Attorney Mercedes Watts Bio

Mercedes Watts earned her bachelor’s degree Grand Valley State University. After her time at Grand Valley, she completed her law degree from DePaul University College of Law. Mercedes focuses primarily in family law and her love for the law is driven by the desire to help people. She responded to the call to serve by helping people understand and navigate the legal system.

When you hire Goldman & Associates Law Firm, you are hiring a dedicated & experienced team of attorneys who will work collaboratively to address your issues. Our team understands how personal and stressful family law cases can be. We will always advocate for you in court & the ultimate goal is to achieve the best possible result for you & your family.

One of the firm’s goals is to educated our clients. We post educational content frequently on our YouTube channel and we have over 1,000 videos that answer some of the most common and complex questions. Click here to start watching today. Call/Text (248) 590-6600 for a complimentary phone case evaluation. You can also click here to schedule a phone case evaluation. We look forward to helping you resolve your legal matter!

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Do I Have to Pay Child Support if I Sign Off in Michigan?

Do I have to pay child support if I sign off on my parenting time? In Michigan, many inquiries and doubts remain regarding this question. The calls may be alluding to the desire to lower child support. A notion of avoiding child support. A notion of not paying child support by having no overnights or parenting time. Child support in Michigan is calculated using a formula.

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The decision is reached using information about the mother’s and father’s incomes. It contains details about the number of children and overnight stays accounted for by each parent. Child support cannot be waived by signing off on parenting time. The truth is that the amount of child support could go up. Simply because you wish to spend less time with your child does not mean that their needs will be lessened.

 

What does child support mean in Michigan?

The usual arrangement for child support is for the noncustodial parent to pay child support to the custodial parent. In exchange, the custodial parent takes responsibility for the child’s upbringing. Child support payments defray some of the expenditures associated with raising a child. These expenditures are for food, shelter, clothing, medical care, and educational fees. Paying for child care expenses may occasionally be done with child support payments.

Child support is based on several variables. It considers the combined income of parents, the number of children, and the number of overnights for each parent. The amount of child support that a parent is expected to pay may change. These elements are considered while determining child support in Michigan.

Children’s development needs emotional and financial support from both parents. Even when the parents of a child do not live together, they must collaborate. They can still support and take part in their child’s development.

Regular child and medical support payments enable:

[ a ]  Decreased parent-child conflict

[ b ]  Increased parental participation.

[ c ]  High chance of children realizing their full potential.

In rare circumstances, payments may continue until the child completes secondary education. Parents are normally expected to pay child support until their child becomes 18. It also depends on the jurisdiction.

Payments for child support are often provided regularly, like weekly or monthly. Child support payments, however, might occasionally be made all at once. The payment of child support is required in the state of Michigan. In Michigan, guidelines assist in determining the right amount of child support to be paid.

 

What does parenting time mean in Michigan?

Parenting time is the term used to describe the time a child spends with each parent when they don’t live together. 

In Michigan, a child is entitled to parenting time with both parents. The court mandates it. Unless the court determines that the child’s physical, mental, or emotional health would be in danger. In general, parenting time is frequent and extensive. The kind that fosters a good bond between a child and parent. And, it is in the best interests of the child, according to Michigan law.

The Court has advised parenting time schedules as a template or general direction. Parents may choose to use this template when establishing a parenting time schedule. In appropriate cases, such as when the parents are unable to agree on a plan, the court may impose a parenting time schedule.

Parenting time is a court directive. It cannot be implemented unless addressed and incorporated into a court order. The words “enough parenting time” in the court order mean any parenting time the parents may agree upon.

A parenting time dispute where the court order mentions “appropriate parenting time.” The order means the Friend of the Court, or FOC, will not be able to enforce it. It lacks a specific plan. A parent may submit a petition to the court if both parties want a certain timeline. Or, the parties may reach a formal agreement, have it reviewed by the court, and have it entered as an order.

“Reasonable parenting time” is when parents schedule parenting time as they go without a set timetable. This is opposed to having parenting time allotted for specified days and hours. If there is a disagreement about what constitutes adequate parenting time, you must ask the judge to rule on the matter in a request.

A timetable is in place if certain parenting time is provided to you. Do you feel comfortable conversing with the other parent of your child? You might be able to reach an understanding of a parenting time plan. If you and the other party are unable to agree, the court may instead set a timeline.

The thing to remember is that parenting time is not contingent on child support. The same works with child support. Child support is not dependent on the amount of parenting time or having it.

 

If I sign off on my parenting time, do I have to pay child support?

Surprisingly often, people ask this question. Parents may believe that child support is correlated with the number of hours spent parenting. Children have expectations. They need food. Fun and play are required of them. They have to go to school, just like any other growing child. These things cannot be ignored. Children need these things to develop and live regular, healthy lives.

Child-related expenses include those needed to support and raise children. You are required to pay child support since you are the one who gave birth to your children. You have to pay even if you don’t want to be involved in their lives. You may be engaged in their lives or chose to keep out of them, but you will still need to support them financially.

Parenting time is just one of the criteria for determining child support. It is not the sole element in determining whether to pay. Child support and parenting time are distinct and independent considerations from each other. Both contribute to your child’s best interests; they are not mutually exclusive. To protect your children’s interests, you must have both.

The payment of child support ensures both parents will financially support their children. You need child support orders in every custody case unless support has already been resolved.

Usually, the parent who gets less with the children pays the other parent what they are entitled to. That parent will probably spend some of their own time caring for the children. The gender of a parent is not taken into consideration by courts.

The court will order you to pay child support whether you want your parenting time or not.

 

Is it possible to agree to have no child support?

You may not believe it but there is a situation where you can agree to have no child support in a divorce with minor children.

The noncustodial parent normally handles paying child support to the custodial parent. There are several circumstances where both parents may agree to no child support. This typically occurs when neither parent is financially dependent on the other. Both parents have roughly equal parenting time. Both parents may already bear an equal part of the costs of raising children. In this situation, child support may not be required.

Even if both parents concur that child support is not required, a court may nonetheless decide to do so. The specific needs of each family will determine whether to pay child support.

There are several advantages to not paying child support. Both custodial and noncustodial parents must take into account these advantages. If child support is not a concern, the connection between the parties can be better. The child may also gain from this if the parents get along well.

You must speak with your attorney. Do it before making any modifications to your child support arrangement. You and your ex-spouse may both agree to make adjustments. It is always advisable to seek counsel to be sure your actions are legal.

Child support has several facets. How it is calculated and what advantages are available. Parents need to be aware of all of these. A knowledgeable child support attorney can guide you if you’re unsure. You may not be sure whether paying no child support is in your children’s best interests.

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Attorney David Sebastian Bio

David Sebastian is a licensed attorney rated “AV” by Martindale-Hubbell Ratings signifying preeminent legal ability and the highest ethical standards with attention to detail, professionalism and integrity. Admitted to practice in the State of Michigan, the State of South Carolina (Pro Hac Vice), the U.S. District Court [Eastern District of Michigan/Northern District of Illinois (trial bar member)], the U.S. Court of Appeals (Sixth Circuit), and the U.S. Supreme Court.

Attorney Sebastian is Aggressive and effective litigator with over 30 years of experience focusing primarily in family law & also has represented numerous high-profile clients in state and federal courts nationally and locally. Exceptional knowledge of the rules of evidence, trial practices and procedures. David will treat your family case as if it was his own!

Oftentimes, family law cases can be overwhelming and emotionally draining. David realizes that and prioritizes providing a clear understanding of what clients can expect from start to finish and what the likely outcome will be. Mr. Sebastian communicates constantly with all of his clients and will answer any questions you may have throughout the course of the case. David realizes that each case is unique, however he will treat your case as if you were a member of his own family.

When David is not in the courtroom, he enjoys boating, golfing, and watching all sports!

Education:

  • Michigan State University
  • Catholic Law School

Bar Admissions: 

  • State of Michigan

When you hire Goldman & Associates Law Firm, you are hiring a dedicated & experienced team of attorneys who will work collaboratively to address your issues. Our team understands how personal and stressful family law cases can be. We will always advocate for you in court & the ultimate goal is to achieve the best possible result for you & your family.

One of the firm’s goals is to educated our clients. We post educational content frequently on our YouTube channel and we have over 1,000 videos that answer some of the most common and complex questions. Click here to start watching today. Call/Text (248) 590-6600 for a complimentary phone case evaluation. You can also click here to schedule a phone case evaluation. We look forward to helping you resolve your legal matter!

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Attorney Michael Kelly Bio

Michael Kelly is an experienced attorney who is dedicated to providing his clients with personalized and attentive guidance in all family law matters. He takes the time to get to know his clients and their unique needs, so that he can tailor his approach to best serve their interests. Michael is a compassionate and understanding lawyer who will take the time to listen to his clients and develop strategies to protect their rights and interests. With his years of experience in family law, Michael is wellversed in the nuances of the law and is committed to finding the most effective and efficient solutions for his clients.

Michael is also a skilled negotiator who will work hard to ensure the best possible outcome for his clients. Whether it is negotiating a settlement or taking a case to court, Michael is committed to achieving the best results possible for his clients. He understands the delicate nature of family law cases and is passionate about providing his clients with the highest standards of legal representation. With Michael on their side, clients can be confident that their rights will be protected and their interests will be represented in the best possible way.

Education:

  • Western Michigan University
  • University of Detroit Mercy Law School

Bar Admissions:

  • State of Michigan

Attorney Kelly comes from a family of attorneys including his grandfather, father, uncle, sister and brother-in-law. Kelly has been practicing family law for a number of years, with his primary focus being divorce & custody, and child support. He is known to be assertive and tactical. Most importantly, he will not rest until the best possible outcome is achieved. He is the devoted father of three children and enjoys spending time with them when he is not fighting for you in court.

When you hire Goldman & Associates Law Firm, you are hiring a dedicated & experienced team of attorneys who will work collaboratively to address your issues. Our team understands how personal and stressful family law cases can be. We will always advocate for you in court & the ultimate goal is to achieve the best possible result for you & your family.

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Bio – Michael Kelly

Attorney Michael J. Kelly comes from a family of attorneys including his grandfather, father, uncle, sister and brother-in-law. Kelly has been practicing family law for a number of years, with his primary focus being divorce & custody, and child support. He is a great listener, compassionate, assertive and tactical. Most importantly, he will not rest until the best possible outcome is achieved.

He enjoys helping people, families in particular. Attorney Kelly takes great pride in helping families through difficult & challenging times. Mike strives to handle your case with determination, professionalism, & will not rest until you get the outcome you deserve.

He is the devoted father of three children and enjoys spending time with them when he is not fighting for you in court.

 

Education:

  • Western Michigan University
  • University of Detroit Mercy Law School

Bar Admissions:

  • State of Michigan

When you hire Goldman & Associates Law Firm, you are hiring a dedicated & experienced team of attorneys who will work collaboratively to address your issues. Our team understands how personal and stressful family law cases can be. We will always advocate for you in court & the ultimate goal is to achieve the best possible result for you & your family.

One of the firm’s goals is to educated our clients. We post educational content frequently on our YouTube channel and we have over 1,000 videos that answer some of the most common and complex questions. Click here to start watching today. Call/Text (248) 590-6600 for a complimentary phone case evaluation. You can also click here to schedule a phone case evaluation. We look forward to helping you resolve your legal matter!

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Attorney Steve Hilton Bio

Meet Attorney Steve Hilton, a skilled litigator focusing primarily in family law, but has also handled probate, criminal law, and personal injury matters.

Steve has the knowledge and expertise to effectively represent his clients. He is known for being honest and straightforward, and is dedicated to providing sound advice during difficult circumstances.

At Goldman & Associates, Steve is committed to putting a meaningful stamp on his clients’ lives. He takes his responsibility to his clients seriously and strives to ensure that they feel that he is in the trenches with them and they will come out on the other side together.

A native of Holland, Michigan, Steve has a deep understanding of the state and its legal system. He divides his time between the east and west sides of Michigan, and enjoys the state’s four seasons and rooting for the Tigers, Pistons, and Lions.

Education:

  • Grand Valley State University
  • Western Michigan University Thomas M. Cooley Law School

Bar Admissions:

  • State of Michigan

When you hire Goldman & Associates Law Firm, you are hiring a dedicated & experienced team of attorneys who will work collaboratively to address your issues. Our team understands how personal and stressful family law cases can be. We will always advocate for you in court & the ultimate goal is to achieve the best possible result for you & your family.

One of the firm’s goals is to educated our clients. We post educational content frequently on our YouTube channel and we have over 1,000 videos that answer some of the most common and complex questions. Click here to start watching today. Call/Text (248) 590-6600 for a complimentary phone case evaluation. You can also click here to schedule a phone case evaluation. We look forward to helping you resolve your legal matter!

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Attorney Michael Mauro Bio

Attorney Michael Mauro has been practicing law in Michigan & California for over 18 years. He has practiced in many areas of law, including personal injury, constitutional violations, criminal defense, business, and entertainment law. In many instances, he has gone up against powerful companies or agencies to assist his clients and to protect their rights.

Mauro became a lawyer to help average citizens protect themselves from harm caused by others.

After graduating from Ross Business School at the University of Michigan in 2001, Mauro attended the University of California Law – San Francisco and is now a member of all state and federal courts in California and Michigan.

In his spare time, Attorney Mauro enjoys movies, writing, assisting with film production, and traveling as much as possible.

When you hire Goldman & Associates Law Firm, you are hiring a dedicated & experienced team of attorneys who will work collaboratively to address your issues. Our team understands how personal and stressful family law cases can be. We will always advocate for you in court & the ultimate goal is to achieve the best possible result for you & your family.

One of the firm’s goals is to educated our clients. We post educational content frequently on our YouTube channel and we have over 1,000 videos that answer some of the most common and complex questions. Click here to start watching today. Call/Text (248) 590-6600 for a complimentary phone case evaluation. You can also click here to schedule a phone case evaluation. We look forward to helping you resolve your legal matter!

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Attorney Fanfan Zheng Bio

Attorney Fanfan Zheng’s main area of focus is Family Law. Mr. Zheng loves being able to make a positive impact in his client’s lives.

His interest in becoming an attorney began when he emigrated from China with his family. Fascinated by the US legal system, which was vastly different from the Chinese legal system, he was blown away by how an attorney could be integral in helping someone navigate the US legal system.

He is a member of the Rotary Club of Ann Arbor and Exchange Club of Jackson, both of which are service clubs with the goal of helping our communities flourish.

The most memorable case in his budding career was when he helped a mother get parenting time with her son for her son’s birthday and Chinese New Year, the single most important holiday in China.

Education:

  • University of Maryland College Park
  • Michigan State University College of Law

Bar Admissions:

  • State of Michigan

When you hire Goldman & Associates Law Firm, you are hiring a dedicated & experienced team of attorneys who will work collaboratively to address your issues. Our team understands how personal and stressful family law cases can be. We will always advocate for you in court & the ultimate goal is to achieve the best possible result for you & your family.

One of the firm’s goals is to educated our clients. We post educational content frequently on our YouTube channel and we have over 1,000 videos that answer some of the most common and complex questions. Click here to start watching today. Call/Text (248) 590-6600 for a complimentary phone case evaluation. You can also click here to schedule a phone case evaluation. We look forward to helping you resolve your legal matter!

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Does a Domestic Violence Charge Give You Automatic Child Custody – Michigan Law

The impact of domestic violence on child custody is misunderstood. There may have been past domestic violence. Your spouse may be violent toward your uncle. May be violent towards you. Does a domestic violence charge give you automatic child custody?

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Child custody will not necessarily change if domestic abuse is present. So, the response is no. You won’t necessarily get custody if you’re ex-spouse is charged with domestic violence. The answer is no if there is violence toward your uncle. It’s still not if it’s violence toward you. The domestic abuse directed at your children is given more weight by the court. The twelve best interest considerations are used by the court to make custody decisions. One of the twelve factors, domestic violence, is only one.

 

What do you mean by a domestic abuse charge?

Domestic violence allegations are handled according to a set procedure in Michigan.

Domestic violence is an assault or an assault and battery against a spouse or former spouse. It could be a person with whom the victim has ever been romantically involved. It can be against a person with whom the victim shares a child. It can also be against a person who is currently residing in the victim’s household. Or was formerly residing in the victim’s household.

Domestic violence laws cover claims of simple and severe assault. It is disobeying personal protection orders or aggravated stalking. It also means illegal sexual conduct, among other injuries.

The victims of domestic abuse might be anyone. Any age, race, gender, or social class is affected. It involves partners who live together or apart. It can also involve domestic partners who are dating or separated, parents, or kids. Domestic violence is a general term that refers to a variety of crimes.

It might affect your ongoing custody battle, other kids, or a different case. Depending on your career, it could have an impact on troubles with your employment.

When domestic abuse happens, major consequences ensue. Fines or jail time may be imposed for criminal offenses. It may also refer to no-contact orders. No-contact orders ban parent-child interaction. It may need the offender to leave the family home.

In practically every type of socioeconomic circumstance, domestic violence can happen. Those who commit domestic violence are law-abiding citizens. Persons without a history of violent crime. People who are not mean or who exhibit combative behavior. These are people who rarely engage in physical altercations.

 

How can anyone hope to recover from a domestic violence charge? 

The first thing people should be aware of is how seriously Michigan’s courts treat domestic violence cases. Even if it was just a small occurrence. If you got detained and prosecuted, you should treat it seriously because the court will. The key is to get a capable attorney who can guide you through the process. Explain what counts and what doesn’t. You should receive advice on what to do and what to avoid. Most essential, give you the assistance you require. The kind of support to ensure that you come out of it as favorably as possible.

The most depressing realizations for individuals found guilty of domestic violence. The sentence continues long after they have completed their probation. Or served their time in jail. The criminal conviction will follow them wherever they go.

Domestic violence convictions may significantly affect any or all of the following:

[ a ]  General Employment: Those found guilty of domestic violence will lose employment. This is work that entails caring for children. It includes employment using weapons or transporting hazardous products.

[ b ]  Public Employment: Someone convicted of domestic violence has trouble landing a public position. Or keeping it. These are jobs such one in the police, the medical field, or education.

[ c ]  Professional licenses: Your teaching or legal license, could be revoked. It can be challenging for you to get licenses in the future.

You may experience financial difficulty as a result of many of these consequences. It will make it much more difficult for you to manage your money. Financial difficulty can start even before the trial. You may have to leave your house and avoid communicating with the victim. It comes with these directives which are typical of these charges.

Domestic violence is not a crime committed only by criminals. Anybody can experience committing domestic violence, it could happen to anyone. The majority of those accused of domestic violence don’t have any kind of criminal history. It was just either a bad day or a failing relationship. Some are circumstances where someone called the police never even wanting them arrested. The police simply took over and made an arrest.

People will typically get better and continue living their lives. You will continue living your life. Live it in some fashion because life carries on regardless of what happens. The anxiety and stress that comes with the unknown. The fear of what might happen and how things might turn out for the worst. People usually affected are those stuck in the court system. Especially those who are not used to getting into trouble or have no history of bad behavior. This is worse than when the case is over. Even if they are on probation.

 

If my ex-spouse is accused of domestic violence, do I automatically get custody of my kids?

The family court decides custody rights in divorce and child custody cases. Or even cases involving protective services or CPS.

In most cases, a person won’t lose their parental rights just because of a domestic violence case. It is just one aspect that will be considered against them. It is presumed that the domestic violence wasn’t directed toward the children. Parental rights are far more affected by a domestic violence case involving a child.

Domestic violence is a behavioral pattern that is abusive and threatening. The actions have the intention of dominating and controlling another person. A victim of domestic violence can be affected in many facets of their life. Even if your children don’t witness the violence personally it can still have an impact on them. This is the reason a court takes any instance of domestic violence into account when deciding on child custody.

A close bond between both parents and the child is in the child’s best interests. It’s how state law puts it. The majority of children of abusive parents still have a close relationship with the abusive parent. If you are given custody of your child, the other parent will still be given access to the child regularly. Parenting time may be refused or restricted in exceptional situations. It can be so until the abusive parent can show that granting it would not endanger the child’s physical, mental, or emotional well-being.

A judge may order “supervised visitation.”  Parenting time between the child and the abusive parent takes place in specific situations. It depends on the circumstances of the parent and child. As an illustration, the judge may mandate that a social worker watch the visitation. The social worker is to assess whether the abuser is suitable for the child. The judge can mandate the parenting time between the child and the abusive parent be supervised by a third party. The third party could be a grandparent or friend.

You may be worried about your safety. You’re not worried about the other parent being aggressive against the child. The judge might order exchanges to take place at a police station or a supervised exchange center. These arrangements are typically just temporary. Eventually, the child may be given to the other parent for unsupervised parenting.

In conclusion, the courts and the law have no intention of separating a parent and a child from each other. Even with the presence of domestic violence. Especially if the violence is not directed at children. This means the presence of domestic violence itself does not automatically gives the other parent custody of the child.

 

Is there still life after a domestic violence charge?

Starting December 22, 2022, qualified crimes and misdemeanors in Michigan will be automatically expunged. It will start after a predefined timeframe. Michigan’s Clean Slate Law has made this possible. Assault-related offenses won’t necessarily be cleared up, though. You must submit a request. Get your past convictions for domestic violence charges expunged from your records. A maximum of two assault crimes may be expunged. A misdemeanor domestic abuse charge previous to the felony charge, 

A felony domestic violence conviction cannot be expunged if you have a record. A record for a misdemeanor domestic abuse charge.

The waiting time is three years for misdemeanors and five years for significant offenses or one felony. It’s seven years for multiple felonies for people who continue to be conviction-free.

Expungement applications cannot be submitted until the waiting period has passed. The beginning of this waiting period is the day the court loses jurisdiction over you. Any further criminal convictions could hinder the expungement process. A person who applies for expungement and is rejected must wait three years before they can reapply.

If you’re deep into this legal pit, talk to your attorney now.

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Can a Parent Cancel Visitation if a Child is Sick in Michigan?

There will be a time when people will be unwell. Your child may become ill. It could happen soon after returning from vacation. It’s so predictable almost. Can a parent cancel visitation if a child is sick? When a child sneezes, a parent may take them to the emergency room. Others may advise the child to shrug it off or get some sleep. Different parents handle sick children in different ways.

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A seriously ill child shouldn’t be packed up and given to the other parent for parenting time. Talk about the situation with your ex-spouse over the phone. Find a different arrangement. Set up a Zoom meeting with the child, ex-spouse, and you. Choose a different day but figure out a way to make up for the missing parenting time. Be fair with each other’s parenting time.   In the future, you may experience the same circumstance. You will expect that your ex-spouse will show you the same courtesy and flexibility.

 

Can a parent cancel parenting time because of a child’s illness?

Throughout their child’s life, every parent will inevitably have to take care of a sick child. Maybe dozens of times. Rest and simple care may usually make most diseases go away. Caring for a sick child can be challenging when parents share custody.

When your child is unwell, it might be more tempting to refuse the other parent time with them on the weekend. Or even an afternoon because you want to take care of them yourself. The other parent of your child has the same right to care for your sick child as you do. It is inappropriate to refuse visiting or parenting time due to mild illnesses. 

Parenting time differs from play dates or trips to the grandparents. According to statutes, parents are entitled to spend time with their children. Taking care of a sick child is part of being a parent. In most cases, a simple cold or the flu is not a good enough excuse to limit parenting time. More significant conditions might allow for visiting cancellation. Parents should be adaptable and focus on their child’s needs in both scenarios.

Even when a child is ill, a parent has the right to use the parenting time that was granted by the court. In general, both parents are responsible for taking care of the child during his or her time. If the visit is obviously against the child’s best interests, it may be more appropriate to work out a plan.  Work out the plan with the other parent for the child to “stay put”.  This is until he or she is well and then offers the other parent “make-up” time to make up for the lost parenting time.

 

What to do when a child is sick during parenting time?

When your child has a small sickness, like a cold, they can get the same level of care at the other parent’s house. They would get it as they would at yours. The other parent can miss parenting time because of a child’s illness. The parent should be given the chance to make up the time later.

Parenting time may occasionally need to be modified. It can be due to a parent’s illness rather than a child’s. Long-term conditions are a concern for the court. It becomes a concern when a parent’s physical or mental health interferes with the ability to oversee and care for a child. The flu or COVID-19 may require you to take a break. With COVID you cannot drive or don’t want to expose your child to the virus.

If your child is sick, you might prefer not to visit them. You can’t afford to have the flu or a bad cold right before an important presentation, conference, or vacation. You have a responsibility to take care of your child when your parenting plan directs you to do so. You cannot refuse this obligation. This might be fine if you have a good reason to alter the parenting plan and the other parent is on board with the change. If not, the parenting time plan should come first.

You might get worried and you may want to move your child. You should try to stick to your parenting plan. There are a few circumstances where it might be in your child’s best interests to remain there. You should discuss the child’s best interests with the other parent. Create a parental time arrangement that works for both sides. The other parent, for instance, might be able to come and watch the child while you are at work that day.

Here are some actions you can do if your child is not well enough to travel for parenting time:

[ a ]  Speak with your co-parent about the situation. Offer solutions rather than making demands.

[ b ] Discuss travel required for parenting time with your child’s pediatrician. Determine whether it is suitable given your child’s health. Thinks about this, driving 20 minutes is not the same as going to the airport and boarding a plane.

[ c ]  If the doctor gives the all-clear for travel, make sure to send your child to their visitation. Get all prescribed medications and dosage information

[ d ]  Recommend rescheduling visitation. Suggest days for make-up parenting time if traveling is not advised. Suggesting a rescheduling is good. It shows you are not depriving the parent of their parenting time.

[ e ]  Consider temporarily changing the parenting plan to meet the child’s demands. More so if the condition of the child persists for longer than a week or two.

When parents are ill during their allocated parenting time, the same fundamental guidelines apply. In most cases, the parent has to see to it that the child is taken care of while in their custody. When a parent is ill, they may need to hire a nanny or postpone visiting until they feel better. If the parent’s condition is infectious, this might be especially wise.

If your co-parent won’t make accommodations for the child, talk to an attorney. Discuss how to resolve the situation or submit a motion to the court.

 

What to do if your ex-spouse denies you parenting time because of a child’s illness?

Sometimes one parent will seize control of the situation. Denying their child’s parenting time. A parent’s worry that their child would be exposed in your home may be the reason for this. This was a common concern during the pandemic. Your ex-spouse might mistakenly feel you can’t look after your child. in non-COVID-19 circumstances, if you have a chronic sickness or condition.

You and your family law attorney might need to file a motion to enforce parenting time. It can happen if attempts to negotiate makeup time fail. By filing this motion, you’re asking the court to hold your parent to the current parenting schedule. Perhaps impose penalties if they break it. You should expect that your co-parent will oppose this motion. The ex-spouse may argue a condition necessitates a modification to the parenting schedule.  To counter that claim against the medical condition, your lawyer will help you get ready. Including working with your doctor to prove that you are not contagious. Or that you are still competent to care for your child despite your illness.

During the pandemic, you and your child found quarantines and social isolation upsetting. Illness puts your parenting time in jeopardy. You must be ready to deal with changes to your parenting schedule. You need to keep everyone safe while preserving your relationship with your child.

A child or parent may be ill and unable to take part in parenting time. Both parents should arrange a make-up time either personally or through their attorneys. This lost time ought to resemble the missed visitation in both duration and nature. You may already be spending time with your child every other weekend. You might decide to delay visitation until the next weekend. You and your child should both be healthy by then. An alternative to scheduling a series of evening visits in the coming week.

You can work with your family law attorney. You can negotiate make-up parenting time that is reasonable for you and your family.

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