What to Expect if Your Ex Keeps Violating a Court Order in Michigan

We frequently ask the client about the judge assigned to the case. We typically receive a quick response. Pushback happens from time to time. Why do you require the identity of the judge? Exactly why does it matter? It shouldn’t matter, theoretically. You bringing a lawsuit against your former spouse. The case’s judge should not be relevant. What should you expect if your ex keeps violating a court order?

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Whomever the judge is, the legal advice ought to be the same. Who the presiding judge is should not matter. The fact is that it does. Some judges could be more forgiving than others. One will put up with repeated offenses. If there is even the slightest infraction, another judge will sentence your ex-spouse. Your attorney will advise you to continue submitting a motion to hold your ex-spouse in contempt. Recording instances of the court order being violated repeatedly is the goal. Even judges who are known to be lenient won’t stand for persistent defiance.

 

Does it matter who is the presiding judge in your family law case?

Judges are lawyers who no longer practice law and were either elected or appointed. It means judges have personalities and viewpoints. They can vary much like people generally do. Family law is one of those special areas of the law. You might present your case to judge number one in one courtroom and receive one outcome. You present your case to judge number two in a different courtroom and receive a different one.

Are there significant differences between those results? Probably none, although judges frequently do not view all facts and issues in the same way.

A family law judge rarely exercises his or her veto powers. This is particularly true in a settlement negotiated by both parties in a divorce. An agreement might be significantly at odds with the children’s best interests. This may be one of the few times a judge may hesitate to approve the spouses’ arrangement.

That is not to argue that judges in family law do not have opinions on agreements. The willingness, knowledge, and intelligence a party enters into the agreement may be called into doubt by a family law judge. It may be uncommon. It does occasionally occur when the court wishes to make sure that each side is aware of what they are doing.

Fathers most frequently ask for a different judge due to a suspected bias. Some judges may still hold to the antiquated notion a child should stay with the mother. Some will simply refuse to consider the case’s facts. Others will form an early grudge, such as if you often arrive late to court and the judge treats you poorly. And this may happen as well when ex-spouses or co-parents violate court orders. Some can be very unforgiving some unusually tolerant.

 

What should you expect from the presiding family law judge?

We are already aware that judges interpret the application of family law in our cases. We know they will decide based on the law. They will decide based on what is fair and equitable in any divorce case. And, they will decide on custody cases based on what serves the best interest of the child. What are your expectations based on the different issues they need to resolve? You need to understand this because it will influence how they decide on the different issues in a family law case.

Expectations on property division.

Judges normally do not intervene in property division agreements. Spouses frequently resolve property disputes through agreements outside of court. A family law judge assigned to the case may not be aware of the contents of the agreement. Judges in family law instead focus on the final result, which is the actual divorce agreement.

Expectations on spousal support.

Like property agreements, spousal support arrangements are often upheld by family law judges. They do so without intervention. Family law judges do sign the agreements couples present through their attorneys. Judges most of the time approve it unless there is something conspicuous and unique.

The judge may refuse to issue orders in accordance with the agreement.  The judge may hold off the orders until the time judge is satisfied the agreement is valid, fair, and equitable. And, that the parties agreed voluntarily, knowingly, and intelligently.

Expectations on child custody?

The judges are aware that the children’s best interests come first. They put that child’s interests first in whatever they do. There may be legal requirements in custody cases before the best interest analysis. In reality, the best interest standard drives the decision-making process.

If it is in the best interests of the children, family law judges like to maintain stability in their lives. Stability extends beyond the children’s residence and living arrangements. Stability also refers to their daily activities, routines, and life events.

Complex orders annoy family law judges. They prefer to keep things simple. They prefer tried-and-true parenting strategies that reduce conflict. Judges in family law prefer joint legal custody. It enables both parents to participate in the decision-making process. Judges prefer getting both spouses’ consent on some significant choices. The exception to this rule is when granting shared legal custody would not be in the children’s best interests.

Judges in family courts lack the time and tolerance to micromanage parents. They don’t want to hear complaints that don’t have a big influence on what’s best for the children.

 

What should you expect if an ex-spouse keeps violating a court order?

A former spouse or co-parent or soon-to-be ex-spouse can make your life miserable. They can refuse to pay support. Refuse parenting time requests. Or, they can oppose all your efforts to finish your divorce. You can get your case and your life back on track. You may be able to use court actions to change the other party’s behavior. You can ask the court to hold the violating party in contempt. A contempt of court hearing is usually set to resolve court order violations

A “show cause” hearing is also referred to as a contempt of court hearing. A show cause is a court hearing giving an accused the chance to explain why they did not follow the court order.

 

What do you mean by contempt of court?

The concept of contempt of court and its repercussions rely on what the court has ordered a party to do. It indicates that what the party did or did not do violates a court order (civil contempt). Or, the party disobeyed a court order or offends or denigrates the court’s authority or dignity (criminal contempt).

Civil Contempt

When a party is found to be in civil contempt, the court wants to make sure they follow the order. There is frequent civil contempt of court penalties in family law disputes. They can be any of the following kinds of penalties:

[ a ]  A conditional jail time (rarely resorted to)

[ b ]  Costs and penalties

[ c ]  Limitations on the inclusion of evidence as a result of litigation

[ d ]  Damages

[ e ]  Attorney’s fees

The results of a civil contempt hearing can be overturned or corrected. That implies that the sanctions may be waived after the party who disobeyed the court order did so.

Criminal Contempt

Criminal contempt cases entail past wrongdoings that the offender cannot undo. Criminal contempt convictions cannot be overturned, in contrast to civil contempt. Criminal contempt of court carries any of the following penalties:

[ a ]  93 days or more in fixed jail term

[ b ]  A fine not to exceed $7,500

[ c ]  An optional period of probation

[ d ]  Damages

[ e ]  Attorney’s fees.

 

How do you apply contempt of court in a family law case?

Parents who refuse to pay child support. Or ex-spouses who disobey custody and visitation rules can be held in contempt of court. They can be subject to harsh penalties. You can apply it when your spouse’s activities hinder your ability to finish your divorce. or prevent them from fulfilling their end of a divorce judgment.

Contempt of court applied to discovery order violation.

Any violation of a court order constitutes contempt. It includes actions taken before the entry of the divorce decree. You and your divorce lawyer may use civil contempt as a strategy. A strategy to compel cooperation from a recalcitrant spouse throughout the discovery process.

Each spouse in a divorce has the right to speak up and seek access to documents. A spouse can ask the other spouse to confirm or refute specific claims. The purpose of “discovery” ensure all parties are aware of the potential issues, assets, debts, witnesses, and evidence. All those mentioned will be presented before the court. A reasonable settlement offer depends on the information gathered during discovery.  Good-faith negotiations avoid the cost, expense, and risk associated with going to trial. 

Sometimes one side feels they can force the other to accept less than is fair. They do this by limiting access to information. Your divorce attorney may submit a motion to compel discovery to the court. It is an option if a party declines to comply with discovery. If you succeed in that move, the court will issue an order. The order will direct the opposing party to provide the requested information. You can request that the court hold them in contempt if they continue to refuse.

Contempt of court applied to unpaid child support.

In some cases, the motion for contempt isn’t even brought by the less fortunate parent. If you are for paying child support and you are behind your payments, expect to receive an “Order to Show Cause.” This order will be asking you why you shouldn’t be held in contempt. You will be explaining why you failed to make the required payments. Reaching a level of arrears, the Friend of the Court will start proceedings for contempt (unpaid child support).

If the sum is significant, unpaid child support may be grounds for civil or criminal contempt. It can also be grounds for separate felony proceedings. It is important to treat an order to show cause for unpaid support seriously. You should speak with a family law attorney right away to arrange for payment of any unpaid arrears. Have your child support order modified. It should reflect any changes in your situation since the decision was rendered.

Contempt of court applied to parenting time denial.

Refusals to grant parenting time are one of the most common reasons for contempt lawsuits.  Both parties are obligated to abide by the court’s custody and parenting time orders. Even if they are only temporary, and parents are to spend time with their children. They should do so on the days and times specified in the parenting time orders. The opposing parent may file a parenting time denial with their local Friend of the Court office. You can do this when the custodial parent refuses to turn over the children at the appointed time.

Usually, only one or two refusals to grant parental time will result in contempt actions. A motion to enforce your custody and parenting time order may be submitted by you and your family law counsel. Your attorney can ask to hold the other party in civil contempt for refusing you access to your child.

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How to Handle Ex Badmouthing You to Kids Without Proof in Michigan

There is a serious issue with badmouthing. One parent is disparaging the other. One parent demonizes the other in the presence of their children. When the opportunity arises, the court will stop the badmouthing. How do you handle ex badmouthing you to kids? You lack supporting evidence.

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You make a consultation call to your attorney about it, which you will pay for. A hearing is scheduled when your attorney submits the motion, which you will also pay for. The cost of your attorney’s attendance in court will also be paid by you. Both partners appear in court with their attorneys to present and defend their motion. If you can present evidence, the court might accept your motion. You’ll eventually have to coexist with your ex-spouse. Think carefully about the arguments and materials you present to the judge. You can be spending a lot for your constant bickering.

 

What is parental alienation syndrome?

During a divorce, one parent frequently resorts to badmouthing the other parent. This is sometimes referred to as parental alienation syndrome by family law professionals. It is a tactic employed to harm or disrupt the child’s relationship with the other parent.

Parental alienation is the unpleasant outcome of a parent’s bad influence on a child. It causes the child to harbor strong animosity or even hatred toward the other parent. It usually occurs during or after a bitter divorce or child custody dispute. Parental manipulation is used to achieve alienation. This includes speaking poorly of the other parent. The effects on the child may be severe and protracted. Family courts and the Friend of the Court offices are aware of alienating behavior and will not put up with it.

You may be familiar with the idea of parental alienation, but there is no one definition for it. In the fields of law, medicine, and mental health, there is some discussion surrounding it. Toxic parents can actively persuade their children to hate the other parent. This can cause parental alienation. Another scenario is where several family members attempt to sabotage a specific relationship.

It can happen in the open or the seclusion of the parent’s home. It’s done through social media posts or comments from other family members. A parent may disparage the other in the presence of their children. This undesirable behavior may manifest in a variety of ways, including:

[ a ]  Criticizing or contesting the parenting decision of the other parent.

[ b ]  Blaming the ex-spouse or other parent.

[ c ]  Disparaging or maligning the other parent.

[ d ]  Lying to the children or providing false information.

[ e ]  Resorting to name-calling.

You can say that badmouthing or parental alienation is a form of emotional child abuse. As a form of emotional child abuse, it can manifest in many ways during a divorce or child custody case. Some signs of this form of emotional abuse on children include:

[ a ]  Refusing to communicate with the alienated parent’s family or friends.

[ b ]  Inability to articulate their feelings, expressing resentment toward the alienated parent.

[ c ]  Denial of the manipulation’s impact on how their opinions have changed.

[ d ]  Belief that the alienated parent is the bad guy while the manipulative parent is good and honest.

Parents care about their children’s welfare. It is surprising to see how they suddenly lose all concern for how their actions may affect their children during a divorce. Making negative comments about each other is one of the most common dirty tricks. It is employed usually in custody battles. 

 

What are the effects and consequences of parental alienation?

Parental alienation is a pathological disease that affects children in high-conflict divorces. It happens when one parent damages their child’s relationship with the other parent. If the violating parent succeeds in their goal, the child will reject both parents. This will cause severe alienation. Mild and moderate alienation share a component of partial parental rejection.

Research has demonstrated the effect of conflict and parental alienation before, during, and after parental separation. These effects are significantly predictive of children’s psychological and emotional well-being.

Child alienation, brainwashing, pathological alienation, toxic parenting, hostile aggressive parenting, visitation refusal, and pathological alignments are some more names used to describe parental alienation.

A parent can believe that they do not influence their children’s circumstances. They believe the only thing in their control is what they say to them. Parents will sway their children’s opinions about which parent they should live with. A parent may occasionally resort to disparaging the other parent.

The children may feel uncomfortable and suffer detrimental impacts on their well-being. This is the result of hearing these disparaging comments. Children could accept the misleading information or not comprehend the situation completely. A child may harbor resentment or hurt against one or both of the parents. All these can lead to a child no longer wanting to spend time with their parents or feeling secure around them.

Children may suffer from badmouthing even if there isn’t a divorce involved. The negative information or language might hurt a child mentally. Children occasionally imitate this conduct or use language they overhear being spoken. Such behavior can lead the child to lose emotional control. These instances of inappropriate behavior may even amount to psychological or emotional abuse and cause emotional trauma.

The parent who disparages the other parent is endangering the child’s welfare. A judge may decide to amend the existing child custody agreement. A judge can reduce time together with the children. If the child is old enough, the judge may invite them to appear in court. The children can testify about the badmouthing made while the case was being heard. The parent who is being badmouthed may urge the court to hold the other parent in contempt of court.

 

How do you handle badmouthing or parental alienation?

In extreme cases of parental alienation, therapy may be the only option. The wiser or more experience judges will most likely order therapy. Another option is removing the child from the alienating parent for a while. It can be both necessary and imperative in extreme situations of alienation. More so where there is a complete rejection of a parent. Such removal can have great success, according to research and clinical experience. Otherwise, the alienated parent can exercise some legal prerogatives. You can start with what you know about your situation.

Tracking and documenting instances of badmouthing is important material for your attorney. A child custody arrangement may already be in place. Arrangements could very well change if required to safeguard the child’s best interests. This bad behavior might be used by your attorney to strengthen your claim for custody. It will also safeguard your child’s emotional well-being.

Parental alienation or badmouthing can be avoided with the help of a parenting time plan. You can ask your attorney to include a clause or provision in the parenting time plan for this purpose. Such a clause can serve as a guide for conduct or behavior around your children.

Some of the problems they address might never materialize as issues. The presence of such provision in the parenting time plan guards against them. If they do cause difficulty, it makes the issue easier to handle.

This provision gives the parent access to the judicial system. If you are being maligned in the presence of your children, you have remedies. Attacks of this nature are common when one parent enters into a new relationship.

Parenting plans are the first line of defense against badmouthing. Occasionally extra-legal measures are necessary. A court may mandate counseling or a psychological evaluation. These can be imposed on a soon-to-be ex-spouse who won’t stop acting inappropriately around the children.

The breakup of a parent-child relationship is an instance of emotional child abuse. Whatever the reasons may be. The adversarial aspect of the legal system makes things worse for families. According to some mental health practitioners, the divorce process creates an adversarial environment. Separating parents frequently find themselves in a “me against you” predicament. They end up battling against one another as a result, which can have serious consequences.

Talk to your attorney. You can choose to be proactive about this or you can choose to wait and face the challenges from your ex-spouse.

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Dealing With Ex Leaving the Country Who Has Sole Custody in Michigan

When you discuss child custody, you are addressing two issues. You are referring to both legal and physical custody. Physical custody is where the children spend most of their time sleeping and living. Whoever has legal custody of the children decides what are best for them children. Both parents have legal custody, and only one parent may have physical custody. One might have both. How will you deal with an ex leaving the country who has sole custody of your children?

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You might not have much say in whether your ex-spouse takes the children on vacation for spring break. Having exclusive custody and your ex leaving the country is another matter. It will be different if your ex-spouse takes your children outside the country. A petition for a change in legal residence must be submitted by your ex-spouse. Your attorney can file your objection, after which the court will decide whether to grant it. There may not be a better but it may be the only choice available to you.

 

What does having sole custody really mean for a parent?

People frequently have preconceived notions about what a particular term signifies. They get their knowledge of the legal system from movies and television programs. The problem with that is that each state has different definitions and laws. The term “sole custody” can have different meanings in different states. Their definition may differ from the one used here in Michigan. This is analogous to the fact that the term “date rape” is not used in Michigan. It does not have a legal definition here in Michigan. 

Most people understand “sole custody” as a single parent having sole custody of their child. Keep in mind sole legal custody and sole physical custody are two different things. In Michigan, they can be used interchangeably. Legal custody is the term used to describe a parent’s ability to make crucial choices in the upbringing of their child. This would encompass the child’s schooling and driving license. It could include elective dental, and medical treatment. This also includes religious teaching. Physical custody refers to the primary residence of a child.

In Michigan, one parent can be granted exclusive physical custody. This means the child spends most of their time with them, but both parents share joint legal custody. It is quite conceivable for a child to live primarily with one parent, yet both parents have an equal say in the child’s upbringing. In such a scenario, one parent would not have sole legal custody but would have sole physical custody.

As a parent, you would want to be the only one making decisions. Decisions about how your child is to be raised. You would want to be the only one taking part in the big decisions your child faces every day. You would need to have both sole physical and sole legal custody of your child to be able to do all that.

Even if you have sole physical and legal custody of your child, the other parent may still have an opinion. When a child is with either parent, that parent gets to make daily decisions about little issues but not big ones. Regardless of who gets sole physical custody, it is extremely likely, the other parent will receive parenting time or visitation with the child. It will be so unless the court finds it harmful for the child to see the other parent, which is not very often.

 

Does having sole custody mean being free to take my children anywhere anytime?

The things you may do as a family should not be restricted because you share custody of your child. Take a moment to review your custody agreement and parenting plan. Consider doing this before you make your dream travel plans. Does it guide you on how to approach travel?

Vacation clauses specify how to inform the other parent of impending trips. These clauses are common in custody agreements. These clauses can set restrictions on what you are allowed and not allowed to do. Your custody agreement contains specific guidelines for vacations, you must abide by them. Or, ask the court to make changes.

Your custody agreement will require that the other co-parent signs off on your travel plans. If that is the case, you cannot leave the country without the co-parent’s consent or permission.

Even if your agreement does let you take your children out of state, that doesn’t mean you can just pack up and leave. In the majority of circumstances, you will need to gather documents. Papers to make aware the co-parent of pertinent information about the travel.

You must in particular offer proof that addresses the following issues:

[ a ]  Where are you going on your trip? 

[ b ]  With whom will you and your child be traveling?

[ c ]  How much time will you be on the road? 

[ d ]  How can the co-parent get in touch with you if needed?

[ e ]  You should also give the co-parent a thorough itinerary if at all possible. 

As the co-parents, you both sign the document and have a notary public present.

If you have joint custody of a child in Michigan, you are not permitted to leave the state, according to the law. You may move within a 100-mile radius of where you were living. It is part of the custody arrangement, provided you continue to live in Michigan.

You may leave the state if you have sole legal custody, but only if the court permits you to do so.

 

What’s the consequence of leaving the country with the children?

Gaining court approval for a move is far more difficult. More particularly so when the parents share joint legal custody. As against one parent having sole legal custody. The reason for this is that both parents have a legal custody arrangement in place. Both are actively involved in the child’s upbringing. Both provide support, comfort, and essentials. If one parent moves to another state with the child, the other parent’s ability to regularly visit the child will be hampered.

You cannot leave the state or the country without the express consent of the other parent. You would violate the court’s order and risk losing your parental rights if you do so.

If the co-parent and you are unable to agree on your vacation itinerary, speak with your attorney. It could be time to ask the court to change your custody arrangement.

Here’s another thing you should watch out for, especially if your custody battle was a contentious one. 

It is possible to be accused and to be found guilty of parental kidnapping. It can happen even if you are a parent with legal custody of your child. It can arise when separated or divorced parents have a set parenting time schedule. And one parent doesn’t adhere to it. A parent who plans to keep and hide a child from the other parent may be charged with parental kidnapping. A crime that carries a penalty of fines or jail time.

A person is guilty of parental kidnapping in Michigan if the prosecutor establishes the following without a shadow of a doubt:

First, the fact that the person abducted the child or kept the child for longer than 24 hours.

Second, the person had the intention of keeping or hiding the child from the parent or guardian. The parent or guardian at the time had legal custody or visitation rights. It is a person who had adopted the child, or a person who had legal custody of the child.

Violating a custody or parenting time order is a serious offense. So is parental kidnapping. Call your attorney if you are experiencing difficulties in custody and parenting time.

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Do You Have the Right to Know Who Your Ex Brings Around Your Kids in Michigan?

Who is your ex-spouse spending time with in front of your kids? Do you have the right to know who your ex brings around your kids? Girlfriends and boyfriends change with time. Over the course of your life, you had many relationships. After each failed romance, you finally found someone to marry. Someone you believed to be your true love. You got married, then got divorced. This is where your relationship choice really fell short.

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Whatever your motivations, it doesn’t matter who is at fault. Divorce is evidence that your decisions regarding romantic relationships have not been all that wise. The next relationship you have might not be much better. Always keep your life with your children separate. Protect your children from it. Until you are certain that they will play a significant role in your children’s lives for a long time. At least give it some time to wait. It’s not about you, really. Your children will gain the most from waiting it out.

 

What is the impact of divorce on my children?

Depending on how well the marriage was, getting a divorce might be seen as either a blessing or a curse. Divorce can be as traumatic for children as losing a loved one. After a divorce, children often experience considerable changes. Changes can mean a new or revised living arrangement. Or, the difficulty of having to live with just one parent.

Children of divorced parents show higher levels of anxiety and sadness. They exhibit more antisocial conduct than their peers whose parents are still together. This is true even before the marriage has ended. Children going through a divorce see an even greater rise in anxiety and depression. Parental divorce is linked to serious risks for kids and teens. These risks include substance abuse and addiction, and mental and physical health issues. These children also suffer from subpar academic performance. 

Both parents may be devastated once a marriage breaks down. The stress causes primal and potent sentiments of abandonment, loneliness, and dread. Depression or anxiety may result from this.

There isn’t even enough recognition of how terrible a loss divorce can be. How it is for couples and their children. Emotions can be loss, sadness, wrath, betrayal, remorse, and shame. Emotional manifestations following a breakup, regardless of the reasons for it.

Giving your children what they need is difficult. Especially when you are overly exposed and emotionally weak. When a marriage fails, things may become more difficult for you and your children. Divorce frequently causes financial hardship and social problems. Children may think that they are to blame for their parent’s separation. They may feel unworthy, nervous, and sad as a result of their guilt and shame.

One or both parents may eventually need to introduce a new relationship to the children. Oftentimes it comes after they have processed their grief over the loss of their family. The family they had looked to as a source of stability.

 

What is going to be the impact of introducing new relationships on my children?

It may be crucial to wait before getting into relationships. Wait until you have been divorced for about two years. This gives the kids time to adjust to the divorce. Adapt to changes in living arrangements and the loss of a permanent parent. Perhaps it would be better if you tell your children about your new relationship. Assure them that their other parent was not being replaced.

Parents can be anxious about some measure of happiness and success in a new relationship. They will fight about how much distance to set between their children and a newly emerging romance. It can cause uncertainty and worry in children. Your children may still be fantasizing about a reunion between you and your ex-spouse. 

It is important to recognize the strength of the reunion fantasy. Even after one parent has remarried, some kids hold on to the hope that their parents will reconcile. A child’s sense of self is intimately entwined with that of the family. A child still has strong bonds with both parents. Their sense of self is endangered when the family breaks up.

Reputable family therapists will tell you this. When a child “discovers” that their parents are in love, they feel betrayed. They feel betrayed at a time when trust and assurance are most required. Children may already be apprehensive about the changes in their lives. Changes brought on by the divorce and feeling closer to a parent than they did before. They may now feel that trust is violated.

 

Do I have a say in the new relationship my ex introduces to my children?

If your ex-spouse has court-ordered parenting time, you may have no say about who will be around your children. Your ex-spouse has parenting time, their new partner is allowed to be around the children. This covers a few parental rights. The competence of each parent to raise the child and make decisions about who can be around the child is presumed in the absence of proof to the contrary. Parents who have parenting time have the right to this.

Your ex-spouse with parenting time has the power to choose who interacts with the child while in their care. And this power includes whether to let a new boyfriend or girlfriend be around the children. This is the same right that allows your ex-spouse to choose a babysitter or caregiver. An ex-spouse may also have his or her new significant other watch the children. Your ex-spouse can do so unless otherwise indicated in your parenting plan, decree, or custody order.

The truth is you have little control over your ex-spouse’s new partner spending time with your children. This is especially true when your ex-spouse has parenting time with them. Your ex-spouse is acting under his or her legal parental rights. Your ex-spouse is free to make that decision.

You may not have the legal right to restrict the interaction between your children and your ex-spouse’s new partner. You have to show there is inappropriate behavior. These could be abuse, excessive drinking, or criminal activity.

Ask your lawyer to request a change of the court’s custody and visitation or parenting time order. You can exercise this option if you have proof of abuse or other inappropriate behavior.

If your ex-spouse is seeing someone, it is possible you may also do so in the near future. You have to look at how this new relationship is going to impact the best interest of your children.

Can you still show that love, affection, and emotional bond still exist between you and your ex-spouse? Between you and your children now you have introduced a new relationship.

Are you sure you can still provide guidance to your child with a new relationship? This new relationship is a new mix coming between you and your children.

You are introducing a new relationship into the mix. Can you still offer a stable and satisfactory environment for the children? Can you still show a desirable continuing environment?

Are you showing some permanence in your family unit with this new relationship? Are you willing to protect the bond between your ex-spouse and your children?

Are you unsure or are you saying no to these questions? If you are, you’re about to compromise the best interest of your children with eyes wide open.

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How to Handle a He Said/She Said Divorce in Michigan

A divorce or child custody lawsuit is like any other case in that it depends on the strength of your evidence. There will be occasions when there is plenty of proof to back up specific facts and cases where there is none. Many times, disputes over child custody or divorce come down to who said what. How do you handle a he-said/she-said divorce?

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He-said-she-said disputes during divorce are not relevant in Michigan. It is a no-fault divorce state. No longer does it matter why you get divorced. Of course, there are situations where he-said-she-said disputes are pertinent. Such as in child custody cases. What he and she stated in a custody dispute should be documented in writing and signed under oath. A deposition of what each person said under oath on paper can be entered as part of the facts of the case.

 

Why is Michigan a no-fault divorce state?

For more than a century, Michigan’s only basis for divorce was a marital transgression. The fault procedure just persisted. It has so despite the possibility that it could lead to unsatisfactory outcomes. It was preferable to the alternatives of divorce by consent, divorce by coercion of an innocent party, or no divorce at all.

Legal scholars and public organizations harshly criticized fault-based divorce for years.

The adversarial tone of the court appeals was criticized for deepening the divisions. It created more rifts between the parties rather than promoting reconciliation. The need to prove some marital offense to get a divorce drew more criticism. This condition hindered the court’s investigation into the true causes of marriage dissolution. It focuses on a superficial “pigeonholing” of relationships to one statutory ground. The marital fault doctrine was also thought to be unreasonable. It attempts to focus the full blame for the breakdown of the marriage on one party. It singled out the person carrying out the offending behavior.

Up until the late 1960s, in order for a divorce to be granted, the petitioning party was always required to prove blame. Couples could not just decide to divorce their spouse because they were unhappy. They were required to present proof that their husband had broken the law instead. Among the grounds for granting divorce was bigamy (in some states). Others choose adultery and abandonment. Still, others went for severe cruelty or abuse, and an inability to perform in the bedroom. It was a breeding ground for he-said-she-said arguments in court proceedings.

These drove hundreds of thousands of couples to stay in unhappy marriages. Even when neither spouse committed any serious crimes. Being apart was never a possibility.

When then-governor Ronald Reagan signed California’s Family Law Act into law in 1969, things began to stir and change. In California, divorcing couples can now do so without blaming one another. They instead cite irreconcilable differences. Other states swiftly followed them. Irreconcilable differences eventually became the norm for divorce in the United States.

Divorce in the United States was revolutionized by no-fault divorce. They don’t have to endure listening to he-said she is at fault and she-said he is to blame arguments and counter-arguments. The increase in divorces led to the creation of special courts in many states. Family courts to deal with divorce and other family law concerns. Courts were able to give priority to urgent cases. They can process divorce proceedings more quickly as a result of efficiency gains.

 

What is a he-said-she-said defense in a divorce case? What is hearsay?

Whether it’s a divorce or a hearing over child custody, family law disputes are often personal and emotional. Defendants frequently use he-said-she-said type arguments in their defense. They are dealing with important issues involving the future of their family’s dynamic.

This form of evidence is frequently referred to as hearsay. It can be annoying and upsetting. It has a significant impact on how family law orders turn out.

A hearsay statement is a written or verbal declaration made outside of court. They used it to support an assertion. Sworn declarations made in an affidavit or under penalty of perjury are regarded as hearsay.

Hearsay can be presented in family court by the parties or individuals close to the family. It can be by a teacher, nurse, member of the extended family, or a child, even though it is normally inadmissible. These declarations can be recorded prior to a hearing. They are “excepted as provided by law.”

Many judges regard hearsay as problematic. It is also presented during oral deliberations in court. Hearsay has long been used to inflame bias in cases. To skew the outcomes of court orders such as spousal support or custody agreements. He-said-she-said style claims can result in a lot of contradictory back and forth between spouses.

 

How do I avoid having the judge think I’m lying?

Be diligent about recording your communications in court cases if you are involved. This is especially true and needs to be acted on if you’re going through a divorce.

You have to ensure a court never has to decide whether or not they believe you are telling the truth. Here are some particular steps you may take to interact with the other party and the court:

Use written language to communicate. 

Choose to put your conversation in writing wherever possible. This entails sending a text message, a letter through the mail, or an email in place of a phone call.

Keep recordings of conversations between parties.

This may or may not be lawful, depending on the State and the particular circumstances. There won’t be any doubt as to what took place if recording the conversations is permitted.

Put any points of agreement in writing.

Put everything you discussed and what was decided upon in writing. Preferably, after your conversation with the opposing side. Have these agreements or notes signed by both parties in paper or in digital format.

Organize your conversations as you would any document.

You can still record conversations yourself if it is not possible to write them down or record them. Spend a few minutes after speaking with someone to record a summary of the conversation. Keep it along with the date for your own records. Even better if you can accomplish this using a computer application. Find an application that creates an unalterable time and date stamp.

Generally speaking, you cannot rely on another person’s assertion if you are trying to prove something. Most talks that are not under oath or subject to the penalty of perjury are deemed unreliable by the courts.

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If I Rely on My Spouse Financially, How Can I Get a Divorce in Michigan?

One of the challenges of filing for divorce is the stress that comes with it. Before filing for divorce, they hold off for a day, a week, or even months. Even when a significant issue or problem is in front of them, they choose not to file. Why is that so?

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It usually has to do with fear. The outcome is what the party is frightened of. In an abusive relationship, both parties worry that the worse consequences will follow. There is a circumstance where things will settle down. The other party is now aware that the court is reviewing the relationship. The proceedings at home are beginning to intrigue the court. If you decide to stay married in the end, that will be your decision. Speak with your attorney as soon as possible. Give your attorney the reins and let them guide you through.

 

Why people are delaying filing for divorce?

Some jurisdictions before demanded that one spouse “prove blame” in divorce. This meant they had engaged in specific marital wrongdoing as the basis for the divorce. This wrongdoing could be infidelity or abandonment.  Some states still continue to permit fault-based divorces. Almost all states today have embraced a no-fault divorce.

Spouses who are thinking about divorce are no longer burdened with proving who is to blame.  Even if your partner objects, you can still file for divorce as long as you can show the following:

[ a ]  The foundation of your marriage has crumbled to the point the objects of your union have been destroyed. And,

[ b ]  There is no longer any chance that the marriage may be saved.

Michigan has no-fault divorce laws. But you can argue your spouse’s bad behavior warrants a more favorable judgment. This will be useful in property division or spousal support judgment. For instance, an abusive spouse threatens to end the other spouse’s life in the course of the abuse. She can file for divorce and ask the judge to give her a larger share of the marital estate. It would enable her to pay medical bills and recover the lost wages. Loss of income from being out of work as a result of her injuries. This might be the only time a judge can take bad behavior into account during the divorce process. Not every judge will adjust the property, custody, or spousal support awards owing to one spouse’s wrongdoing.

We all know that getting a divorce may be expensive in a variety of ways. You already have financial difficulties in your marriage. The idea of paying divorce costs or splitting your debt, no matter how fair it may seem on paper, is not appealing.

Money concerns are reasons many unhappy, unsuitable couples continue to cohabitate. High inflation rates have increased the expense of living as a single individual. The expense of divorce appears to outweigh the desire to live alone. A lifestyle choice that can cost over $3,000 per month. Not to mention the costs associated with paying spousal support and child support. If your spouse is making more money than you, the fear of losing financial security hangs even heavier.

The fear of escalating abuse or violence can also bring you to think twice about filing for divorce. There are valid causes for fear for the spouses of abusive partners. Abusive spouses usually use threats to children as leverage. Like threatening to take the kids and relocate. And you can be certain the abusive spouse will follow through with the threat. An abusive spouse can fabricate evidence. Manipulate witnesses and bring them to court to demonize the abused spouse. There have been cases of abusive spouses kidnapping their own children. And the murder of spouses and children is possible. There’s real fear in the prospect of filing for a divorce.

 

Should you file the divorce first?

For those who do not have the challenges of an abusive spouse, the challenge will be when or should they make the first move. People often plan when going through a divorce since it might feel like a battle. Let’s take a minute to pause and consider whether filing for divorce first is a wise course of action for you. If you file first, this will be your advantage:

You are more prepared for divorce.

You have the chance to get ready if you file first. You have more time to prepare everything. More days than the 20 days you have to respond if your husband files first.  In a custody dispute, it is crucial to take advantage of this time to get copies of any relevant documents. You need documents like financials and account details and gather proof. During this time, you should also make sure that you are financially ready for the divorce. We strongly advise starting on both before continuing if you don’t already have a job or a credit card.

Prevent the hiding of assets.

Make sure your spouse is not hiding any assets by checking twice. They occasionally give property to friends or family. Sometimes they’ll transfer funds to an unidentified account. Marital property is supposed to be divided evenly. When the time comes, make sure you have all the information on assets and finances.

You have better control over timing your moves.

You can determine the divorce’s start date by filing first. Despite being seen as pushy, filing documents while your spouse is on vacation is a wise option. The law gives your spouse 20 days to get in touch with a divorce attorney and prepare a response to your filed papers. You may be granted a default divorce if they neglect to file the response.

Better control over the progression and direction of the divorce case.

The divorce can be filed at any time if one party files first. In the event that your spouse hasn’t sent a response, you may elect to call off the divorce. Canceling the divorce is an option that you have up until your spouse responds to your complaint. Your spouse will be the defendant if you file first, making you the plaintiff. You would testify first at trial if your divorce case reached that point.

Do you really want a divorce? Are you doing it for the right reasons? If you believe you are, talk to an attorney. Get educated and be very clear about understanding the life you want after divorce. Don’t do it out of fear. Do it based on a well-informed decision.

 

Should you wait until the children are all grown up?

Maybe you’re hesitating because you’re worried about the effect of the divorce on your children. You are thinking things are progressing too fast for your comfort or your children’s comfort. 

The necessary waiting period from the time of filing until a judgment can be entered is sixty days. The waiting period for a divorce without minor children. There is no option for the judge to lower this time frame any further; it is the shortest possible.

In Michigan, the timing of divorce filing can have a significant impact on the outcome of your case. With minor children, a six-month waiting period must pass before a judgment can be issued. You should be ready to wait six months when you file because you won’t know who your judge is until the case is filed. There are several conditions under which a judge can shorten the waiting time. Different judges have varied attitudes and rules on this topic.

You will incur a slightly higher filing cost for a divorce with minor children. There will be more court paperwork pertaining to the children. More court appearances or hearings are necessary. Even if the child is older than 17, child custody, parenting time, and child support must still be determined.

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My Ex Took My Child Without Consent and Won’t Return Him

In a parenting time arrangement, one parent is in charge of picking up the child. The other parent follows suit and makes plans for the child’s return. This works well in most circumstances. The parents cooperate with one another. There are instances where one parent decides to keep the child. My ex took my child without consent and won’t return him.

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These parents now believe it to be a wise decision. The lawyers will intervene and submit motions. The court sees it this way. You’re asking the court to take a back seat so you can pursue your own interests. That is not acceptable to the court. The court will defend its stance. When the court issues an order, you are expected to abide by it. Sanctions can certainly follow.

 

What is parenting time? What should it mean to you?

Parenting time is the period of time a child spends with each parent when the parents do not live together. Most of the time, the parent who has sole physical custody spends a lot more time with the child. More than the other parent and gets a lot more parenting time.

In joint physical custody, parenting time is typically equal or nearly equal.

An order for custody and parenting time may be made in the context of a divorce or custody battle.  Parenting time and custody agreements will influence aspects of your children’s lives. Your children’s living situations. How often do they see each parent, and who makes decisions for them 

Parenting time without a predetermined schedule is referred to as “reasonable parenting time.” It’s an alternative that may be permitted in place of established dates and times. The judge can resolve any disagreements about what makes up appropriate parenting time.

If you have assigned parenting time, there is a specific schedule. You can decide on a parenting time plan if you feel comfortable discussing it with the other parent. If you can’t agree on a timeline, a judge may order one for you.

The Child Custody Act of 1970 (Act 91 of 1970), Sections 722.21–722.31, defines and outlines parental and child rights. The Child Custody Act covers a wide range of issues. It covers issues such as grandparenting time, parenting time, and guardianship custodial information. Additionally, the Child Custody Act has highly strict anti-child abuse guidelines.

It is difficult for a parent to get custody if an established custodial environment or ECE with one parent already exists. A child relies on one parent for comfort, guidance, and discipline. This is on top of the child’s basic needs. The court wants to avoid unsettling changes in children’s lives.

Parenting time is a court order based on the Child Custody Act of 1970 (Act 91 of 1970). Michigan Compiled Laws (MCL) 722.27a, defines parenting time.

The Michigan Compiled Laws section 722.23 lists the 12 best interest factors. These are factors courts use in deciding custody and parenting time schedules.

Generally speaking, kids have the right to parenting time with both of their parents. Children are entitled to parenting time. The judge will impose parenting time on both parents. The judge expects compliance unless there is persuasive evidence otherwise. Evidence that will damage the child’s physical, mental, or emotional well-being.

A set of recommendations were created. These recommendations were ensuring the law was implemented correctly. This set of recommendations was referred to as the guidelines.

The Friend of the Court will work with you to make sure parenting time is distributed fairly. MCL 552.519 stipulates the State Court Administrative Office of the Michigan Supreme Court shall make publications available to each friend of the court office to aid in the performance of its duties.

It was the goal of the previous Michigan Parenting Time Guideline. The guideline was released in 2000. The aim was to educate both members of the general public and professionals. It includes court personnel who assist parents in establishing parenting time plans. March 2022 was the most recent edition of the Michigan Parenting Time Guidelines.

 

What if I hold on to my children and do not return them to my ex-spouse?

Before you refuse visits or take any other independent action, take into account the following:

[ 1 ]  A child has the right to spend time with both parents. The child should not suffer consequences if a parent refuses to follow the parenting plan. The majority of children, according to research, are happier and healthier when they are given the opportunity to interact with both of their parents.

[ 2 ]  If the other parent of your child refuses to follow the parenting plan, it is the court’s job, not yours, to set and enforce fines for any infractions by that parent.

Everyone seems to be able to define kidnapping in the conventional sense. This is when someone kidnaps a child and asks for ransom. Or a certain performance in exchange for the child’s safe release. A parent who has legal custody of their child can be accused of parental kidnapping and be found guilty. Parental kidnapping happens among separated or divorced parents. This happens when parents with a set parenting time schedule have one parent who does not adhere to it.

Although actual parental kidnapping is a crime that carries a prison sentence or a fine, this rarely applies to custody or divorce disputes. Due to the statute’s phrasing, which states that “custody or parenting time rights under a legal court order,” this rarely applies. It might not be parental kidnapping if a court order is not currently in effect. You cannot accuse the other parent of withholding the child if there is no court order specifying how much parenting time each parent is to get.

If found guilty of parental kidnapping, you could face any or all of the following penalties:

[ 1 ]  A penalty of up to $2000;

[ 2 ]  Imprisonment in a jail or prison for a maximum of one year and one day;

[ 3 ]  A parent who is found guilty may be required to pay compensation for any cost to:  

[ a ]  The other parent, 

[ b ]  The child’s legal guardian, 

[ c ]  The person or people who adopted the child, or 

[ d ]  Any other person legally in charge of the child.

Costs related to trying to find and get the child back.

Police departments usually do not submit parental kidnapping for approval. Prosecutors rarely prosecute these charges. The parent calls the police to help with a problem involving a breach of a custody or parenting time order. Law enforcement frequently declines to get involved. Police tell the parties that this is a “civil matter.” That it needs to be resolved by filing motions in the court that issued the original order. On a party’s motion, the family law judge can impose fines or jail time on violators. The family law judge will use civil or criminal contempt laws. If law enforcement gets involved it is parental kidnapping that is highly serious. And involve physical abuse or even fleeing the country.

 

What can I do if my ex-spouse won’t return the children?

Contact the police if your non-custodial ex-spouse keeps your child for more than twenty-four hours after the time the child was to be returned. And, if you can’t get in touch with your ex, and if you think your ex is not planning to return the child.

If you think your ex would kidnap your child, your attorney can petition the court. Petitions can include safeguards like supervised visitation and posting bail. Another safeguard is entering the child’s name in the Children’s Passport Issuance Alert Program in its visitation order.

We understand how frustrating it must be to be denied parental time. You don’t need to start slamming doors or fighting with your ex-spouse. Contact a lawyer. Your lawyer will be aware of how to avoid these obstacles.

If not, speak with your neighborhood Friend of the Court.

The following steps should be taken by a party whose parenting time has been withheld for any reason (including children not being returned to the custodial parent):

[ 1 ]  Verify the court’s most recent parenting time order to vouch for the fact that you were not granted parenting time.

 [ 2 ] Send a written complaint to the FOC office outlining the violation of parenting time.

Give specific dates and times when the parenting time was violated. The FOC office should be contacted as well before registering your complaint. Find out whether there are any further needs or crucial instructions.

[3] Make sure to timely submit your complaint. You have 56 days after the parenting time was violated to submit a written complaint to the FOC.

[4] Print down a copy of the complaint and save one for your records.

A parent abducting their own child is not unheard of. Perhaps they were denied custody or they are enraged and wish to harm the other parent. In any case, parental kidnapping is illegal both at the federal level and in Michigan. Preventing a parent or child from acquiring a passport. This is one method of preventing international parental kidnapping. It is very challenging to leave the United States without a passport.

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Goldman & Associates Law Firm is here to with information about Child Custody and Divorce in the State of Michigan.

 

My Ex Took My Child Without Consent and Wont Return Him

In a parenting time arrangement, one parent is in charge of picking up the child. The other parent follows suit and makes plans for the child’s return. This works well in most circumstances. The parents cooperate with one another. There are instances where one parent decides to keep the child. My ex took my child without consent and wont return him.

Click here to watch the video on My Ex Took My Child Without Consent and Wont Return Him

These parents now believe it to be a wise decision. The lawyers will intervene and submit motions. The court sees it this way. You’re asking the court to take a back seat so you can pursue your own interests. That is not acceptable to the court. The court will defend its stance. When the court issues an order, you are expected to abide by it. Sanctions can certainly follow.

 

What is parenting time? What should it mean to you?

Parenting time is the period of time a child spends with each parent when the parents do not live together. Most of the time, the parent who has sole physical custody spends a lot more time with the child. More than the other parent and gets a lot more parenting time.

In joint physical custody, parenting time is typically equal or nearly equal.

An order for custody and parenting time may be made in the context of a divorce or custody battle. Parenting time and custody agreements will influence aspects of your children’s lives. Your children’s living situations. How often do they see each parent, and who makes decisions for them

Parenting time without a predetermined schedule is referred to as “reasonable parenting time.” It’s an alternative that may be permitted in place of established dates and times. The judge can resolve any disagreements about what makes up appropriate parenting time.

If you have assigned parenting time, there is a specific schedule. You can decide on a parenting time plan if you feel comfortable discussing it with the other parent. If you can’t agree on a timeline, a judge may order one for you.

The Child Custody Act of 1970 (Act 91 of 1970), Sections 722.21722.31, defines and outlines parental and child rights. The Child Custody Act covers a wide range of issues. It covers issues such as grandparenting time, parenting time, and guardianship custodial information. Additionally, the Child Custody Act has highly strict anti-child abuse guidelines.

It is difficult for a parent to get custody if an established custodial environment or ECE with one parent already exists. A child relies on one parent for comfort, guidance, and discipline. This is on top of the child’s basic needs. The court wants to avoid unsettling changes in children’s lives.

Parenting time is a court order based on the Child Custody Act of 1970 (Act 91 of 1970). Michigan Compiled Laws (MCL) 722.27a, defines parenting time.

The Michigan Compiled Laws section 722.23 lists the 12 best interest factors. These are factors courts use in deciding custody and parenting time schedules.

Generally speaking, kids have the right to parenting time with both of their parents. Children are entitled to parenting time. The judge will impose parenting time on both parents. The judge expects compliance unless there is persuasive evidence otherwise. Evidence that will damage the child’s physical, mental, or emotional well-being.

A set of recommendations were created. These recommendations were ensuring the law was implemented correctly. This set of recommendations was referred to as the guidelines.

The Friend of the Court will work with you to make sure parenting time is distributed fairly. MCL 552.519 stipulates the State Court Administrative Office of the Michigan Supreme Court shall make publications available to each friend of the court office to aid in the performance of its duties.

It was the goal of the previous Michigan Parenting Time Guideline. The guideline was released in 2000. The aim was to educate both members of the general public and professionals. It includes court personnel who assist parents in establishing parenting time plans. March 2022 was the most recent edition of the Michigan Parenting Time Guidelines.

 

What if I hold on to my children and do not return them to my ex-spouse?

Before you refuse visits or take any other independent action, take into account the following:

[ 1 ] A child has the right to spend time with both parents. The child should not suffer consequences if a parent refuses to follow the parenting plan. The majority of children, according to research, are happier and healthier when they are given the opportunity to interact with both of their parents.

[ 2 ] If the other parent of your child refuses to follow the parenting plan, it is the court’s job, not yours, to set and enforce fines for any infractions by that parent.

Everyone seems to be able to define kidnapping in the conventional sense. This is when someone kidnaps a child and asks for ransom. Or a certain performance in exchange for the child’s safe release. A parent who has legal custody of their child can be accused of parental kidnapping and be found guilty. Parental kidnapping happens among separated or divorced parents. This happens when parents with a set parenting time schedule have one parent who does not adhere to it.

Although actual parental kidnapping is a crime that carries a prison sentence or a fine, this rarely applies to custody or divorce disputes. Due to the statute’s phrasing, which states that “custody or parenting time rights under a legal court order,” this rarely applies. It might not be parental kidnapping if a court order is not currently in effect. You cannot accuse the other parent of withholding the child if there is no court order specifying how much parenting time each parent is to get.

If found guilty of parental kidnapping, you could face any or all of the following penalties:

[ 1 ] A penalty of up to $2000;

[ 2 ] Imprisonment in a jail or prison for a maximum of one year and one day;

[ 3 ] A parent who is found guilty may be required to pay compensation for any cost to:

[ a ] The other parent,

[ b ] The child’s legal guardian,

[ c ] The person or people who adopted the child, or

[ d ] Any other person legally in charge of the child.

Costs related to trying to find and get the child back.

Police departments usually do not submit parental kidnapping for approval. Prosecutors rarely prosecute these charges. The parent calls the police to help with a problem involving a breach of a custody or parenting time order. Law enforcement frequently declines to get involved. Police tell the parties that this is a “civil matter.” That it needs to be resolved by filing motions in the court that issued the original order. On a party’s motion, the family law judge can impose fines or jail time on violators. The family law judge will use civil or criminal contempt laws. If law enforcement gets involved it is parental kidnapping that is highly serious. And involve physical abuse or even fleeing the country.

 

What can I do if my ex-spouse wont return the children?

Contact the police if your non-custodial ex-spouse keeps your child for more than twenty-four hours after the time the child was to be returned. And, if you can’t get in touch with your ex, and if you think your ex is not planning to return the child.

If you think your ex would kidnap your child, your attorney can petition the court. Petitions can include safeguards like supervised visitation and posting bail. Another safeguard is entering the child’s name in the Children’s Passport Issuance Alert Program in its visitation order.

We understand how frustrating it must be to be denied parental time. You don’t need to start slamming doors or fighting with your ex-spouse. Contact a lawyer. Your lawyer will be aware of how to avoid these obstacles.

If not, speak with your neighborhood Friend of the Court.

The following steps should be taken by a party whose parenting time has been withheld for any reason (including children not being returned to the custodial parent):

[ 1 ] Verify the court’s most recent parenting time order to vouch for the fact that you were not granted parenting time.

[ 2 ] Send a written complaint to the FOC office outlining the violation of parenting time.

Give specific dates and times when the parenting time was violated. The FOC office should be contacted as well before registering your complaint. Find out whether there are any further needs or crucial instructions.

[3] Make sure to timely submit your complaint. You have 56 days after the parenting time was violated to submit a written complaint to the FOC.

[4] Print down a copy of the complaint and save one for your records.

A parent abducting their own child is not unheard of. Perhaps they were denied custody or they are enraged and wish to harm the other parent. In any case, parental kidnapping is illegal both at the federal level and in Michigan. Preventing a parent or child from acquiring a passport. This is one method of preventing international parental kidnapping. It is very challenging to leave the United States without a passport.

Subscribe to our YouTube channel today for more advice on Family Law!

Goldman & Associates Law Firm is here to with information about Child Custody and Divorce in the State of Michigan.

 

My Ex Took My Child Without Consent and Won���t Return Him

In a parenting time arrangement, one parent is in charge of picking up the child. The other parent follows suit and makes plans for the child’s return. This works well in most circumstances. The parents cooperate with one another. There are instances where one parent decides to keep the child. My ex took my child without consent and won���t return him.

Click here to watch the video on My Ex Took My Child Without Consent and Won���t Return Him

These parents now believe it to be a wise decision. The lawyers will intervene and submit motions. The court sees it this way. You’re asking the court to take a back seat so you can pursue your own interests. That is not acceptable to the court. The court will defend its stance. When the court issues an order, you are expected to abide by it. Sanctions can certainly follow.

 

What is parenting time? What should it mean to you?

Parenting time is the period of time a child spends with each parent when the parents do not live together. Most of the time, the parent who has sole physical custody spends a lot more time with the child. More than the other parent and gets a lot more parenting time.

In joint physical custody, parenting time is typically equal or nearly equal.

An order for custody and parenting time may be made in the context of a divorce or custody battle.�� Parenting time and custody agreements will influence aspects of your children’s lives. Your children’s living situations. How often do they see each parent, and who makes decisions for them��

Parenting time without a predetermined schedule is referred to as “reasonable parenting time.” It’s an alternative that may be permitted in place of established dates and times. The judge can resolve any disagreements about what makes up appropriate parenting time.

If you have assigned parenting time, there is a specific schedule. You can decide on a parenting time plan if you feel comfortable discussing it with the other parent. If you can’t agree on a timeline, a judge may order one for you.

The Child Custody Act of 1970 (Act 91 of 1970), Sections 722.21���722.31, defines and outlines parental and child rights. The Child Custody Act covers a wide range of issues. It covers issues such as grandparenting time, parenting time, and guardianship custodial information. Additionally, the Child Custody Act has highly strict anti-child abuse guidelines.

It is difficult for a parent to get custody if an established custodial environment or ECE with one parent already exists. A child relies on one parent for comfort, guidance, and discipline. This is on top of the child’s basic needs. The court wants to avoid unsettling changes in children’s lives.

Parenting time is a court order based on the Child Custody Act of 1970 (Act 91 of 1970). Michigan Compiled Laws (MCL) 722.27a, defines parenting time.

The Michigan Compiled Laws section 722.23 lists the 12 best interest factors. These are factors courts use in deciding custody and parenting time schedules.

Generally speaking, kids have the right to parenting time with both of their parents. Children are entitled to parenting time. The judge will impose parenting time on both parents. The judge expects compliance unless there is persuasive evidence otherwise. Evidence that will damage the child’s physical, mental, or emotional well-being.

A set of recommendations were created. These recommendations were ensuring the law was implemented correctly. This set of recommendations was referred to as the guidelines.

The Friend of the Court will work with you to make sure parenting time is distributed fairly. MCL 552.519 stipulates the State Court Administrative Office of the Michigan Supreme Court shall make publications available to each friend of the court office to aid in the performance of its duties.

It was the goal of the previous Michigan Parenting Time Guideline. The guideline was released in 2000. The aim was to educate both members of the general public and professionals. It includes court personnel who assist parents in establishing parenting time plans. March 2022 was the most recent edition of the Michigan Parenting Time Guidelines.

 

What if I hold on to my children and do not return them to my ex-spouse?

Before you refuse visits or take any other independent action, take into account the following:

[ 1 ]�� A child has the right to spend time with both parents. The child should not suffer consequences if a parent refuses to follow the parenting plan. The majority of children, according to research, are happier and healthier when they are given the opportunity to interact with both of their parents.

[ 2 ]�� If the other parent of your child refuses to follow the parenting plan, it is the court’s job, not yours, to set and enforce fines for any infractions by that parent.

Everyone seems to be able to define kidnapping in the conventional sense. This is when someone kidnaps a child and asks for ransom. Or a certain performance in exchange for the child’s safe release. A parent who has legal custody of their child can be accused of parental kidnapping and be found guilty. Parental kidnapping happens among separated or divorced parents. This happens when parents with a set parenting time schedule have one parent who does not adhere to it.

Although actual parental kidnapping is a crime that carries a prison sentence or a fine, this rarely applies to custody or divorce disputes. Due to the statute’s phrasing, which states that “custody or parenting time rights under a legal court order,” this rarely applies. It might not be parental kidnapping if a court order is not currently in effect. You cannot accuse the other parent of withholding the child if there is no court order specifying how much parenting time each parent is to get.

If found guilty of parental kidnapping, you could face any or all of the following penalties:

[ 1 ]�� A penalty of up to $2000;

[ 2 ]�� Imprisonment in a jail or prison for a maximum of one year and one day;

[ 3 ]�� A parent who is found guilty may be required to pay compensation for any cost to:����

[ a ]�� The other parent,��

[ b ]�� The child’s legal guardian,��

[ c ]�� The person or people who adopted the child, or��

[ d ]�� Any other person legally in charge of the child.

Costs related to trying to find and get the child back.

Police departments usually do not submit parental kidnapping for approval. Prosecutors rarely prosecute these charges. The parent calls the police to help with a problem involving a breach of a custody or parenting time order. Law enforcement frequently declines to get involved. Police tell the parties that this is a “civil matter.” That it needs to be resolved by filing motions in the court that issued the original order. On a party’s motion, the family law judge can impose fines or jail time on violators. The family law judge will use civil or criminal contempt laws. If law enforcement gets involved it is parental kidnapping that is highly serious. And involve physical abuse or even fleeing the country.

 

What can I do if my ex-spouse won���t return the children?

Contact the police if your non-custodial ex-spouse keeps your child for more than twenty-four hours after the time the child was to be returned. And, if you can’t get in touch with your ex, and if you think your ex is not planning to return the child.

If you think your ex would kidnap your child, your attorney can petition the court. Petitions can include safeguards like supervised visitation and posting bail. Another safeguard is entering the child’s name in the Children’s Passport Issuance Alert Program in its visitation order.

We understand how frustrating it must be to be denied parental time. You don’t need to start slamming doors or fighting with your ex-spouse. Contact a lawyer. Your lawyer will be aware of how to avoid these obstacles.

If not, speak with your neighborhood Friend of the Court.

The following steps should be taken by a party whose parenting time has been withheld for any reason (including children not being returned to the custodial parent):

[ 1 ]�� Verify the court’s most recent parenting time order to vouch for the fact that you were not granted parenting time.

��[ 2 ] Send a written complaint to the FOC office outlining the violation of parenting time.

Give specific dates and times when the parenting time was violated. The FOC office should be contacted as well before registering your complaint. Find out whether there are any further needs or crucial instructions.

[3] Make sure to timely submit your complaint. You have 56 days after the parenting time was violated to submit a written complaint to the FOC.

[4] Print down a copy of the complaint and save one for your records.

A parent abducting their own child is not unheard of. Perhaps they were denied custody or they are enraged and wish to harm the other parent. In any case, parental kidnapping is illegal both at the federal level and in Michigan. Preventing a parent or child from acquiring a passport. This is one method of preventing international parental kidnapping. It is very challenging to leave the United States without a passport.

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