Social Media Do’s and Don’ts During Divorce

We live in a day and age where social media use runs rampant—you may have even stumbled upon this blog after seeing it posted on our Facebook!

While social media was designed to be friendly and positive, there are instances where poor social media use can lead to severe problems that can follow you for years.

If you’re on social media and going through a divorce or child custody legal problem, it’s important to follow these do’s and don’ts to avoid extra issues with your ex-spouse.

DON’T stalk your ex’s every move on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram. This can lead to you missing out on important things that are happening in your (and your children’s) own lives. It’s time to learn to live without worrying about what they’re doing.

DON’T post any disparaging comments about your soon to be ex or even their family. Remember, social media is “social”, and it’s quite common that a mutual friend may see your post and show your ex. This could be used against you in court.

DO not complain about your children or any parental duties—even if you’re just trying to be funny or make a joke. How you mean something doesn’t always come through on social media, and this could be used against you in court during a custody case.

DO not highlight any new relationships. You still have unresolved problems with your ex and are going through a divorce or custody proceeding—this can reflect negatively on you. Refrain from posting any photos of you and a new beau—instead, keep these private and enjoy the time without being public.

DON’T change your relationship status until things have been finalized in court. Why? Because this change can prompt questions and comments from other social media friends—and anything you post can be used against you in a court of law if someone takes a screenshot. It’s better to wait until after your day in court.

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We’d love to learn more about your case and fill you in on how we can help you experience the best possible legal results. If you’re going through a divorce or family law issue, you need our expertise by your side.

Contact us today to learn how we can help and schedule your free, no obligation legal consultation. We look forward to speaking with you.

Social Media Dos and Donts During Divorce

We live in a day and age where social media use runs rampantyou may have even stumbled upon this blog after seeing it posted on our Facebook!

While social media was designed to be friendly and positive, there are instances where poor social media use can lead to severe problems that can follow you for years.

If youre on social media and going through a divorce or child custody legal problem, its important to follow these dos and donts to avoid extra issues with your ex-spouse.

DONT stalk your exs every move on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram. This can lead to you missing out on important things that are happening in your (and your childrens) own lives. Its time to learn to live without worrying about what theyre doing.

DONT post any disparaging comments about your soon to be ex or even their family. Remember, social media is social, and its quite common that a mutual friend may see your post and show your ex. This could be used against you in court.

DO not complain about your children or any parental dutieseven if youre just trying to be funny or make a joke. How you mean something doesnt always come through on social media, and this could be used against you in court during a custody case.

DO not highlight any new relationships. You still have unresolved problems with your ex and are going through a divorce or custody proceedingthis can reflect negatively on you. Refrain from posting any photos of you and a new beauinstead, keep these private and enjoy the time without being public.

DONT change your relationship status until things have been finalized in court. Why? Because this change can prompt questions and comments from other social media friendsand anything you post can be used against you in a court of law if someone takes a screenshot. Its better to wait until after your day in court.

Need Help? Were Here

Wed love to learn more about your case and fill you in on how we can help you experience the best possible legal results. If youre going through a divorce or family law issue, you need our expertise by your side.

Contact us today to learn how we can help and schedule your free, no obligation legal consultation. We look forward to speaking with you.

Social Media Do���s and Don���ts During Divorce

We live in a day and age where social media use runs rampant���you may have even stumbled upon this blog after seeing it posted on our Facebook!

While social media was designed to be friendly and positive, there are instances where poor social media use can lead to severe problems that can follow you for years.

If you���re on social media and going through a divorce or child custody legal problem, it���s important to follow these do���s and don���ts to avoid extra issues with your ex-spouse.

DON���T stalk your ex���s every move on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram. This can lead to you missing out on important things that are happening in your (and your children���s) own lives. It���s time to learn to live without worrying about what they���re doing.

DON���T post any disparaging comments about your soon to be ex or even their family. Remember, social media is ���social���, and it���s quite common that a mutual friend may see your post and show your ex. This could be used against you in court.

DO not complain about your children or any parental duties���even if you���re just trying to be funny or make a joke. How you mean something doesn���t always come through on social media, and this could be used against you in court during a custody case.

DO not highlight any new relationships. You still have unresolved problems with your ex and are going through a divorce or custody proceeding���this can reflect negatively on you. Refrain from posting any photos of you and a new beau���instead, keep these private and enjoy the time without being public.

DON���T change your relationship status until things have been finalized in court. Why? Because this change can prompt questions and comments from other social media friends���and anything you post can be used against you in a court of law if someone takes a screenshot. It���s better to wait until after your day in court.

Need Help? We���re Here

We���d love to learn more about your case and fill you in on how we can help you experience the best possible legal results. If you���re going through a divorce or family law issue, you need our expertise by your side.

Contact us today to learn how we can help and schedule your free, no obligation legal consultation. We look forward to speaking with you.

The Top Five Reasons for Divorce


When you enter a marriage, rarely do you do so thinking it will end in divorce. Yet today, nearly half of all marriages end in exactly that manner.

As divorce attorneys in Michigan, we’ve seen common and uncommon reasons that have lead couples down that path.

Here are the five most frequent reasons we see couples get divorced because of.

1. Infidelity. While this can be related to other reasons on this list, infidelity itself is a top cause of divorce. This can be a very painful thing to deal with, and often times, partners may try to work it out before seeking a divorce. In the long run, it can be tough to overcome.

2. Lack of commitment. When you enter into a marriage, you need to be 100% committed to putting the marriage and your spouse first, above your own needs. Sometimes, people think they’re totally committed to their spouse, but over time, realize they aren’t. If you’re beginning to notice that you don’t seem like a priority, have a conversation with your partner before things get worse.

3. Too much fighting. Did you know that over half of divorced couples have cited “too much conflict” as a top reason for their divorce? Frequent arguments can lead to the breakdown of a marriage, especially because the root of fighting is often poor communication. If you notice your partner and you fighting more often, take a step back and ask yourself to focus on positive communication instead.

4. Money issues. Sometimes, financial problems cause extreme burden that can lead to arguments and marital strain. This typically isn’t the number one reason that couples seek a divorce, but it’s a common stressor that can be “added on top” of another reason for separation.

5. Entering the marriage too young. Young love is a beautiful thing—but it doesn’t always last. Sometimes, marriages begin without the spouses knowing who they are and what they truly want.

Speak With an Expert Michigan Divorce Lawyer

While we certainly wish you well in your marriage, we want you to know that we’re here for you if things get sour. Learn more about your rights and how to protect yourself, and possibly your children, during a Michigan divorce by contacting our practice to schedule your free legal consultation today.

We look forward to helping you and seeking the best results for your case.

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We recognize that people in transition due to divorce, child custody or support disputes or in the crisis of domestic violence need seasoned legal advice in order to safeguard the best interests of their families. Our law firm is well versed in promoting dispute resolution through mediation, and we help our family law clients reach amicable agreements when possible. As well as representing clients in divorce and support matters, we help individuals anticipating marriage protect their interests through prenuptial agreements.

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Should You Sell Your Wedding Ring After Divorce?

When a divorce is done and you’ve moved on, some are left wondering what they should do with their wedding ring. Of course, you likely aren’t wearing it any longer, so it sits in your bedside table or in a box in the closet. For some, selling it makes sense.

But does it make sense for you?

Here are a few things to consider.

Financial Reasons to Sell

By now, you know that divorce can be a costly process, and it can have a lasting effect on your finances—attorney fees, alimony, asset division and even tax issues all add up. You may be wondering what new income you can generate to offset some costs—which is why many turn to selling their ring.

While valuable yet no longer essential, an engagement and wedding ring set is a symbol of a broken relationship for a divorcée. Parting with your ring, and making money, can help you cut ties with your past while also improving your financial future.

Remember to…

– Make sure you are selling your ring to a diamond specialist who can give you an accurate price that’s honest.

– Do some research to find a reputable person or company who wants to buy your ring.

– Make sure whoever you choose to sell your ring to can process payment quickly and doesn’t give you the run around when it comes to cashing a check.

– Never work with a company that is not accredited with the BBB—this can be a huge mistake and result in you never getting paid for your ring.

Aside from financial gain, selling a wedding ring allows you to begin to let go and look past objects that once had a hold on you.

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If you’re going through a Michigan divorce and need a legal expert by your side, contact us to book a free, no obligation phone consultation today. A member of our team will listen to your needs and concerns so that we can have a better idea of how to fight for your rights.

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How to Enjoy the Holiday Season After Divorce

The holidays should be a happy time filled with family, laughter and good food. For some going through a divorce, it’s a far cry from that. If you find your emotions are out of whack this holiday season, we’ve got some tips for you to avoid a less-than-jolly holiday and New Year.

Evaluate your traditions. While letting go of traditions may seem sad, it can actually lift a huge burden off of your shoulders. Ask yourself—was this tradition really working for me anyway? Now you’ve got a chance to reinvent your holiday season in whatever way you wish!

Stay away from too much alcohol. It’s no secret that with holiday parties and gatherings, alcohol is typically in no short supply. If you’re finding yourself emotional, don’t turn to drinks to cheer yourself up. This can become an unhealthy crutch that can follow you into the New Year and beyond.

Don’t make a New Year’s resolution. Yes, you read that correctly. Let’s be honest—we rarely keep the resolutions that we do make. Instead of making a resolution for 2020, evaluate what worked and what didn’t work. Take time to focus on what you learned and what you plan to conquer in 2020. Focus on what you can do to make 2020 your best year yet.

Keep your negative thoughts in check. It’s easy to see what others are celebrating this Christmas or New Year and dwell on wanting those things. In a year, you’ll look back at this holiday season and be amazed at how far you’ve come.

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If you’d like to learn more about how our team of expert Michigan attorneys can help you through your divorce, please, contact us today to schedule your free, no obligation consultation. During this free call, we’ll be able to learn more about your unique needs and develop a plan for going forward.

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7 Quotes to Get You Through Divorce

We know better than anyone that divorce brings tough times—emotionally, physically, and even financially.

It’s important to do your best to remain positive both for yourself and any children involved. At Goldman & Associates Law Firm, we believe in helping clients through every aspect of their divorce—especially when they may be feeling a bit down.

To help get you through these tough days, we hope you’ll enjoy the collection of our favorite divorce quotes below.

1. “And so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.” Author J.K. Rowling.

2. “It’s sad when something comes to an end. It cracks you open, in a way—cracks you open to feeling. When you try to avoid the pain, it creates greater pain.” – Jennifer Aniston, Actress.

3. “In college, I had a course in Latin, and one day the word divorce came up. I always figured it came from some root that meant divide. In truth, it comes from divertere, which means to divert. I believe that. All divorce does is divert you.” – Mitch Albom, Author.

4. “You can come at it very aggressively and blame and blame and blame. Or you can put yourself in the garage, so to speak. Take yourself apart and clean off the bits. Reassemble.” –Chris Martin, singer and musician.

5. “Anyone who gets divorced goes through a lot of pain, but you come out of it.” Ryan Reynolds, Actor.

6. “Divorce is in the machine now, like love and birth and death. Its possibility informs us, even when it goes untouched. And if we fail at marriage we are lucky we don’t have to fail with the force of our whole life.” –Ann Patchett, author.

7. “Maybe part of finding what you wanted was recognizing what you didn’t want. Maybe there was hope for me yet.” –Claire Cook, Author

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How to Uncover Hidden Assets in a Divorce

While a divorce can sometimes feel like it’s pulling you in several different directions, it’s important to remember to take one thing at a time.

A big consideration you should make is deciding whether or not you feel your ex has been honest about their disclosure of assets. If you’re suspicious that they could have been hiding assets leading up to the divorce, an experienced Michigan family law attorney can help you find out.

Examine Tax Returns

A spouse who hides assets will sometimes make a “big deal” about you bringing up a discrepancy, which can be red flag number one. Some spouses will also claim that they have lost certain assets in question, whether it was through a bad bed or poor financial management. Other people may even go as far as to transfer money to a family member or friend for safekeeping until the divorce passes.

One of the best ways to find out if your spouse is hiding assets is to request a review of their tax returns. This can help you figure out a few things, including:

  • Any taxes that were paid on property as itemized deductions you may not have known about.
  • Capital gains in relation to your spouse’s securities
  • Any income obtained through commercial property or quiet ventures on Schedule E
  • Interest that was earned through discreet investments on Schedule B, or even interest that may be missing.

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No matter what stage of divorce you’re in, we want to help. The assistance of a Michigan divorce lawyer can make an immense improvement in the outcome of your case. We’re proud to offer free legal consultations—simply give us a call to schedule yours.

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Can Divorce Affect Your Career?

Everyone knows that divorce can affect your personal life in both positive and negative ways. But at the end of the day, staying in an unhealthy marriage is never a good thing.

What you may not consider when going through a divorce is whether or not it can affect your career. When one partner decides to leave a marriage, it might change how both need to think of their career and finances.

Full-time workers may have to lower their hours to accommodate for life as a single parent if children are involved. And if you didn’t work during the marriage, it could be time to consider how you’ll pay your bills on a single income.

Whatever your circumstances are, it’s likely that you career will be affected, at least in the short term. Here are a few tips for handling those changes.

Consider Your Options Early On

Whatever your unique situation is, planning early on can make the transition easier for you and your loved ones. It’s completely fine to ask family and friends for help watching your kids while you go on interviews, work longer hours or search for a new job.

If you don’t have children, there are other considerations you can make when it comes to your budget and where you stand financially, including:

Are you going to need to put in more hours? If so, speak with your manager to find out if it’s possible.
Is it time to find a higher paying job? Search job boards or speak with HR at your current position to see if you may be considered for a promotion.
If you didn’t work during your marriage, do you need to find a job to become financially independent?

Get Help Today

If you’re going through a divorce, we can help. Our experienced family law attorneys have more than four decades of combined experience helping people just like you achieve the outcomes you desire.

We’d love to meet you and learn more about your needs. To schedule your free legal consultation, simply give us a call.