenting time with each parent unless a judge finds that the child’s physical, mental, or emotional well-being would be jeopardized. It is generally in the best interests of a child to have parenting time in a frequency, duration, and type that fosters a strong bond between a child and parent, according to Michigan law more specifically MCL 722.27a(1).

To come up with a fair and more standardized template for setting parenting time a set of guidelines were put together by the Michigan Supreme Court. It was to be a guide for parents, court personnel, and professionals providing services to families.

MCL 552.519 mandates the Friend of the Court Bureau of the Michigan Supreme Court, State Court Administrative Office, to create publications to aid each friend of the court office in performing its obligations. The Michigan Parenting Time Guideline was released in 2000 with the goal of educating the general public and professionals, such as court personnel who assist parents in creating parenting time plans, and good parenting practices.

The most recent edition of this parenting time guideline was published in February 2021 and updated in March 2022.

 

Is there a Standard Co-parenting Schedule for Holidays?

In Michigan, family courts hold that, wherever possible, a child’s best interests are served by maintaining a positive relationship with both parents. As a result, noncustodial parents typically receive fair parenting time rights. The court has a typical holiday schedule that permits both parents to spend time with their children on special events, such as birthdays and holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas Day if you and your co-parent are unable to come to an agreement.

When people discuss a typical visitation schedule for holidays, they most often mean the FOC’s (Friend of the Court) typical holiday schedule.

Parenting time standards are set by the State of Michigan, Macomb County, and numerous other counties. The “best practices” outlined in these recommendations hold true for both typical workday and weekend routines as well as vacations, school breaks, and other special occasions.

There are numerous choices for allocating the holiday time a child spends with each parent in the proposed parenting time schedules provided by Macomb County. The recommendations suggest parents divide up the following eight well-known holidays, in addition to specifying a child spends Mother’s Day weekend with the mother and Father’s Day weekend with the father:

  • [ a ]  Labor Day
  • [ b ]  Memorial Day
  • [ c ]  Fourth of July
  • [ d ]  Halloween
  • [ e ]  Thanksgiving
  • [ f ]  Easter Sunday
  • [ g ]  Christmas Eve
  • [ h ]  Christmas Day

Four of the eight annual breaks should be used by both parents to spend time with the children, with the holidays switching each year. Therefore, if a child spends Labor Day, Christmas Eve, Memorial Day, and Easter Sunday with their father, they will both spend the Fourth of July, Halloween, Thanksgiving Day, and Christmas Day with their mother. 

It is also possible for parents to switch off on winter and summer vacations. A noteworthy example is currently the 16th Judicial Circuit Court General Parenting Time Schedule.

Here’s an example of how to split parenting time during holidays:

  • [ a ]  Thanksgiving: Starting at 6:00 pm on Wednesday and running through 6:00 pm on Friday, the mother will have the children for Thanksgiving in odd years, while the dad will have them in even years.
  • [ b ]  Winter break: In even years, the mother will be with the kids for the first half of the break, whereas in odd years, the dad will be with the kids for the first half.
  • [ c ]  Winter break: During the second half of the break, the mother in odd-numbered years will spend the holidays with the children, while the father will have the kids in even-numbered years.
  • [ d ]  Christmas Eve: Starting on the 23rd of December at 6:00 pm and finishing at 6:00 pm on the 24th, the mother will have the children for Christmas Eve in even years, while the father will have the children for Christmas Eve in odd years.
  • [ e ]  Christmas Day: Starting at 6:00 p.m. on December 24 and lasting through 6:00 p.m. on December 25, the mother will have the children for Christmas Day in odd years, while the father will have them in even years.

These particular guidelines are not a requirement of you or the other parent of your child. Working up a unique parenting time arrangement and submitting it to the court for approval are both options you have. You can handle other significant events, such as holidays, cultural celebrations, and religious occasions that are unique to you and your family, in a settlement that is tailored to your needs.

 

What Happens if We Can’t Agree on the Holiday Parenting Time Schedule?

If you and your ex can’t come to an understanding on a holiday parenting time schedule, you might need to submit a motion in the court where your judgment was issued to ask for clarification or to find a specific holiday parenting time schedule that works best for your family. You and your ex should establish a clear timetable for holiday parenting time as soon as possible so that there is no ambiguity going forward. This will enable both of you to better plan for these holidays in the future.

A “motion regarding parenting time” is what is utilized to file a parenting time dispute in Michigan, and these motions are filed in the local county courts where your initial judgment was approved.

There are several times during the year when you’ll want to be with your children but they have plans with your ex. Negotiations are an essential part of the divorce process, and your attorney can help you develop and propose a fair parenting time arrangement or plan.

The most important thing to grasp is that the plan must be carried out once it has been developed. Consistency is essential both legally and for your children’s welfare. Because they will rely on this plan just as much as you do, they will be better able to manage their daily life if they know where they will be and who they will be with each week.

You may want to read about parenting time schedule in our article, “How To Establish A Visitation Schedule Hassle-free In Michigan” about approaches to setting parenting time schedules.

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Can I Get My Ex’s Parental Rights Terminated in Michigan?

The actions of my ex-partner bother me. My ex doesn’t participate in parenting time. Can I get my ex’s parental rights terminated? The decision to revoke your ex’s parental rights in Michigan truly isn’t yours to make. 

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Your ex’s parental rights cannot be simply revoked. It cannot be done by a court motion. Parental rights termination more closely resembles a move made by the Child Protective Services or the Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) (CPS). The best you can probably hope for is a court motion to change your ex’s parenting time.

 

Why Are Courts Biased Towards Keeping the Family Together?

There is some level of animosity between the spouses in the majority of divorce cases. The continued bond parents need to have may occasionally be impacted by this. Arrangements for visits may give rise to disputes. Accusations may be made when the custodial parent reschedules, cancels, or ignores a visitation as required by the agreement. 

One of these accusations or allegations may be extreme, such as abandonment, in order to expose the parent to claims that could result in the termination of parental rights. If you are the one making these allegations or accusations, you will find it difficult to get the court to listen to you. Or you may find the court seems “biased” to some degree.

The court is not actually biased for or against you or your ex spouse. The court is biased towards the best interest of the child.

The whole point of having a mandatory waiting period in a divorce process is to ensure time is provided for reconsideration or for reconciliation of both spouses. It gives the parents time to think and to worry about the life of their children after divorce. The position is to look at divorce as the last resort not the first and only one in resolving unhappiness in marriage. Such logic is carried over to the determination of child custody cases. Separating parents from children or undermining their relationship should not be an option for ex spouses.

The laws of Michigan state that children should get along well with both parents. The court must consider the best interests of the child while deciding whether to grant or modify custody. The phrase “best interests” refers to a set of standards established by law.

The ability and willingness of each party to support and foster a healthy, long-lasting parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent or the child and the parents is one of the decisive considerations. This demonstrates how, legally speaking, limiting or denying parental time directly conflicts with the child’s best interests.

If the court is strongly opposed to limiting or denying parental time, how much more for the dissolution of the parent-child relationship most especially in Michigan.

 

How Do You Lose Parental Rights? What Conditions Can Make You Lose Parental Rights?

One of the most dreadful things a parent may hear is the phrase “termination of parental rights.” Fear of losing a child to “the system” can motivate a parent to make changes in their life for the sake of the child. Some people, however, find relief in termination since they are aware that they are unable to support their child but are unable to seek assistance. Some parents choose to voluntarily end their parental involvement because they believe it is best for the child.

The process for terminating parental rights is arguably one of the greatest and most severe legal safeguards available to protect vulnerable children. A termination proceeding is frequently a crucial step before the adoption of the child. After termination or approval of adoption, parental rights may be restored in several states.

Parental rights once revoked in Michigan, cannot be restored.

 

What Is the Statutory Basis for Losing Parental Rights in Michigan?

The parental rights of the birth parents will be terminated before the child is made available for adoption. This is sometimes done with everyone’s cooperation, and other times it needs to be disputed. For instance, the birth parent must agree to the termination if a stepparent wants to adopt their stepchild. Otherwise, the parental rights of the birth parent must be contested and they must have been estranged from the kid for at least two years.

In Michigan, parental rights can be revoked in one of two ways. One is covered by the Adoption Code, and the other is covered by the Juvenile Code.

MCL 710.21, the Adoption Code’s governing statute, specifies how parental rights are terminated so that a child can be placed for adoption. If stepparent adoption is involved, this can be done with consent or it can be disputed. If a disagreement occurs, the parent whose rights are to be revoked must have had contact with the child for at least two years and must have had the resources to support the child but did not. The step-parent adoption cannot go forward without everyone’s consent if these two requirements are not met.

However, if a child is abused or neglected, the court may suspend a parent’s rights under the Juvenile Code, MCL 712.A1. Although anybody may file this petition, the Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) and the prosecutor’s office are typically the ones to do so. In some situations, the court will let the parent explain what led to the abuse or neglect. However, there will be stringent guidelines, court oversight, and time constraints placed on the parents.

 

What Are the Two Ways You Can Lose Parental Rights in Michigan?

Parental rights can be terminated legally, severing all connections to the child that the parent may have. The parent will no longer be entitled to make decisions for the child, have visiting privileges, or be informed of court actions involving the child. 

In Michigan, rights can be terminated voluntarily or involuntarily. Involuntary termination happens when a parent’s rights are terminated without cause, whereas voluntary termination happens when a parent voluntarily gives up their parental rights. A parent, legal representative, or government organization can start an involuntary termination.

 

Voluntary termination

When a parent no longer wants or is unable to raise a child, voluntary termination of rights frequently occurs in adoption scenarios. If, for instance, a stepparent wants to adopt the child, the relationship might be terminated by mutual consent or through litigation. Additionally, a parent’s rights might be questioned in court if they haven’t had direct contact with their child for two years and haven’t continued to provide financial support. Keep in mind that losing the right to custody of your child in a divorce or refusing to pay child support does not equal the termination of your rights.

Michigan courts almost always choose to give the parents a chance to settle the matter that led to this stage rather than automatically leaning toward the termination of parental rights. However, once the court decides to revoke parental rights, that decision is irrevocable.

Since judges are sometimes reluctant to do so, it could be challenging to terminate parental rights freely. Usually, someone must be waiting and willing to adopt the child in question. If the custodial parent is against the voluntary termination, it is highly unlikely that it will be accepted by the court.

 

Involuntary termination

Parental rights can be terminated legally, severing all connections to the child the parent may have. The parent will no longer be entitled to make decisions for the child, have visiting privileges, or be informed of court actions involving the child. In Michigan, rights can be terminated voluntarily or involuntarily. Involuntary termination happens when a parent’s rights are terminated without cause, whereas voluntary termination happens when a parent voluntarily gives up their parental rights. A parent, legal representative, or government organization can start an involuntary termination.

Rights shall be terminated if the court establishes that child abuse has occurred or is occurring and there is a plausible likelihood a child could suffer further harm if returned to the parent. In Michigan, involuntary termination of parental rights can happen because of any or combination of any of the following:

  • [ a ]  The child has been abandoned by the parents.
  • [ b ]  The parent is mentally ill or incapable and cannot raise the child.
  • [ c ]  The child was neglected by the parent.
  • [ d ]  The child has been physically or sexually mistreated by his or her parent.
  • [ e ]  The parents got divorced, and one of them is attempting to terminate the rights of the other.
  • [ f ]  The parent has been found guilty of murder or felony assault leading to the death or serious impairment of another child’s physiological functions.
  • [ g ]  The parent has failed to provide the child with sufficient care and custody.

All of these are crimes, so in addition to the termination of parental rights, criminal charges might also be filed by a prosecutor.

 

Can I Get My Ex Spouse Parental Rights Terminated?

If you look at the letter of the law, you can actually seek out the termination of parental rights of your ex. So the answer to the question is Yes. You have to have very solid grounds when you do pursue termination of parental rights. One of the most common grounds or allegations made in support of termination is abandonment.

If a parent has been absent from the child’s life for an extended length of time without offering any type of support, you may be able to terminate their parental rights.

The courts are particularly reluctant to make the decision hastily and without giving the opposing party the appropriate notice since terminating parental rights is a very serious matter. The procedure may go more quickly if you are aware of the whereabouts of the other parent. It will take a little bit longer if you don’t know where they are, but it’s still achievable.

Keep in mind family courts do not take lightly the termination of parental rights because it is such a serious matter. Any allegation or accusation made against the other spouse must be supported by sufficient evidence.

Don’t forget, whatever allegations you make will be under oath. Lying to the court will carry severe consequences to your own parental rights. Talk to your attorney before considering any action leading to the termination of parental rights.

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Can I Get My Exs Parental Rights Terminated in Michigan?

The actions of my ex-partner bother me. My ex doesn’t participate in parenting time. Can I get my exs parental rights terminated? The decision to revoke your ex’s parental rights in Michigan truly isn’t yours to make.

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Your ex’s parental rights cannot be simply revoked. It cannot be done by a court motion. Parental rights termination more closely resembles a move made by the Child Protective Services or the Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) (CPS). The best you can probably hope for is a court motion to change your ex’s parenting time.

 

Why Are Courts Biased Towards Keeping the Family Together?

There is some level of animosity between the spouses in the majority of divorce cases. The continued bond parents need to have may occasionally be impacted by this. Arrangements for visits may give rise to disputes. Accusations may be made when the custodial parent reschedules, cancels, or ignores a visitation as required by the agreement.

One of these accusations or allegations may be extreme, such as abandonment, in order to expose the parent to claims that could result in the termination of parental rights. If you are the one making these allegations or accusations, you will find it difficult to get the court to listen to you. Or you may find the court seems biased to some degree.

The court is not actually biased for or against you or your ex spouse. The court is biased towards the best interest of the child.

The whole point of having a mandatory waiting period in a divorce process is to ensure time is provided for reconsideration or for reconciliation of both spouses. It gives the parents time to think and to worry about the life of their children after divorce. The position is to look at divorce as the last resort not the first and only one in resolving unhappiness in marriage. Such logic is carried over to the determination of child custody cases. Separating parents from children or undermining their relationship should not be an option for ex spouses.

The laws of Michigan state that children should get along well with both parents. The court must consider the best interests of the child while deciding whether to grant or modify custody. The phrase “best interests” refers to a set of standards established by law.

The ability and willingness of each party to support and foster a healthy, long-lasting parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent or the child and the parents is one of the decisive considerations. This demonstrates how, legally speaking, limiting or denying parental time directly conflicts with the child’s best interests.

If the court is strongly opposed to limiting or denying parental time, how much more for the dissolution of the parent-child relationship most especially in Michigan.

 

How Do You Lose Parental Rights? What Conditions Can Make You Lose Parental Rights?

One of the most dreadful things a parent may hear is the phrase “termination of parental rights.” Fear of losing a child to “the system” can motivate a parent to make changes in their life for the sake of the child. Some people, however, find relief in termination since they are aware that they are unable to support their child but are unable to seek assistance. Some parents choose to voluntarily end their parental involvement because they believe it is best for the child.

The process for terminating parental rights is arguably one of the greatest and most severe legal safeguards available to protect vulnerable children. A termination proceeding is frequently a crucial step before the adoption of the child. After termination or approval of adoption, parental rights may be restored in several states.

Parental rights once revoked in Michigan, cannot be restored.

 

What Is the Statutory Basis for Losing Parental Rights in Michigan?

The parental rights of the birth parents will be terminated before the child is made available for adoption. This is sometimes done with everyone’s cooperation, and other times it needs to be disputed. For instance, the birth parent must agree to the termination if a stepparent wants to adopt their stepchild. Otherwise, the parental rights of the birth parent must be contested and they must have been estranged from the kid for at least two years.

In Michigan, parental rights can be revoked in one of two ways. One is covered by the Adoption Code, and the other is covered by the Juvenile Code.

MCL 710.21, the Adoption Code’s governing statute, specifies how parental rights are terminated so that a child can be placed for adoption. If stepparent adoption is involved, this can be done with consent or it can be disputed. If a disagreement occurs, the parent whose rights are to be revoked must have had contact with the child for at least two years and must have had the resources to support the child but did not. The step-parent adoption cannot go forward without everyone’s consent if these two requirements are not met.

However, if a child is abused or neglected, the court may suspend a parent’s rights under the Juvenile Code, MCL 712.A1. Although anybody may file this petition, the Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) and the prosecutor’s office are typically the ones to do so. In some situations, the court will let the parent explain what led to the abuse or neglect. However, there will be stringent guidelines, court oversight, and time constraints placed on the parents.

 

What Are the Two Ways You Can Lose Parental Rights in Michigan?

Parental rights can be terminated legally, severing all connections to the child that the parent may have. The parent will no longer be entitled to make decisions for the child, have visiting privileges, or be informed of court actions involving the child.

In Michigan, rights can be terminated voluntarily or involuntarily. Involuntary termination happens when a parent’s rights are terminated without cause, whereas voluntary termination happens when a parent voluntarily gives up their parental rights. A parent, legal representative, or government organization can start an involuntary termination.

 

Voluntary termination

When a parent no longer wants or is unable to raise a child, voluntary termination of rights frequently occurs in adoption scenarios. If, for instance, a stepparent wants to adopt the child, the relationship might be terminated by mutual consent or through litigation. Additionally, a parent’s rights might be questioned in court if they haven’t had direct contact with their child for two years and haven’t continued to provide financial support. Keep in mind that losing the right to custody of your child in a divorce or refusing to pay child support does not equal the termination of your rights.

Michigan courts almost always choose to give the parents a chance to settle the matter that led to this stage rather than automatically leaning toward the termination of parental rights. However, once the court decides to revoke parental rights, that decision is irrevocable.

Since judges are sometimes reluctant to do so, it could be challenging to terminate parental rights freely. Usually, someone must be waiting and willing to adopt the child in question. If the custodial parent is against the voluntary termination, it is highly unlikely that it will be accepted by the court.

 

Involuntary termination

Parental rights can be terminated legally, severing all connections to the child the parent may have. The parent will no longer be entitled to make decisions for the child, have visiting privileges, or be informed of court actions involving the child. In Michigan, rights can be terminated voluntarily or involuntarily. Involuntary termination happens when a parent’s rights are terminated without cause, whereas voluntary termination happens when a parent voluntarily gives up their parental rights. A parent, legal representative, or government organization can start an involuntary termination.

Rights shall be terminated if the court establishes that child abuse has occurred or is occurring and there is a plausible likelihood a child could suffer further harm if returned to the parent. In Michigan, involuntary termination of parental rights can happen because of any or combination of any of the following:

  • [ a ] The child has been abandoned by the parents.
  • [ b ] The parent is mentally ill or incapable and cannot raise the child.
  • [ c ] The child was neglected by the parent.
  • [ d ] The child has been physically or sexually mistreated by his or her parent.
  • [ e ] The parents got divorced, and one of them is attempting to terminate the rights of the other.
  • [ f ] The parent has been found guilty of murder or felony assault leading to the death or serious impairment of another childs physiological functions.
  • [ g ] The parent has failed to provide the child with sufficient care and custody.

All of these are crimes, so in addition to the termination of parental rights, criminal charges might also be filed by a prosecutor.

 

Can I Get My Ex Spouse Parental Rights Terminated?

If you look at the letter of the law, you can actually seek out the termination of parental rights of your ex. So the answer to the question is Yes. You have to have very solid grounds when you do pursue termination of parental rights. One of the most common grounds or allegations made in support of termination is abandonment.

If a parent has been absent from the child’s life for an extended length of time without offering any type of support, you may be able to terminate their parental rights.

The courts are particularly reluctant to make the decision hastily and without giving the opposing party the appropriate notice since terminating parental rights is a very serious matter. The procedure may go more quickly if you are aware of the whereabouts of the other parent. It will take a little bit longer if you don’t know where they are, but it’s still achievable.

Keep in mind family courts do not take lightly the termination of parental rights because it is such a serious matter. Any allegation or accusation made against the other spouse must be supported by sufficient evidence.

Don’t forget, whatever allegations you make will be under oath. Lying to the court will carry severe consequences to your own parental rights. Talk to your attorney before considering any action leading to the termination of parental rights.

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Can I Get My Ex���s Parental Rights Terminated in Michigan?

The actions of my ex-partner bother me. My ex doesn’t participate in parenting time. Can I get my ex���s parental rights terminated? The decision to revoke your ex’s parental rights in Michigan truly isn’t yours to make.��

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Your ex’s parental rights cannot be simply revoked. It cannot be done by a court motion. Parental rights termination more closely resembles a move made by the Child Protective Services or the Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) (CPS). The best you can probably hope for is a court motion to change your ex’s parenting time.

 

Why Are Courts Biased Towards Keeping the Family Together?

There is some level of animosity between the spouses in the majority of divorce cases. The continued bond parents need to have may occasionally be impacted by this. Arrangements for visits may give rise to disputes. Accusations may be made when the custodial parent reschedules, cancels, or ignores a visitation as required by the agreement.��

One of these accusations or allegations may be extreme, such as abandonment, in order to expose the parent to claims that could result in the termination of parental rights. If you are the one making these allegations or accusations, you will find it difficult to get the court to listen to you. Or you may find the court seems ���biased��� to some degree.

The court is not actually biased for or against you or your ex spouse. The court is biased towards the best interest of the child.

The whole point of having a mandatory waiting period in a divorce process is to ensure time is provided for reconsideration or for reconciliation of both spouses. It gives the parents time to think and to worry about the life of their children after divorce. The position is to look at divorce as the last resort not the first and only one in resolving unhappiness in marriage. Such logic is carried over to the determination of child custody cases. Separating parents from children or undermining their relationship should not be an option for ex spouses.

The laws of Michigan state that children should get along well with both parents. The court must consider the best interests of the child while deciding whether to grant or modify custody. The phrase “best interests” refers to a set of standards established by law.

The ability and willingness of each party to support and foster a healthy, long-lasting parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent or the child and the parents is one of the decisive considerations. This demonstrates how, legally speaking, limiting or denying parental time directly conflicts with the child’s best interests.

If the court is strongly opposed to limiting or denying parental time, how much more for the dissolution of the parent-child relationship most especially in Michigan.

 

How Do You Lose Parental Rights? What Conditions Can Make You Lose Parental Rights?

One of the most dreadful things a parent may hear is the phrase “termination of parental rights.” Fear of losing a child to “the system” can motivate a parent to make changes in their life for the sake of the child. Some people, however, find relief in termination since they are aware that they are unable to support their child but are unable to seek assistance. Some parents choose to voluntarily end their parental involvement because they believe it is best for the child.

The process for terminating parental rights is arguably one of the greatest and most severe legal safeguards available to protect vulnerable children. A termination proceeding is frequently a crucial step before the adoption of the child. After termination or approval of adoption, parental rights may be restored in several states.

Parental rights once revoked in Michigan, cannot be restored.

 

What Is the Statutory Basis for Losing Parental Rights in Michigan?

The parental rights of the birth parents will be terminated before the child is made available for adoption. This is sometimes done with everyone’s cooperation, and other times it needs to be disputed. For instance, the birth parent must agree to the termination if a stepparent wants to adopt their stepchild. Otherwise, the parental rights of the birth parent must be contested and they must have been estranged from the kid for at least two years.

In Michigan, parental rights can be revoked in one of two ways. One is covered by the Adoption Code, and the other is covered by the Juvenile Code.

MCL 710.21, the Adoption Code’s governing statute, specifies how parental rights are terminated so that a child can be placed for adoption. If stepparent adoption is involved, this can be done with consent or it can be disputed. If a disagreement occurs, the parent whose rights are to be revoked must have had contact with the child for at least two years and must have had the resources to support the child but did not. The step-parent adoption cannot go forward without everyone’s consent if these two requirements are not met.

However, if a child is abused or neglected, the court may suspend a parent’s rights under the Juvenile Code, MCL 712.A1. Although anybody may file this petition, the Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) and the prosecutor’s office are typically the ones to do so. In some situations, the court will let the parent explain what led to the abuse or neglect. However, there will be stringent guidelines, court oversight, and time constraints placed on the parents.

 

What Are the Two Ways You Can Lose Parental Rights in Michigan?

Parental rights can be terminated legally, severing all connections to the child that the parent may have. The parent will no longer be entitled to make decisions for the child, have visiting privileges, or be informed of court actions involving the child.��

In Michigan, rights can be terminated voluntarily or involuntarily. Involuntary termination happens when a parent’s rights are terminated without cause, whereas voluntary termination happens when a parent voluntarily gives up their parental rights. A parent, legal representative, or government organization can start an involuntary termination.

 

Voluntary termination

When a parent no longer wants or is unable to raise a child, voluntary termination of rights frequently occurs in adoption scenarios. If, for instance, a stepparent wants to adopt the child, the relationship might be terminated by mutual consent or through litigation. Additionally, a parent’s rights might be questioned in court if they haven’t had direct contact with their child for two years and haven’t continued to provide financial support. Keep in mind that losing the right to custody of your child in a divorce or refusing to pay child support does not equal the termination of your rights.

Michigan courts almost always choose to give the parents a chance to settle the matter that led to this stage rather than automatically leaning toward the termination of parental rights. However, once the court decides to revoke parental rights, that decision is irrevocable.

Since judges are sometimes reluctant to do so, it could be challenging to terminate parental rights freely. Usually, someone must be waiting and willing to adopt the child in question. If the custodial parent is against the voluntary termination, it is highly unlikely that it will be accepted by the court.

 

Involuntary termination

Parental rights can be terminated legally, severing all connections to the child the parent may have. The parent will no longer be entitled to make decisions for the child, have visiting privileges, or be informed of court actions involving the child. In Michigan, rights can be terminated voluntarily or involuntarily. Involuntary termination happens when a parent’s rights are terminated without cause, whereas voluntary termination happens when a parent voluntarily gives up their parental rights. A parent, legal representative, or government organization can start an involuntary termination.

Rights shall be terminated if the court establishes that child abuse has occurred or is occurring and there is a plausible likelihood a child could suffer further harm if returned to the parent. In Michigan, involuntary termination of parental rights can happen because of any or combination of any of the following:

  • [ a ]�� The child has been abandoned by the parents.
  • [ b ]�� The parent is mentally ill or incapable and cannot raise the child.
  • [ c ]�� The child was neglected by the parent.
  • [ d ]�� The child has been physically or sexually mistreated by his or her parent.
  • [ e ]�� The parents got divorced, and one of them is attempting to terminate the rights of the other.
  • [ f ]�� The parent has been found guilty of murder or felony assault leading to the death or serious impairment of another child���s physiological functions.
  • [ g ]�� The parent has failed to provide the child with sufficient care and custody.

All of these are crimes, so in addition to the termination of parental rights, criminal charges might also be filed by a prosecutor.

 

Can I Get My Ex Spouse Parental Rights Terminated?

If you look at the letter of the law, you can actually seek out the termination of parental rights of your ex. So the answer to the question is Yes. You have to have very solid grounds when you do pursue termination of parental rights. One of the most common grounds or allegations made in support of termination is abandonment.

If a parent has been absent from the child’s life for an extended length of time without offering any type of support, you may be able to terminate their parental rights.

The courts are particularly reluctant to make the decision hastily and without giving the opposing party the appropriate notice since terminating parental rights is a very serious matter. The procedure may go more quickly if you are aware of the whereabouts of the other parent. It will take a little bit longer if you don’t know where they are, but it’s still achievable.

Keep in mind family courts do not take lightly the termination of parental rights because it is such a serious matter. Any allegation or accusation made against the other spouse must be supported by sufficient evidence.

Don’t forget, whatever allegations you make will be under oath. Lying to the court will carry severe consequences to your own parental rights. Talk to your attorney before considering any action leading to the termination of parental rights.

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Taking Care of Custody Before the Holidays in Michigan

The ideal time to handle custody is before the holidays. During the holidays, being with one another is great. However, you should keep in mind that things will be different now that the divorce and custody process is proceeding. Separation of the parents will follow. They may establish new relationships. Now, parents will have a significant other in their lives.

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It might be impossible for the family to come together anymore. How are you going to incorporate this situation into the children’s daily schedule going forward? The moment is now to begin a new arrangement with the children.

One of the most difficult aspects of divorce for many parents is notifying their children that they are going through a divorce. Children depend on their parents for security, and a divorce invariably upends the established family structure a child has grown to rely on. However, it is also a very significant dialogue since it allows parents the chance to try to set the stage for a sound new beginning for the entire family.

 

When Is the Best Time to File a Child Custody Case? Before or After the Holidays?

Since child custody is always tied to your divorce case, the question is similar to asking when is the best time to file a divorce. Is it before or after the holidays? We answered this question in an article entitled, “Should I Start My Divorce Before the Holidays In Michigan”. In that article, we pointed out that the sooner you start, the sooner you can bring your divorce to your desired conclusion.

Since child custody is a major discussion point during a divorce followed by child support, it goes without saying that once the divorce complaint is filed, questions about child custody will be raised. The questions will be raised by the children.

In a way, it won’t matter if child custody will come before or after the holidays. Once you have made a decision about divorce, whatever comes after will change the rest of all your life. 

All of your lives: yours, your spouse, and of course your children’s. 

It’s time to prepare them for what is about to happen for the rest of their lives.

 

What Will I Tell the Children? How Will I Talk to Them About Divorce and Custody?

Divorce is challenging for the couple going through it, but the children involved may experience it as being even more challenging. The advantages that adults going through a divorce have, such as understanding why the divorce is taking place, are not available to children. It is crucial to know what to do to allay your children’s concerns and anxieties regarding your divorce and to properly prepare them for it. 

The following are some crucial pointers to keep in mind while discussing divorce with your kids in order to assist them to grasp the situation and make it easier for them.

 

Get Your Timing Right

You shouldn’t tell your children that you and your spouse are divorcing in the few minutes you have left before you have to leave for hockey practice or a ballet rehearsal. Pick a time when there are no other commitments so that everyone can concentrate on the discussion and leave time for questions to be posed and answered.

 

Plan Your Talk

You should not wing it during a chat regarding divorce. Plan what you will say to the children together with your spouse. If you and your partner have tense feelings toward one another, doing this could be challenging, but it is crucial. Do not forget to discuss the reasons why you must part ways, the strategy for the future, and numerous instances of how much you and your spouse value the children.

 

Tell Everyone All at Once

You could assume that notifying the oldest child and letting them tell the younger ones will lessen the blow. It will, however, do the complete opposite. Without direct contact with their parents, children may feel ignored and excluded, which will hinder dialogue and complicate the process for everyone.

 

Welcome Queries

When you inform your children about the divorce, they will have many questions. They might be concerned about who will have the children and where they will live, whether they can continue going to their current school, and whether they can still see their friends. It’s crucial that you not only make an effort to lessen the effects on the children but also respond to all of their inquiries in the frankest and open manner as you are able.

 

Don’t Badmouth Your Spouse

When both parents accept responsibility for their roles in the marriage’s dissolution, children are more likely to comprehend the need for divorce. Avoid placing blame on one another, and make sure the kids understand it’s not their fault because they frequently think it is.

 

What Divorcing Parents Should Know About Child Custody?

Before you consider divorce and the subsequent child custody case usually coming after, consider what we now know about child custody in the United States.

Here are some data you should know about child custody cases gathered from statistics in different states:

[ a ]  There are around 12.9 million custodial parents in the US. About 4% of Americans fall into the category.

[ b ]  In 2018, there were more than one-quarter of all children under the age of 21 (26.5%) had a parent who did not reside with them. That equates to about 21.9 million kids. For Black children, the ratio was higher—nearly 49% of them had a parent who didn’t live with them.

[ c ]  A parent’s absence increased the likelihood that a child would live in poverty. In actuality, about 30.1% of these kids lived in poverty, which is over three times the proportion of 11.1% for kids living in two-parent households.

[ d ]  In 2017, slightly more than half (51.4%) of custodial moms worked year-round, full-time jobs, while 21.6% were unemployed.

[ e ]  74.3 percent of custodial fathers worked full-time, year-round in 2017, compared to 9.2 percent who did not work at all during the year.

 

What Are Your Chances of Getting Custody?

Who is more likely to have custody of their child? According to 2020 research by the U.S. Census Bureau, below are a few instances:

[ a ]  40 or older is the average age of custodial mothers or 41.6%. Custodial dads saw a greater percentage, at 54.6%.

[ b ]  Non-Hispanic white men make up 62.9% of custodial fathers. Custodial fathers were less likely to be Black and more likely to fall into this category than moms.

[ c ]  Non-Hispanic white women make up 44.2% of custodial mothers in the United States.

[ d ]  Custodial mothers made up 40.4% of the population.

[ e ]  Custodial fathers who have never been married make up 29.3%.

[ f ]  By 2020, 3.3 million fathers will have primary custody of their children.

If you’re still contemplating divorce and child custody, think some more. When you have finally made up your mind, call your attorney. Your attorney will probably ask you to contemplate even more.

If anything else…

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Get a Divorce in 90 Days in Michigan

Can you get a divorce in 90 days? In Michigan, having children might make that impossible. It is already guaranteed you cannot have it in 90 days by the 180-day waiting period alone for divorce with children. Is it feasible in Michigan if you don’t have children? Theoretically, perhaps, but improbable. It seems like a short waiting period—60 days.

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It might not be possible to obtain a divorce judgment or agreement in 90 days due to the divorce process and the contentious matters that need to be settled. You are often looking at a minimum of more than 100 days.

 

What Are the Two Most Important Divorce Timelines in Michigan?

The two most important timelines are actually the divorce waiting period imposed on all divorce filings. Any required waiting period begins when the divorce petition is submitted to the Circuit Court. When the divorce complaint is filed, the 60-day or six-month waiting period officially starts.

 

60-Day Timeline

The waiting time in Michigan is 60 days if there are no children involved in the divorce.

If the judgment is rendered in less time than sixty days, the divorce is probably void. Under Michigan law, the six-month waiting period may be waived, but the sixty-day one cannot. The six-month waiting period may be extended but never to less than sixty days in cases of “extreme hardship or such compelling necessity as shall appeal to the conscience of the court.”

The opposing party is allowed some time to respond after the complaint is filed.

Following the filing and delivery of the complaint and summons, your spouse has 21 days (or 28 days if served by mail or outside the state) to file a response of admission or denial of each allegation in the complaint.

Nearly half of your waiting period should have been passed by the time you were given to answer.

The matter becomes contested once the necessary response has been provided. The defendant’s failure to provide an answer could result in the issuance of an order of default. The case then proceeds to that of an uncontested divorce. However, a defendant who has defaulted may decide to retain legal counsel and request the court’s intervention at any time up to the case’s conclusion.

You can also factor in the amount of time spent on important procedures like discovery, agreements, and the issuing of temporary orders before the initial court appearance. The initial steps of the divorce process essentially take up the entire 60-day waiting period.

 

The 6 Months Timeline

If there are young children involved, there is often a six-month waiting period. There is a lot of pressure on the Michigan court system to render decisions in divorce cases within a year of the filing date. For a divorce involving children, the “normal” waiting period after the complaint is filed, or when the lawsuit officially begins, is six months. Although they can take less than a year to complete, child custody proceedings often go longer than six months.

The six-month waiting period is subject to some exclusions. According to Michigan law, a judge may waive the six-month waiting period but not the sixty-day one. In instances of “exceptional hardship or such compelling necessity as shall appeal to the conscience of the court,” the six-month waiting period may be extended, but never to fewer than sixty days.

If there is a legitimate reason and the judge is aware that the case is a collaborative divorce, most judges will actually waive the six-month waiting period. The protracted court fights that define traditional divorce litigation can be substituted with collaborative divorce. With the assistance of licensed professionals, both parties to a collaborative divorce agree to end their marriage outside of court.

As part of the collaborative law procedure, you and your spouse would go to court and request the judge ratify the agreement you two came up with together. This can protect your privacy while helping you avoid the bother, expense, and unpredictability of a divorce battle.

 

Why Do Courts Impose Waiting Periods in Divorce?

Michigan Compiled Laws 552.9f requires a waiting period before filing for divorce. MCL 552.9f permits divorces without young children in Michigan, but they can’t be approved until 60 days have gone since the bill of complaint was filed. According to the same law, MCL 552.9f, a divorce in Michigan involving a minor child (under the age of 18) cannot be finalized until six months have passed since the day the bill of complaint was filed.

Simply expressed, in Michigan, there is a 60-day waiting period for divorces involving no minor children and a 6-month waiting period for divorces involving minor children. Public policy urges individuals to take some time to gather their thoughts and plan ahead before finalizing a divorce and possibly patching things up for the benefit of the family.

The above is the statutory basis for waiting periods. We’ve talked about divorce timelines before in our article, “Michigan Divorce Timeline” where we mentioned the different timelines you need to consider in a divorce. In that article we listed some reasons for all that waiting period. The truth is, there are four common reasons why courts impose waiting periods:

 

Reason 1: Give spouses a moment for second chances.

After a heated argument, a divorce petition is often hastily and angrily filed. A waiting period allows confrontational partners to cool off and assess whether this is really what they desire.

The impending reality of separation can prompt couples to start discussing their problems in a new way once a divorce case has been filed in court. Or the divorcing spouse can leave the home and find that living alone is not what they had envisioned. During the waiting period, the couple has time to think about the possibilities of reconciliation.

 

Reason 2: Preparing for parenting time.

A new living situation demands a new strategy for daycare, education, and visitation. As they learn to co-parent in different homes, parents may decide it would be better to make amends and give their marriage another chance rather than to dissolve it. In the event that the parents are unable to agree, there will need to be a trial at which both parties will present their evidence and the court will make the decision of which parent will get to keep the child. A custody investigator with specialized skills may be requested by the judge to assess each parent’s ability to raise the children prior to trial.

A custody agreement’s “best interests of the child” as defined by the Child Custody Act may not be determined for several months.

 

Reason 3: Time for sorting financial matters and addressing concerns.

Financially, few divorcees actually fare better than they would have if they had remained married. As one family turns into two households, the couple’s expenses nearly treble from when they were cohabitating.

Due to the fact that married couples typically combine their finances, it may take some time to get all the necessary documentation, total everything, and establish how to efficiently separate one person’s obligations and assets from the other’s. Just a few examples are bank loans, credit cards, insurance policies, and investment accounts. Real estate, automobiles, and other tangible assets must all undergo an evaluation. Both partners or one of them must find new homes.

 

Reason 4: Preparing for the divorce settlement.

The initial divorce hearing is normally scheduled by Michigan courts at least 60 days after the divorce complaint is filed for spouses without children. Couples with less conflicts typically reach an understanding on the terms of their divorce prior to the initial court hearing. Once the required 60 days have passed, the divorce can then be formalized at that first hearing.

If a settlement cannot be achieved by the first court date, at least the parties have had time to define their disagreements, estimate how much additional time will be needed to negotiate a settlement, and decide whether a mediator might be required.

 

Can I Get a Divorce in 90 Days?

In cases involving young children, some courts will waive the final 60 days of the 180-day waiting period if the parties have reached an understanding, resolved all differences, and accelerating the divorce is in the children’s best interests.

But no part or all of the initial 60 days may be waived.

You have the full 60 days to use if you and your spouse have submitted all required paperwork and responses to the summons and there are no differences on spousal support, child custody,  child support, parenting time, or property division. Typically, 100 days is a more practical estimate. Your wishful desire of 90 days is technically feasible in a perfect world, but for now, highly unlikely.

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